Hello ... I am a 21-year-old girl .. I am a first-year student .. My problem is really serious, at least from my point of view .. I have not had sexual intercourse yet, and this torments me a lot .. Not that I have not been wanted, courted, liked, etc .. On the contrary, I go out, have fun, I have friends who love me, we party with them .. I am constantly at discos and restaurants .. But even if someone appears next to me, I don't know how I could tell him and whether I will not disappoint him and break him completely .. This thought does not give me peace ... And I really need sex ... I want peace ...
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Hi, I had your problem when I was 19. I was burning with desire for sex and I was beautiful and I didn't understand why I could never have a boyfriend. This bothered me a lot. I met a 26-year-old man and when the time came I told him I hadn't done it before but he wasn't particularly worried, maybe because he was older. Don't worry about it all coming with time, men don't get broken by being a virgin. Do it with someone you think is worth it and don't care if you come across a jerk who might laugh at you. That's why fuck him, you decide when to do it and no one has the right to laugh at you. Just grab a nice daddy and do it!
So if you try only once you will not want to stop because you will like it! There is nothing scary or embarrassing and it's been a long time!
This shouldn't bother you at all, you just haven't met the right boy, don't be in a hurry to do it with the person you really love! SUCCESS DEAR
What a comment that it's been a long time! Can anyone decide at what point something like this should happen, and how normal it is at 12-13 I do not think it's wrong, in addition, everyone has to judge for themselves when exactly to happen the first time. And there's no point in doing it if she doesn't feel prepared for it. Don't worry about it, when something has to happen it happens no matter how old you are, and if it's with the right partner it will be really nice, don't regret at all that you waited and you'll see that it was worth it. I hope you find the right person soon, and if there is anything against your virginity, then it just doesn't deserve you.
Thanks to everyone for your comments and opinions, as well as for your understanding. Wish me success and I will do it soon. Even, that's all I pray and think about. Thank you people! :)
It used to be a pride to sleep with a virgin woman. Where does the world go when women are already worried about being virgins.
Yes, I'm worried, of course. Everywhere, only sex is talked about; who did what and where. When I'm not, I feel super dumb because I'm getting complex - that no one would want me if they knew I was. It depresses and depresses me, people. It's not easy for me at all. AND THANK YOU for the comments!
And don't pay attention to them! I know it sucks, but they all follow the whistle of others! Do not follow theirs, but do what you think is right! Find a serious young man, make love, start a family! I think this is more normal than those who have sex like animals, under the road and over the road! And just being with one person, and not constantly changing partners, does not mean that you will not be happy with this person!
8) Maybe you're right. Frequent changes of people and partners are not for everyone, to be honest, although it is now fashionable to be with many people, because the experience came from there. I do not agree much with this. If you come across an experienced, he can also teach you techniques, this is not the biggest criteria. AND THANK YOU PEOPLE AGAIN FOR YOUR OPINIONS. I calmed down a bit from what you wrote.
Don't worry about not doing it. As they say above, find the person who loves and likes you. This about changing partners is stupid for me already, I'm a 19-year-old boy. before everyone said abe are you crazy to sit with a girl see how many are around you. I had a long relationship some time ago and it was much cooler for me than changing girls, for me to be with a girl for one night and then it's not my job because I think I'm fucking the girl and I'm having fun, at least I think so , I could be wrong. I WISH YOU SUCCESS SUN and do not worry about anything.
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