Hello! My story is: When I was 5, Mom and Dad divorced because Dad cheated on Mom with other women. It has now been 6 years since they divorced. And I haven't seen my father in 3 years. Mom has a boyfriend, which is perfectly normal for a divorced woman, but the bad thing is that she goes to a disco with him every night without me knowing. Dad also has a family and a child who I like is like a half-brother. But he also doesn't remember to call me and ask how I am. I am both angry with him and I have not seen him and I feel sorry for him! Help me, how can I see Dad without feeling sorry for him?
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Ah, darling ... I'm in the same situation, but my parents divorced when I was 2 and I'm a little older than you ...
Hah, I've never seen him, from 1 year old until now and before (that's what I was told) and I haven't asked why it's so or so .... I don't care what happens to this person, I don't care. If I want to have 1000 children, what do I care. It's good not to have a father, believe me: *
ah these parents, m if he doesn't remember he obviously doesn't have much interest, tell your mother, I guess I'll understand you, everyone needs a parent!
I'm 17, I haven't seen my father in 10 years. He left us for another woman, now he is happy with his other family (judging by his Facebook profile, which I look at under another name so that he does not understand that it is me). He hasn't called me once in those 10 years, I haven't seen him in a second. In my opinion, no matter how hard you try, you should not look for him, if he was a responsible and loving parent, he would do it. My sister is 11, she doesn't remember it and she has a very hard time. After 2 weeks I have to see him because my mother is suing him for my sister's support and you know - I'm scared .... Talk to your mother anyway, let her look for him and go out together. Also say that you need more time with her. Success!
I'm 30 years old, my parents are divorced, I don't remember when they separated. I was a baby. My father is from the same place and he didn't look for me at all. When I was little, I crushed my ankle on the spokes of a wheel. I broke my left arm, then I broke my right leg, then I had surgery for an inflamed appendix and a bunch of other health problems, let alone for something more, a lev didn't give me. My mother married for the second time when I was 6 years old. and I have a sister from her second marriage, my second father was a freak, he beat my mother in front of me and he pulled my ears very hard and they then became inflamed and hurt me, fortunately this did not last very long. When I turned 18 and finished school, I immediately started working and for that time I took a lot of good money and I guess my father started looking for me and I immediately cut him off as a complete stranger. Now I have a family and I take care of my family's well-being and well-being, something I didn't get when I was little, on the contrary I have been working for money since I was 7 years old because I am from a small town and my grandparents looked after me. unemployed and I also remember that my mother beat me a lot for good and bad. My grandparents were out of work and looked after a lot of animals and land to survive then as I said I worked for money and the job was to go graze herds of cows, sheep and goats to dig corn, beans, pick corn and beans, etc. In general, my childhood was spent at work and at school - without the sea without the mountains without excursions or something. I finished high school with almost full honors and when I wanted to study further for more education there was no money for that. Today I am very upset that I do not have a higher education and I really want to study but I can't because if I stop working we will not be able to connect the two ends and then maybe my child will not get the childhood that is due for a child something I did not have and there was no one to give it to me. So don't be upset that your father doesn't care about you, maybe it's better that you don't have to deal with stupid people one day, if he thinks of you, just ignore him. Your fate is hard, but do not despair So don't be upset that your father doesn't care about you, maybe it's better that you don't have to deal with stupid people one day, if he thinks of you, just ignore him. Your fate is hard, but do not despair So don't be upset that your father doesn't care about you, maybe it's better that you don't have to deal with stupid people one day, if he thinks of you, just ignore him. Your fate is hard, but do not despair
and I'm like that, they've been divorced for 3 years, and I haven't seen or heard from my father since 2, in my case my father and I had a fight over a staging on his part that cost me all the money I saved. But until recently we overheard an incident!
Separated or not - love your parents! Be sure that they love you too, because you are their child! If your father doesn't call you, call him and tell him that you love him and that you miss him. He will certainly be happy. Parents also need to communicate with their children, just as children need to communicate with their parents.
Look for him! If you don't have a number or feel uncomfortable, try Facebook. You have the right to know your brother.