I am a 26 year old woman and I have no friends. It was so that I was unable to form a lasting friendship with anyone. I haven't quarreled with anyone and I haven't offended anyone, I'm just obviously not interesting. Over the years, the roads parted with my friends from college and I deleted my Facebook account, then it's all over. No one has called me since. I only have 20 subscribers in my phonebook. Sometimes I think to activate my account again, although I have no friends in it, everything is deleted. Hoping that someone can see me and add me and communicate. My friend is very jealous and forbids me under the pretext that only the sludge and the unfortunates who can't fish have profiles there, but I feel lonely. He hasn't paid much attention to me lately and only remembers when I'm about to activate my account.
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Don't make excuses that no one is looking for you. Who and how many times did you search? Think about what kind of people you want to have in your life and look for them, whether this boyfriend is a man or not, it will be time and then you will be alone again. Make connections with interesting people for you and not for someone else.
Um, live, when you're talking to someone, aren't you looking at each other? What makes a photo more disturbing? My opinion is that people have become lazy. Lazy in their social contacts. Facebook has only contributed to socializing being something "by the way" while waiting in the park, having coffee with a friend while traveling, etc. I don't think it's a bad idea to have an account. Especially if you want to be aware of the lives of people you don't see often. Or to receive some hypocritical greeting for RD. Not bad, it's a matter of how you use it. And your man is just afraid that someone will steal from you. But without friends and contacts it is difficult to live. Refraining from this on the pretext that it makes you a higher person than ordinary users is also not good - as I see you have no alternative.
If you want, activate this profile. Your friend is domineering and jealous, I don't know how you deal with such a person. Please note that activating your account will lead to disputes between you. I'm worried that you will activate the account and deactivate it in an hour, because your friend thinks that Facebook is a dating site. That is why I advise you to make a firm decision and not to give up. I have a Facebook account and I use it mainly for friends. We chat and that's it. I don't tag anywhere and I rarely upload personal information. Former classmates contacted me, I learned that they have children, we started talking on the phone and going out. I do not add strangers, so rarely men decide to flirt with me. Facebook has two sides and it's up to you which one you choose. I'm not a fan of social media, but many people prefer messaging to talking on the phone. Times have changed. It doesn't matter where you make an appointment with a friend you haven't heard from in 5 years, because you will finally see each other again.
It's nice to activate it. However, I do not like a few things. What kind of lowly and disgusting person is your friend to use words like "sludge" and "miserable" for people? To me, such a person is complete rubbish and offspring, and if you are with him, this does not speak well for you. The other thing is that just because you're lonely doesn't mean that people will pay attention to you, want to pay attention to you, etc. Will you wait for someone to "see and add you"? What if they don't add you? Besides, are you afraid that they will see your picture and that you will write? You feel lonely and you want to communicate, how come you are so afraid to communicate? Having a Facebook account is nothing special, there are billions of profiles and no one cares about yours unless you make a huge effort to promote it. I think you have a strange sense of specialty, which is simply not real. As now no one is looking for you and to create an account no one will do it, Facebook is not a dating site. If you want to communicate you will have to do a lot, only with the dramatic "activation of the account" nothing will happen.