I have a problem that I don't know how to solve. I am 16, from Sofia and I moved to a new school this year. Most people know me from the Internet. I met my classmates, but most of them look at me viciously and I don't know why. When I walk down the halls, I smile, greet people from other classes, but they laugh at me. Everyone says I'm bloated, spoiled, and bragging about wearing expensive things. My parents are financially free and we can afford luxury items, but I have never flaunted that. I'm just wearing the clothes, I still have to wear something, how exactly do I brag? By no means have I been in people's faces. I want to be friends with everyone, but bad rumors are spread about me and people believe them and do not want us to be friends. What to do?
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Find people like you, you can't be friends with people you don't have common interests with, for example.
For girls, it's harder to be friends with everyone. When I was a student, a new girl came, at first the girls in our class misbehaved with her, and the boys - we were interested, but nothing more. The girl was not bad at all, she looked better than the others, but she made a big mistake. Because she knew she was smart and beautiful, and she saw how it affected the boys - first she showed interest, intrigued you, you became her friend, of course you liked her, and then she got cold and ... you got angry. She had done so with several boys, and finally in complete humiliation. At your age, and in a new school, it is more difficult to make stable friendships and you need to know a few things. Always stay in position - if you don't like someone, don't cut them cool, but finally let them know that you're not interested. Don't tie yourself to any boy and don't send him nude photos - then he can use it against you (you always have to stay in position). Know that there are no female friends - behave normally with girls, do not get fat on them, but do not let them too close - do not share any secrets, daydreams and so on. You should always be calm and balanced - there are many characters, hypocrites, brave people, intriguers, good people at school. But know that there is no man whose character is 100% made up of virtues. I know many boys, now men, with a brilliant reputation since teacher - brave, smart, behaving well with others and loved by people, but even those with certain girls like you behaved ironically or arrogantly. Never get into a conflict - getting into a conflict does not mean that you have an opinion, it means that you will only lose your temper. Everyone watches from his belfry, and generally everyone listens only to what corresponds to his truth. If you are planning to build a career or something, these rules will help you in the future, to have a good image in society - not that public opinion itself is important, but the image will pull you forward. How many girls, by tying up to boys, send pictures or give themselves to them, and the latter lie to them, telling them that they will never lie to the girl and so on. Be smart! telling them they would never lie to the girl and stuff. Be smart! telling them they would never lie to the girl and stuff. Be smart!
All you have to do is not allow these children to leave an unpleasant imprint in your mind. People are angry and arrogant, I say it with great regret, but it is a fact nowadays they accept it by their clothes and not by their words.
Hello! Rest assured, a decent person would appreciate you as a person and would not judge you by the appearance and financial situation of your family. The hard part is meeting such a person. :) You be yourself, don't worry about anything else. The advice given to you by those who have commented so far is extremely useful. There is this moment with the non-acceptance of the different - it is a superficial view of things. At school, children see that you have something more than them, it is possible that they envy you and therefore spread all kinds of rumors about you. It will probably be difficult for you, but try not to be unnecessarily impressed by nonsense. Let them talk ...