I am not small to emphasize, I am a student. I kiss so badly that after a kiss my partners lose all interest in me. I want to emphasize - perfect oral hygiene, that's not the problem. The problem is in the technique. I'm so bad that I want to sink to the bottom of the earth, and I never learned to kiss in time. I can't indulge in the feeling, all the time I'm thinking now how to turn my head, where is his tongue to turn on his, why can't I find it, somewhere it falls behind my cheek, some gum is scattering in my mouth, what's going on, where to put my hands, and with my hands it turns out quite successfully, but with the tongue the work is quite bad. I tell you honestly, I feel like sinking into the ground because of my failed attempts. I was looking for videos, tips, nothing helps. Experience needed. So how do I get that experience by kissing so badly,
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And don't you think that the blame may not be in you, but in your partner. You do not need advice and techniques for this, it should come from within you and when you kiss you lose your mind. To relax and give completely without controlling the tongue with your lips. Things happen by themselves.
I will only say that the boy who chooses you about whether you can kiss is not for you. It has never been a problem for me that a girl can't kiss, the important thing is that her insides are real, and the rest just comes.
The important thing is how you kiss the duck. Elsewhere how do you kiss all this: D
Ole, I was very reassured by the comments. I hope they are sincere. I read a lot about it these days. In general, I came across the information that for men the kiss is just a prelude to sex and is not so important, while for women it is very important. But the worst thing I read is that after a kiss about 65% of women lose interest in men and the percentage of men was 59%. Which is pretty disturbing. I've kissed 5 boys so far and one asks me "who taught you to kiss like that, you can't kiss at all", and the other I heard with my ears telling my friends and making fun of me that I can't I'm kissing. And the worst thing is that I myself feel my teeth bumping into the other's teeth, I can't find his tongue, it's somewhere in my mouth. I don't even know what happens when I'm a dry fish.
You may think that this slightly unusual solution that I will offer you is unacceptable, but I think you can gain experience by kissing a friend who understands you and wants to help you. If you decide to try this, it won't make you a lesbian or anything like that, it's just an easy way to solve the problem that bothers you without worrying about your inability to kiss.
In my opinion, your problem is that you think about it a lot - how to do it, I will fail, where is my tongue, that I did not remove the gum ... A bit like men with unstable erections. He was so worried about it that he would fail. So do you. It's not a philosophy, it's not about movies and manuals. Just go with the flow and that's it. If you don't have a thrill for those guys, that's a separate issue ... I'm sure that if you like someone very much and just kiss them, guided by instinct, not the brain, they will you say dizzy: "But you kiss very nicely!" Just do not think it and you will see :) Good luck! BM
I have never kissed a girl on the mouth. I don't know what it feels like. It would probably be all right if I wasn't 29 and heterosexual.
Number 7 .. it's not easy who knows what .. just touching or rubbing in two languages .. And to the author, I don't think so .. I had told my boyfriend in advance about my first kiss that it was my first time .. but in general it wasn't bad for the first time, because I asked for the kiss myself, he didn't offer it to me, and I'm super shy .. but since then he has been looking me in the mouth all the time as I talk to him .. should it mean that his did you like it (Year 16)
Relax a little, you're very tight! What happened so much? Several failed attempts and what? The next one will be better if you really relax a little. Don't think so much about what happens - happens.
Just don't think how, you'll do it .. Get your imagination how you would like how you would arouse him and so on .. I was a virgin and I caught a friend who hasn't been for a long time .. how can I tell you that just by watching porn and quite imaginative sometimes and I make surprises that make her shudder, be it with language without language ..
Well, just kiss him on the mouth or bite his lips, there are 1000 ways to kiss, in which you do not kiss with your tongue, and you can go with your tongue just to touch them without pressing your lips and there to feel how to twist it and to relax. From the first time I tried to practice as I know, but it didn't work, the second didn't work, the third, the fourth, the fifth ... and finally I kissed her with a girl, which didn't happen before, I don't think anything, I think that I'm good enough and I kissed her beautifully, like I've kissed 10,000 times. My current girlfriend makes me angry kissing. The same kisses for a year and a half, still biting my lips lower and sometimes upper, which hurts me, the same style, for me personally she can not kiss, I kiss tenderly and beautifully, but not she can kiss, we kiss less often, but in bed we are 100% stuck, I kiss her everywhere and she literally shivers, now that you can't kiss and kiss the same thing, for me personally it doesn't matter if we fit in other things. Sometimes he kisses well.
And I'm like that ... I shouldn't kiss with my tongue at all, but all the guys I've been with have understood me and no one has made fun of me for that ... You haven't found the right person in my opinion, in front of whom to relax and not think so much about the kiss itself. Success G20
It takes at least 3 higher educations to learn to kiss like people ...
in an erotic, beautiful and strong kiss the tongue plays 30% sweetheart .. the rest is lips ... it's not just to stick your tongue in your partner's mouth and turn like crazy - it's super bad ..
The first time the boy I was with and hadn't kissed anyone else, I was terribly worried. He knew it and was very careful and patient. It turned out better than I imagined. He has a backbite. I like the way we kiss now. If you both want it, it can't be a complete failure. You don't have to focus too much on the details. Good hygiene is enough for me. The technique can be improved by mutual experience.