It was the worst day of my life. The day I went to the eye doctor, because for a long time I feel that I can't see well, especially in the distance - I see blurred. My worst fear came true - I have to put on glasses. There is no other salvation. I am 24 years old and I am a man. A young man, in his prime ... or at least I was, so far. I don't want glasses. I hate them. I can't stand them. People who haven't had this happen to them won't understand me. It's like cutting off your arm or removing your leg. I am now officially disabled ... I automatically become a lower category person. Let's not lie, people with glasses are not attractive, they are less liked and they are looked at as if they have a disability. Women would never prefer a man with glasses to a man without glasses if all other qualities were equal. I've been told I have nice eyes, but it won't be like that anymore, because there will be screams behind two magnifying glasses ... Abe glasses are a problem, no matter where you look at it. I HATE THEM AND I DON'T WANT THEM !!! How to take it? I'm really having a hard time all this time. I didn't believe it would happen to me.
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Don't worry, I've been wearing glasses since I was 11 years old. At first I was overwhelmed by emotions - I don't know if I was happy or angry. But I got so used to it that I went in the shower with them for a while without realizing it. I had a lazy eye. You will get used to it quickly, in a week - two maximum. PP If you go to the movies or put thirty glasses on normal glasses, or just the first ones. SUCCESS !!!!!
you are not a man - you are a child
Look at it from the good side. You will now be called "Zeiss" - as the famous German mechanical engineer and optician Karl Zeiss created the company of the same name and is a sign of quality.
Put on your lenses. He only wears glasses at home. I have been like this for many years.
Abe dude, look at my health, what can I say as I have 3 eye surgeries and two lasers for detached retinas when I was 15. The eyes are the most important, keep them! put on your glasses and don't care, the important thing is to see Success properly.
Aren't you ashamed to compare limb loss to glasses? !! You are a geveze, but correct your vision operatively and you will not wear glasses - you will not be "disabled", cripple!
Is there a possibility for laser surgery? A friend wore glasses and lenses for many years, but eventually had laser surgery and forgot about everything. Now she sees perfectly, as if she has never had a problem. Learn, take an interest. It's expensive, but money is there, and it's worth it!
Do you think that you call the readers of this topic with glasses disabled? And you want advice from people with disabilities and people below you? I'm sorry, but a 24-year-old man is expected to have learned to comply with his statements. Glasses are not a problem, you make them a problem. Every 5th person has glasses. And they have all found a way to deal with their problem. It's not like cutting your legs and arms. On the contrary, it will be easier for you to see and your eyes will not be strained. Go with a friend to choose a frame and nice glass. It is not necessary to wear them 24/7, but when you feel the need, for example when driving, in front of the computer when reading. Don't offend people and don't get angry with someone just because you don't know how to deal with it.
We will all put these phones next to you to know. However, women are very strong with glasses.
Okay, haven't you heard of lenses? You put it on and you get better. Just try not to be fooled into having surgery, that there are a lot of tragic stories. PS: And cut the checks to see where it took her. And people told you you were going to go blind.
I can't even believe that this topic is real. : D We are 2018, every SECOND wears glasses. Nobody is impressed. NO ONE looks at people wearing glasses as people with disabilities ... Where do you live? Second category person? : D I can't. The problem is not your glasses, but your self-confidence, which you obviously don't have anyway ... I can't believe what dramas people have, he had to put on glasses, wow boy, terrible job ... Tighten that ..
You don't sound reasonable for your age! Women would not prefer a man with a disability.
Children's stories. The sexiest man I know this year put on glasses. And guess what: it got even sexier. But he carries it inside. Alpha, w. 29 years old
Well, how can I tell you that for every face there are frames and colors to fit. I put on glasses last year, I have astigmatism. The woman gave me some pure red frames, they were very ugly to me, she gave me the same kind but black and I fell in love with them. And as they said, you can put on lenses. But still health is important and you sound like a girl who does not want to understand that if she walks in the winter with a bare cross and will be able to get a hundred diseases. F20