I decided to lose my virginity but before that my friend satisfied me several times with his hand and I don't know how he does it but I just go crazy !!! And when we started doing it for 3 or 4 times I don't feel any feeling like it like when I do it with my hand I just feel how it goes in and out and when I put it in completely it hurts me slightly and nothing else. Is the problem in me? he has done it a lot of times and it has never happened to him that he is 16 cm tall. Please help and tell me WHERE IS THE PROBLEM?
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The problem, in fact, is that it's impossible to finish the first time, it's a myth. You're too young and too little sex to finish. It is likely to end only if you irritate the clitoris. If he wants to be 116 cm. He, as a more experienced person, should warn you that you are still too young for your body to accept sex at all, to gain experience, etc. Some women do not reach adulthood until orgasm, haven't you read that? In short, I don't think you have a problem at all. Everything comes with time and experience. When you have different partners and experiences in sex, when you fall madly in love and then have sex, things may be different.
The problem is not in size. Its member is normal - the average size is 13-17 cm. Europeans have about 14-15 cm on average ... and the female vagina is magical - it can fit any size, but there are whole babies. The reason you're not feeling well is to stay with you. It's just not so good for a woman in the beginning, her sexuality is learned over the years. Sometime in their late 20s, most women relaxed into sex and more often reached orgasm with their partner. Orgasms should not become an end in themselves. Don't impose them on yourself at any cost. Try to be just nice with your partner, think how much you love him, how sweet this moment is ... Make him arouse you well with his hands and mouth before sex ... but above all enjoy your intimacy, and this can it only happens when you are not worried about pregnancy for example. Be sure to use either condoms or contraceptives. There is NO sitting position. There are also lubricants - and they increase the intensity of sensations. Sex is in the head ...
This is because you are not old enough for sex. Now it will take years to mature and then you will experience pleasure. Woman 25y.
My girlfriend was like that in the beginning, maybe it's really because you're not mature for sex, even though her body is quite well developed. Now, a few months later, everything is fine and it feels and it's over. :) So don't worry, in time everything will be fine.
You like it with your hand because it touches the hot spot ... which is not deep but is difficult to find by the member when you have not yet met. and this will happen over time and by trying different poses.
The average length of the penis in Europeans is 12-14 cm. Only 0.4% have a penis of 16 and more cm. And that's enough with these complex centimeters!
Mine is about 18 cm and maybe more - I measured by eye ;-) I was like you, but then everything fell into place :-) Sometimes, however, this is due to an underdeveloped vagina. Just a lack of hormones. That's exactly what I am - my gynecologist told me that my hormones were low and that's why. But otherwise there are no problems - everything in sex is 6 :-) You just need practice and so on :-) Emma 24 years old.
It's all up to the person. Some are prone to cum easily, no matter the experience (although anxiety interferes with orgasm), others may not cum with experience. Stay with this man, orgasm will come someday. The number of partners does not guarantee that you will become more sensitive and good at sex.
The G-spot is not deep, it's just up. Otherwise, measuring the eyes of women introduces these films to people that there are always gifted: D Women can not measure the eye - the law.