Hello, I am 17 and I am a boy from Plovdiv. Too modest, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I have someone to go out with, but when we get together, they talk about topics that don't excite me at all, so I can't join the conversation. I stay aside and pretend to listen to them and that it's interesting to me, but in fact, as they say, "I'm there in body, not in spirit." And if I don't go out with them, I have to be alone on the computer all the time. Share what to do in such situations, I want to meet someone with whom we have a common language and topics of conversation, to be constantly together, to defend ourselves in difficult times, but I do not know where to look for such people and how to friendly. Thanks in advance for your understanding and advice :)
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Hello. I'm also from Plovdiv, only I'm 15 and I'm a girl * laughs * .. I know your story very well .. I also don't feel at home when I'm with the company. I am interested in much different and (at the risk of sounding immodest), much more mature topics. Now I even prefer to go out alone .. I'm more interested than with those pickles with whom I can not have a conversation like people .. If you ask me .. Better either go meet someone at your level, or just you keep standing in front of your computer (whatever it is, at least there are many places on the Internet where you can find people to talk to in a meaningful way). This was from me .. Many greetings and good luck from me: Polly (:
Oooo, man, I'm a girl, 14 and I'm in the same situation ..... no friends, only acquaintances who when they need me I'm with them, but when it comes to me .... no one I don't care .... I was looking for friends, but nothing ...... but there are passengers for each train and it's still too early for any conclusions :)
I AM A GIRL OF 18 YEARS. AND I KNOW THIS. I WILL GIVE YOU ADVICE THAT IT DOES NOT MAKE SENSE TO GO OUT WITH PEOPLE WITH WHOM YOU ARE NOT PLEASANT ONLY AND ONLY TO HAVE SOMEONE TO GO OUT WITH. TRY TO SIGN UP FOR SOMETHING, IF YOU NEED TO FIND PEOPLE OLDER THAN YOU WITH WHOM YOU WILL LIKE YOUR INTERESTS. DO NOT ALLOW LONELINESS TO SWALLOW YOU. I WAS IN YOUR SITUATION. IT ONLY DEPENDS ON YOU TO GET OUT OF THE SWAMP. SUCCESS!
I'm the same as you. I understand you very well. It's like telling my story.
Find people at your level yes (: You just shouldn't pretend to be what you are not (: Find new friends a new company and you will be better (:
Look .. I don't think you should look for a company .. it's easier to find a person, but he should be really loyal to you .. it doesn't matter gender .. the important thing is to be a real friend .. don't choose him by appearance , because in most cases you will make a lot of mistakes .. and by the way, try your "fr" ones to see if they really are like that for you .. Have you ever wondered if there is no other such person in the company who also doesn't find common ground with others and pretends to listen to them ...;]
I am a 14 year old boy from Varna. And I'm like number 2 and like the author. I'm always by their side, rubbing something on them, but they don't care about me. And they talk about topics that don't excite me and I spend all day sitting on the computer!
I fully understand the author, 2 and 7, but I just live in a small town and there is not so much choice in terms of companies and friends. There are a circle of people I move with, but I don't feel very well in my own waters with them. It has been the same with another company as it is now. I don't want to think that the reason I can't find friends to look like, have a good time with, and have something to talk about is a problem that comes from myself. I think we need to be more sociable and communicate with more people who are not from our company, and if we find people with whom we can feel better, then leave the old "friends" because there may come a time in which to stay alone, and this is not good for me ...
"No friends, only acquaintances." Until recently, I thought this chatter wasn't true, but really everyone thinks of themselves ... no matter how much we don't want to.
Haha darling, do you understand that only now! It is very clear that everyone will look after themselves. If you expected some of your friends to help you dear, then you live in a huge lie! And yet don't forget YOU DON'T LIVE WITH FRIENDS !!!!!!!!
Yes, that's right, you don't live with friends, noooo why, why and again why the hell do you say that there are no real friends, I only have one person close to me, but I can feel that he will die for me (it's not about the friend at all) we). Come on, now everyone will say to themselves "another deluded girl". But don't find out, I can sacrifice for my friends because they may be very few, but there are still some. All but one of you in this topic are desperate and I have been through this and I promise you that if any of you write your Skype after a while we will meet and you will radically change your attitude on this issue! Come on, who will dare to do that.
You don't have friends you can count on, think about why. And since they are not pleasant for you, why do you move with them at all !?
№11 I definitely don't sleep that you are another deluded girl. On the contrary, I envy you nobly, because there is nothing more valuable than what you have understood. I am also one of the "lost souls". I'm super lonely, I don't have real friends, but I'm looking for the reason in myself. I think that everyone should intoxicate themselves first and before judging others. He has real friends. It is only a matter of time before you meet them, it is a matter of intelligence to evaluate them, it is a matter of dedication to keep them. It is a pity, however, that we cannot realize these things in time. I would dare to leave my skypa. And now to the author. Sometimes happy souls hide where you don't think they should. You just have to open your heart and accept them. If you close, you achieve nothing!
I am №11. Until № 13. Thank you I'm glad I'm not the only one who believes in friendship. And one piece of advice: In order to find real friends, first of all be one. Show the person next to you what you are capable of and he will reciprocate in the same way.
Are you crazy? Most de. How can there be no real friends? If you yourself think that you can be a true friend to someone, why don't you believe that others can be too. The fact is that there are few people who would not be selfish and would help in critical situations. But don't you know the saying: "What knocked, called"? ... Believe a little more, but not too much. After all, a person's best friend is his own self.
I am 12 years old. All my classmates are very slimy, and I want to be a little more serious because I'm not that small. I listen to rock, not chalga, I dress as I like .. I am very different from them .. What can I do, I live in a hell of a small town, do I have to live without real friends? :(
No real friends! To the author: write to me at [email protected]
To the author: I am very much looking for such people. I would like to meet you very much. Of course, this applies to anyone who wishes. If anyone wants to write, [email protected] or shadow_the_hedgehog_003 in skype :).
iiii yes :( .. And I lived in a small town (Ruse really narrow city) where only negativity and simplicity turned. Only around the center there is life, the rest of the breast is lost .. For the girls (abe why everyone is trying to become MILF ..) so..it's not so bad not to have friends indulge in something (like music, books..art .. 8)) I guess I didn't tell you what you want to hear but don't you think this is an opening for a new entrance into your life? With a lot of love and health
Hi, I'm 16 years old and my story is exactly the same. It's summer now and it's a vacation, and most of the time I sit at home and I'm interested in my future. I even started learning a language, although I still have 2 years until the end of high school. Today I went out for coffee with the "company". It was a curiosity that two supposedly good friends, ass and panties, got angry at each other for the biggest nonsense I've ever heard. They arranged for the sea, but because one of them would come and kept repeating that she would not be able to go and apologize, and the other, today, after they did not go to the sea, did not call her, and the other girl automatically said: She I'm angry now. That's why he won't call me. And I won't call her. In the end, the girl with the automatic line left as it was hellishly baked for him, I became super dumb because of the simplicity, and the other, who is angry, even curses her and shouts - to be angry with me, what do I care. And my best friend, who was taken away from me by this same cursing girl, supported her and even said I would rather I. be angry with me than A. - the angry girl. I don't think I need to say that this is not a friendship. Example, we haven't seen each other in a month, I'm wondering how to cover myself, and yet, even though I've been asked a thousand times why I don't go out, there hasn't been a single text message, Ive, we're going out tonight, come see me . Only last night, and from a girl from the company with whom we are not so close. Come to think of it, we are a good company, but only a company. For going out, a few gossips and birthdays. But true friends, hardly. Or as they sing Metallica in one song - Sad, but true. = [ what interests me. And my best friend, who was taken away from me by this same cursing girl, supported her and even said I would rather I. be angry with me than A. - the angry girl. I don't think I need to say that this is not a friendship. Example, we haven't seen each other in a month, I'm wondering how to cover myself, and yet, even though I've been asked a thousand times why I don't go out, there hasn't been a single text message, Ive, we're going out tonight, come see me . Only last night, and from a girl from the company with whom we are not so close. Come to think of it, we are a good company, but only a company. For going out, a few gossips and birthdays. But true friends, hardly. Or as they sing Metallica in one song - Sad, but true. = [ what interests me. And my best friend, who was taken away from me by this same cursing girl, supported her and even said I prefer I. to be angry with me than A. - the angry girl. I don't think I need to say that this is not a friendship. Example, we haven't seen each other in a month, I'm wondering how to cover myself, and yet, even though I've been asked a thousand times why I don't go out, there hasn't been a single text message, Ive, we're going out tonight, come see me . Only last night, and from a girl from the company with whom we are not so close. Come to think of it, we are a good company, but only a company. For going out, a few gossips and birthdays. But true friends, hardly. Or as they sing Metallica in one song - Sad, but true. = [ he supported her and even said that I would rather I. be angry with me than A. - the angry girl. I don't think I need to say that this is not a friendship. Example, we haven't seen each other in a month, I'm wondering how to cover myself, and yet, even though I've been asked a thousand times why I don't go out, there hasn't been a single text message, Ive, we're going out tonight, come see me . Only last night, and from a girl from the company with whom we are not so close. Come to think of it, we are a good company, but only a company. For going out, a few gossips and birthdays. But true friends, hardly. Or as they sing Metallica in one song - Sad, but true. = [ he supported her and even said that I would rather I. be angry with me than A. - the angry girl. I don't think I need to say that this is not a friendship. Example, we haven't seen each other in a month, I'm wondering how to cover myself, and yet, even though I've been asked a thousand times why I don't go out, there hasn't been a single text message, Ive, we're going out tonight, come see me . Only last night, and from a girl from the company with whom we are not so close. Come to think of it, we are a good company, but only a company. For going out, a few gossips and birthdays. But true friends, hardly. Or as they sing Metallica in one song - Sad, but true. = [ even though I was asked thousands of times why I didn't go out, there was not a single text message, Ive, we're going out tonight, come see me. Only last night, and from a girl from the company with whom we are not so close. Come to think of it, we are a good company, but only a company. For going out, a few gossips and birthdays. But true friends, hardly. Or as they sing Metallica in one song - Sad, but true. = [ even though I was asked thousands of times why I didn't go out, there wasn't a single text message, Ive, we're going out tonight, come see me. Only last night, and from a girl from the company with whom we are not so close. Come to think of it, we are a good company, but only a company. For going out, a few gossips and birthdays. But true friends, hardly. Or as they sing Metallica in one song - Sad, but true. = [
Hello, I am from Sofia and I am 12 years old. And I am a girl. I have another problem. I recently left and when I came back there was a new child in the neighborhood who was playing with my friends. I went to them to introduce myself to the new one but suddenly they started insulting me and whispering against me. I was very sad and I went. What can I do to become my friends again? Please tell ......
Hello everyone, I think you will not take me seriously because I am small, but I want to express my opinion. I am from the town of Chirpan at the age of 11. For the boy from Plovdiv - 17 years old. I want to say - I think you can tell them in your eyes that you do not care about these topics, and if they are real friends they will agree with you and change the topics. He must always tell the truth in the eyes of our friends, no matter how hard and disliked
To number 22. And I am 12 years old from Chirpan. Win them again. Start doing the same as before. And tell them you want past friends, past comrades from before. Tell them how you feel. I have had many such stories
I'm from Plovdiv too and I'm a 15-year-old girl. if you want write to me in skype l0st.star in english.
grateful that you have any friends at all. The real ones will show themselves when the time comes
Hello! And I can say that I am in the same situation as most who have written here. However, I'm not desperate and I'm still trying to find new friends with whom we can talk normally and trust each other. In fact, I have no preference for the topics we discuss when we get together with friends. In fact, I've been to 3-4 different companies, some of them World of Warcraft maniacs, others smokers and drunks, and others I thought were normal turned out to be traitors. However, I continue to go out with the 3 companies at different times, because I do not want to hide at home and become dependent on not going out. And as I wrote more here I am from Plovdiv, but I actually live in the countryside, but I study in the city :) And yet to the main thing in this topic and I'm looking for new friends,
Hello! I am a girl myself and I suffered a lot with a friend who at least expected me to stab me in the back, but it hurt a lot and I will never forgive him, and as the saying goes "it's easier to forgive an enemy than a friend "! !! I do not despair, but I wanted to say that there are very rare people who can be relied on .. Trust only yourself! !! !!
Hello! I am a girl of 15. My story is quite familiar, because I am in such a state. But I also use NATO number 2. But my advice is to go out with them, maybe one day I will meet a friend like you. You can't just sit at home. So good luck and don't despair.
I am 21 and I am not in a different position from most of those who wrote here. I can only recommend that you do not lose faith in true friendship and do not become cool and cynical individuals simply because at this stage (12, 15, 17 years) you do not have company. Sometimes there is no better company than 1-2 people, but faithful to the grave. Success!
HELLO! EVERYONE HERE IS RIGHT .... THIS HAPPENS TO ME ALMOST EVERY DAY. FIRST ONE, EMI DROPPED ME BECAUSE WE WERE OF DIFFERENT CLASSES .... AND TOLD ME THAT IN THE CHAT, THEN I WAS DESTROYED, I THOUGHT ... really friends or invented to make them seek and do not find them ... MY ADVICE TO YOU IS TO wonder if your friends are really YOU ANY, AND TO WHETHER SOMEONE that have not noticed, but I wanted to YOU FRIENDS! I AM SURE YOU WILL FIND A GREAT FRIEND:]]]
And so am I ... Some time ago I had an argument with some of my "friends" and they wanted me to change so that I could be friends with them. And since I only went with them from my class, now it turns out that I have no friends ... Only from the other classes, but it's just like your case ... A person needs friends, but one of the most important things is to they accept who you are, not like me - to want to change. Look for them with your heart! I hope I was useful! :)
It's the same with me, I'm 13 years old and I have a lot of "friends" we meet almost every day yesterday they did not notice that I was gone
"I have a lot of 'friends' - you know the funniest part? They didn't even notice I was gone." This speaks quite eloquently, and although the subject is old, I will draw two lines. There are no friends or if you have any at all, they are 1-2 maximum. Having 20 friends is just not like that. I am almost 25 years old and I have encountered a lot of things, the most important thing I think is to realize your purpose in life. One has to learn and be self-sufficient, but that does not mean avoiding others. Just don't waste your time with them. I will give you a simple example. From say 10 people you thought were friends, someone has to help you find a job or give you a loan at a difficult time, or if you want to be sheltered for a while, will there be one to answer? on this criterion? Think well while a person is young he tends to see things through rose-colored glasses, but when he encounters life and sees that there is no help from anywhere but himself, things change. So much for me. Bye. PS And as there was a saying "Times change", and hence people and their priorities in life, and therefore friendships. ;-)
I don't even have superficial friendships !!! So don't complain!
Well, just go to more public places, meet more people, and you'll see - you'll find a change! :)