Boy, 18 years old My best friend is actually a girl. From the same class, with absolutely similar character, with slight discrepancies, almost the same taste for everything. I love her as a friend, but nothing else crossed my mind. She had connections, so did I, but things didn't get this far. She started giving me various hints that she wanted more than friendship. I start pulling or laughing, I even try not to be left alone somewhere, but to always have common acquaintances with us. Another thing I found out was that she told her mother that there could be a serious relationship between us and that I love her because I move with her very often. However, this is not the case. We have been friends for more than 5 years and I don't want it to end. I can share everything with her, talk about everything, but I can't see her as my boyfriend, let alone get married one day ..: D Is there any way,
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No, he can't. The fact that she can't have you will strengthen her desire. Ornan Gutanovich
And what's stopping you from being in a relationship I don't understand? Relationships don't have to be with the "man of our lives" (which he doesn't really have).
Start talking in front of her about other girls, no matter how bad it is after a while she wants to stop. Believe it works, you will even enjoy it one day. I have a best friend of 5 years, as far as I remember last summer I really liked him, I was in love with him. I adored them, I gave him a few hints, and he pretended to be shocked and talked to me about other girls, it hurt a lot, but the pain is one hundred percent less, because now I'm very glad that he did so otherwise we would have passed, to today is very close to me and I am glad that my feelings have faded.
And you don't want anything between you because ...? This is usually the point of view of the female part. It is very strange that it is written by a boy.
From the Author: 2 and 4 - I feel nothing more than friendly feelings towards her. It would be wrong to use it and then end any relationship. Believe me, I talk to her about other girls, but she smiles all the time and finds flaws in them ...
Just talk to her and say that you see her as a friend, almost a sister and that is her. She has confused the closeness and the similarity for something else, she will realize it. It has happened to me, but vice versa, I am a woman. Unfortunately, in our case we did not understand each other, he continued to insist and had to end any relationship with him. I did not have and never had a sexual attraction to him, only a deep friendship.