I don't know how to start. I am a girl of 15 and I have terrible parents, ie. I don't have parents, because they never took care of me, I did everything to attract attention and but not fear. I tried with my grades, my diploma for my 8th grade was a full 6, but they didn't see it, even I show them they don't look at all. Then I changed my grades in 9th grade, I started with 2, 3, but still there is no reaction. They don't care about me at all, I even cut off my hands and they already saw it, but the reaction was "Why did those who give you akil for that" and I just said that "nobody gives me a mind, I did it because I was suffering and very sad "and then said good and left. Again, there is no reaction. My parents don't love me, why don't I know what I've done to live as if I'm gone. And the same with the friendly environment, again no one sees. I'm still alone at school and more at home. Why am I alone everywhere, why won't someone love me, I'm tired of loneliness. I do not want to live. Apart from my uncle, there is no one else to take care of me, yes, he is. If it weren't for him, I probably would have killed myself. I know what you are saying is not thinking nonsense but whoever lived it will not be able to understand me. I apologize for the spelling mistakes.
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Hi, I don't know what to tell you about your parents, except that they are liberal (they let you do what you want without being interested in) which is very bad and sucks !!! But don't close your nose and you will see that one day you will get up and things around you will be better :). And as for friends, you need to communicate more with everyone, and you will see that a good friend will always emerge from somewhere :). I wish you success and do not pay attention to the behavior of your parents, you will see that when you grow up everything comes back, they will ask for attention from you, but you will not care !!! I wish you all the best :)!!!
As nasty as it sounds, I don't think you're wanted in this family. I am in a similar situation and I am not able to give you advice even though I want to. But I can tell you that it is best to abstract from your parents and live independently (I do not mean to move out, but just to be more independent and not care so much about their opinion) ... Good luck to you wishing ...!
Number 2 is right.
Your parents don't respect you, I just want to tell you it's not worth doing nonsense (in the sense of thinking about suicide or cutting something to get attention), hear some day you have to let them go and live alone. My parents call me all day because because of the grades they want me to have 6 or at least 4 or at least, to be honest 3 it irritates me again I don't know if it would be nice for you to call you for everything and every day from 24 hours a day has been so for as long as I can remember and this is from the age of 8 DO NOT DO FOOLISH !!!!
Dear author, I assume that your parents have their own problems that you do not even suspect, which has taken them away from the real closeness to you. I don't justify them, but apparently they don't realize how much you suffer, busy with your own problems - and these problems, believe me, for an adult, are not insignificant. That's why he doesn't judge them so harshly. Think if they weren't there at all, how much harder it would be for you. Show your love for them, especially for your mother, and I'm sure she will notice this and respond with love. I have a daughter a little younger than you and the most important thing for me is to show her how much I love her and I am very happy when I see her love for me. So remember my advice - SHOW YOUR LOVE, TALK ABOUT IT AND I AM SURE THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL CHANGE!
From the author ... To № 5 ... It is very nasty for a girl not to have a mother next to her, isn't it? And then they feel terrible. And I don't have a mother, when I was 4 she died. I tell you, in this world I am alone ... I HAVE GROWN UP AND I WILL DIE ALONE ... but as I see it, it will not be too late.
To №6: Not having maternal care and warmth is not the worst, believe me. Personally, I know many of my peers who grew up without a mother. True, it is difficult, you feel lonely and unwanted, but you still have to move forward. And everyone is facing all sorts of trials, here's yours. You have to overcome it and if you succeed you will become a very strong woman (I say strong when I mean mentally). You should not despair, obviously the people around you do not pay enough attention to you. Then why don't you find friends, you look like an intelligent girl with a great character, I'm sure there are people who are looking for just such a friend. Come on, try it, you have nothing to lose, you can only gain a person next to you. If you want you can write to my email [email protected] I will be happy to talk a little! SFA
AND I AM SO, I KNOW WHAT IT IS TO YOU, BUT I LIVE WITH THE FAITH THAT IT WILL NOT BE SO FOREVER. EVERYONE IS EVERYONE HAPPY.
Sweet, I personally prefer to have your parents, and it's better for them not to pay attention to me than for mine to hang on your head and you can't go out normally with fr
Don't worry, you're unhappy now, but as they say, God is always righteous
I don't know what to tell you, I'm like that too, the bad thing is that things don't change in any way over time
Hello! The situation with you is really bad. It's bad for me too, but in my case they pay more attention to me. They want me to have only 6s and when I get a 6 they say well done and nothing else, even just a face. When I get a 5, they tell me, why didn't you learn about a 6? !! When I get 4, they already call me and get angry with me and I don't know how it will be with 2, thank God I don't have it yet :) If they don't pay attention to you, you don't care, I stopped mine, because if I show up next to them they immediately argue with me, even if I'm not guilty. My brother did something and they called and quarreled with me, my mother quarreled with my father and then she quarreled with me. My grandmother is angry about something and she makes it for me. Basically I'm their man are getting angry, because I'm not like my brother when I'm not home for 10 hours and that's why I often try to sleep late or avoid them, because when they argue with me I get nervous and have problems at school (with grades). I live in a village but we also have an apartment in the city, and recently I decided to go and live in it, anyway it will be easier for me to go to school and save money from the tickets, which are 2 leva each. I get a scholarship and children, and ours will send me some food and so it will be great: no computer, no shouting, no anger and headaches - alone in an apartment, I will go out with friends and a teacher will be great. I'm just tired of being called in the morning, noon and evening for things that are their problem, I'll take it as a brother not to sneeze at home all day :) And if you want we can meet I'm from Plovdiv,
I'm writing it for number 12 you instead of giving her advice you write your problem and she is not interested in your problems excuse me I don't want to sound rude but I couldn't stand it
Darling, I have an acquaintance where her parents are coming .. They don't pay any attention to her .. She doesn't have many friends .. She is from the village (I don't live in the village, I just have a grandmother there but anyway) and 0 from there I know there is an older brother who takes care of her .. as far as they told me in the schools they mullet her so dear you are not the only one :) one piece of advice when you are at the table tell them how you feel and try to find more friends. I know there are people who love you but you haven't found them yet :)
My parents are wealthy and buy me everything I want but I prefer to be with them and not have these iPads for what I would not say that my parents do not pay attention to me but I want them not to talk only about work all the time when we are on vacation with whom to talk they constantly with on their phones
I'm sure they're not bad. It's just that life has become tense and nervous. They love you, believe it to the end of your days. And no one else on this earth will love you more than your parents. Whatever their attitude towards you, they will never love another person more than you .. Believe me .. !! I love my parents very much and I want the whole world to know. To live a hundred lives, they will still be my parents .. THANK YOU DEAR GOD .. Keep them and protect them, please .. !! I hope we will be together for many more years. Give them a long life and health. I don't want anything else ... A parent never thinks bad about his child.
My parents are more or less the same dough. For example, if I tell them I have bad news, they will be startled and ask what it is. I will tell them that they found an advanced tumor in my brain and they give me a year to live. And their answer will be, "Oh, thank God. We thought you were laid off. Your author's parents at least more or less care about you after they asked you why you cut your hands. If I did." , my parents would be worried if they would fire me after I took sick leave, so don't be discouraged because there are all kinds of parents, from bad and reckless to completely naughty, even for the health of their own children.
Honey, I guess you're about 22 and you're probably a student somewhere. If you are still following the topic, I want to ask how your life is going, have you moved out of the terrible situation from you, have you started your life purely following your dreams?