Hello. I'm 22 years old. I use this site because I have never enjoyed sharing these things with my friends. The title says it - I feel like I'm going to die alone. Yes, it's true - I'm only 22 years old, life is yet to come, more difficulties, joys, happiness, misfortunes ... and everything, even in larger doses. But lately, something is wrong with women. At the same time, however, I can say that I am not an unhappy person at all - on the contrary. I'm quite cheerful, I dare say happy. I study, work, train, go out, have friends ... I have friendly companies to have fun with, to relax, to feel alive. I sometimes have fun with alcohol, although I already feel a lot, a lot calmer than before ... a lot. But boyfriends are missing, connections are missing. Since I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago, things haven't been going well. Lately, I think it's like she did magic to me. Whether she, whether she cursed me with her bright eyes or someone else. This is a joke, but to some extent still. Wherever I try to take down a girl, it doesn't work. From 3-4 years mostly dating, here and there (I admit rarely), relationships like friends with privileges. But until then. That I even forgot what it's like to go on a date with a woman, to have a first date, to talk, to get to know each other, a second date, etc ... And I don't know if that's how I was brought up, but I've always been a gentleman. Others notice it, I'm not saying that. And apart from women, I really appreciate my friends and relatives and I make some presents here and there, some kind gestures, etc. However, this is clearly not the case. I don't want to brag about that at all, I just want to point out that I'm not a womanizer, I think we should treat women with respect, with compliments. Abe, I want to say that I am a good person, I have been like that over the years, I am like that now and I want to stay like that, not to treat women badly, because the truth is that some women (at least) when you crush them and you don't behave well, they listen and like you - a confession from a girl. It's been born lately, let's not call it fear, but it's a question of whether I'm not going to die alone. In general, the daily routine of 2-3 years has surrounded me tightly. Like I said, work, education, training, friends. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive, but that she should have paid less attention to her friends. I have no idea in the comments if there will be advice, laughter and ridicule, examples, I just had to share it. For two weeks now, when I'm alone, I've been pouring two or three glasses of alcohol and lighting cigarettes, I'm nervous. I don't feel as cheerful as I used to.
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Become a womanizer - hammer and bye. When you find the one you don't want to say goodbye to, you can always return to "monogamy";) Good luck!
Jesus is always with you if you allow him, God respects the free will of man, of his creation. So you are never alone, the only question is who you are with.
Hello friend! I am a boy of 20. And I am good-natured and very friendly to girls. And I'm alone, and I know what's wrong with you! This is unfortunately the case, you have to be stupid and nasty with women to like you. My last relationship ended because I was very good, I avoided conflicts and I was just bored. It's called "there's no thrill." And I no longer know what to think: /
We are no longer interesting to women, brother ... And I have that, I'm 25 and I notice it every day. This is pure accounting. I happened to go out with a girl and after I told her I was going to work by taxi or flight to look weird, now she doesn't want to see me.
Hello, I'm your set, I have a relationship, we're already starting the 5th year. I met mine on a dating site, I'm not the type of girl who goes to discos, cafes, etc. I'm more closed ... Try this on a site, this is my advice, or just wait for it to appear out of nowhere, sometimes it happens :)
Above all, it must come from within you or not! It does not happen by trial and request. Especially if you say that you've been on this "dereje" for 3-4 years ", then it's not good at all! I'm younger than you years and before and I tried like you with the girls and in the end nothing happened.
You seem to me like a completely normal young man, who is unfortunately a little lonely. I assure you that we all go through this phase, but you know that love comes uninvited and usually when you least expect it. Keep going out with friends, training and working, your social life is good and this gives you a higher chance of meeting women. Suddenly you will be in love for a while and it will seem strange that you even thought about it and worried. It is true that there are women who somehow like to crush them, but I do not advise you to pretend to be who you are not, and not if you are looking for someone suitable for you. Be nice to women, do it for yourself, I think that makes a man really a man and I am sincerely impressed when I met one. I want to open the topic of friends and love. You may think it's very stupid, but my opinion is, that the more serious a relationship becomes, the more the half must be the first choice in everything. As the years go by, people turn to family, and I think to start a family you have to think first about your partner and then about everyone else. You are young now and it is right to put your friends first and give them the attention they need, but in a few years, if you are committed, it will be right to be with your partner on a Friday night, whether or not you are out with friends, in disco or on the couch in front of the TV. Don't think about it from now on, as I told you when you were young, but don't take it for granted that you spent more time meeting a girl than friends. It's kind of nice that you were little and still chose to be with your girlfriend. You make me look like a decent man, I really believe
Don't worry, I recently ended a long relationship from which I was scalded. I have never lacked female attention. But as if after "her" things turned around, the old man was gone. And I realized that I had just collapsed and changed the person next to me to such an extent that I couldn't recognize myself. Obviously it's the same with you. Because of the person next to you, you have limited yourself, you have hidden your emotions, you have changed. I personally still can't find a solution to the problem. Let's not forget that our daily life changes as well as our thinking over the years, so maybe one day you will find the right person in the right place at the right time. At least that's what I'm counting on. Good luck
We are all born and die alone in this world, if that will calm you down.
Listen now. And I'm 22 ... and I supposedly found the girl ... but alas. Apparently I was wrong .... people plan and think things and finally what happens ... see my advice to you is: Stop thinking about it, live your life, train and set goals. Makes money works, studies. Meet new people (boys / girls). Looking for new contacts. Develop. Do what you do. When everything is as it should be and you achieve what you want ... women will start looking for you and wanting you. Trust me. Take care of your life and your interests. I do so and I feel perfect. And I know that I will find my girl very soon;)
Well, you are not far from the truth! Carpets are only interested in you while they are milking your purse. If at one point you lean on their humanity - there are none. So you better not rely on them.
You remind me so much of an ex of mine. He is the same age, in the same situation, with the difference that we broke up in the distant 2013. I think you still have not forgotten your ex and you have something unexperienced, now you just lack intimacy and do not want to be lonely (lonely in intimate plan). Just be sociable, CONFIDENT (women like confident men) and you will find the right one. Good luck :) F, 21
From comment 6: Comment 1 - are you aware that the question is not for you to be a womanizer and "hammer and bye" but whether someone would roll up before that. If no one wants to be a womanizer or not, you end up alone! If women like you, they will come to you on their own, without having to do anything! And the removal of women and communication in general come from within - you don't learn very clearly at school! Once you hit puberty you either can or you can't! Then no matter how much you "learn", you will not succeed. In short, in order for a man to fit into society and among women, three things are needed: 1. Sexual attraction based on appearance and physique. 2. Instinct. The first two are the same with animals! 3. Money and rude (possibly vulgar) nature These are one of the few things that set us apart from animals. Comment 3 - Being good, I don't see how this helps in dumps, communication and sex? !!
You have to look at yourself, what you can improve or change. If you behave like a gentleman when you are 40, he is appreciated and valued, at 20 years the approach to these wonderful young creatures requires more self-confidence and activity on your part. It is good if you like a girl to tell her at a certain moment / without swallowing your grammar, because it is tantamount to failure. / Be confident in yourself You are firmly on the ground. Don't worry about what she will think or what answer she will give you. The more confident you are, the greater your chance of success. ..
Being a gentleman at 20 gives the wrong signals to girls. Such behavior means that you expect equality from the other party, even if you give the lady the leading role in the future relationship. How do you imagine a girl smaller than you without life experience to take responsibility for solving future problems of your possible relationship. With such a profile, you would really like a poop, a few years older than you, who knows what he is doing and would gladly take you into life.
Ask yourself in a future relationship if you want and can solve problems that can ruin it: money. housing, parents, While the characters are adjusting, disputes often arise - what path are you willing to take to save your future. If you think you are ready to deal with such problems, then you are ready for a new relationship. When you meet a girl you like, she needs to meet not a hesitant gentleman, but a confident young man ready to take responsibility. When she looks you in the eye, she should read (without words) that you are clear about what she would expect from you and that you are the person ready to make her dreams come true.