Hello! I am 26 years old and I lack self-confidence. I have a good education, I'm a nice girl ... and even though I say these things, I don't know if I believe them. I'm always struggling with my weight ... I'm not even very full, but I constantly imagine some things .. I haven't changed since my school years and I'm still so helpful, good, I help everyone, but people feel my low self-esteem , and take advantage of it. I give my best, and in return I get nothing .. it depresses me .. When I decide that someone is my friend, I give my best, I am completely faithful. and on the other hand, in the end, everyone makes accounts on my back, grabs me and gives me nothing in return. I had a girlfriend who was in a very difficult situation. I gave everything for her. I am not rich, but I deprived myself of what I had and did everything for her. and when it stabilizes, stopped the friendship, kicked me out, I just wasn't needed anymore ... I feel lonely, somehow. our people keep telling me to look at others my age, this does not make me ambitious, on the contrary. and I live my life, but with great emptiness ... I want to gain self-confidence, and I still fail. :( :(
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If you are from Plovdiv, let's go out together.
Why so? What's burning you? Give info.
I'm not from Plovdiv. and I still can't explain. .. 1 inner fear of rejection, low self-esteem, the fact that our people constantly tell me "you're old" and all sorts of things
Hello! I don't know if it's sensitivity, low self-esteem or something, but these people always suffer because of their good character.
and according to you, am I old at that age, and is it obligatory to have a child and to be married,,, someone says that after 25 it was different :(
ГЛУ-ПО-СТИИИИИИИИИИ !!!! She was old! "Our people are pushing me!" Woman, such talk is starting to throw me off balance, honestly! We have long passed into the new century, and even into the new millennium. Stop listening to yours and watch your life. Don't get carried away with weddings and babies, because such a thing as "marriage age" DOES NOT EXIST. When it's your turn, then. In order to be married, you must first have love, there must be a person with whom you want to grow old. You can have children for many years to come. Don't get married just for baby production. It is very stupid, it leads to infidelity, accusations, etc. I know a girl who, after many disappointments from men, gave birth in vitro. From some anonymous Dane. Choosing this option, she acted honestly. Because he only wanted a child, not a man. Don't lie to someone "stuck" and did not bind him to endure it, as various geese do en masse. Clarify what you want - love, children, both in a set? If you can't do both, which one would you prefer, etc. But, for God's sake, don't let any peasants and obsolete people dictate the rhythm of life. It's absurd. My mother gave birth to me at 28, and my sister at 31. And again we have become people, although not born in Student City from a sophomore ... Tighten up, behave like a modern woman, as long as you read Elin Pelin :) Boronia (furious, but not at you, but at all the patriarchal spam flooding us from everywhere!)
Old at 26 ... You are a young girl, after 25 it was different another time. The family will come when it's time.
at this age you are sweeter her more self-esteem
I'm 34 and I'm not married, I feel as young as I have grown up, don't worry, my great-grandmother used to say: "Everyone is lucky." If you're from Sofia, you can write me an email to discuss "the problems" ":)))) I'm upside down!
I am the author - I have written another story here on the site, I just shared, I will share now. my friend, who is 28 years old, is getting younger than me, now he has started chasing me. tells me to leave. his friends are also my friends ... I have no others .. at the moment I feel isolated and lonely. :( :( where now ...
yes, we read the story - what can I say, it's good that it happened. You keep going, but I advise you to have more self-confidence in the future. No partner can tolerate such a woman - who only teases, struggled with weight, see to take off in every conversation or look at another. Everyone makes mistakes, I don't see you, but I think you need to revise your behavior, because your future relationship will be a complete failure. Don't look for one yet, live a little for yourself and only when you like yourself the way you are - then start with another. Forget about your relationship with this man, maybe your partner is to blame and makes you complex. It is also very good that you will change your circle of friends. Find your friends and start a new life. Every evil for good - this is a great chance to get out of your shell and start living life to the fullest! Was she happy before? Instead of grieving, open a bottle of champagne and enjoy your new life! - there is something to celebrate, get rid of a terrible relationship, as well as your friend - it's better for both of you!
what city are you from?
number 11, I'm the author. all this sounds true, except that we are human beings and not everything is done on a computer. I am trying really hard. but for example yesterday he started bragging to me about how many women wanted him, etc ... and finally he told me to leave. now rely on me for some things, and we'll see what we do about it. but I am very broken. I always believed there was a solution. I do my best,,, but for the complexes and the fear of losing someone, everyone has them. only my whole life was him. and he knows it very well ... an environment, some friends, everything. I try for everything, but I also explode when I don't see the reciprocity I crave. and maybe some of my complexes are when he tells me to see what I look like and when I can't say anything to the 18-year-olds he's playing with, just because they're 18 and it doesn't suit me. but I don't want to believe that this connection is a mistake. it's too much time. he doesn't want to have any commitments. live his life, in which I am welcome, but I am not the most important. the bad thing is that I lost friends and that weighs a lot
number 12, I don't want to say what city I'm from ... the site is anonymous, it's still nice to have some border
Oh my God !!! I have an acquaintance just like you and I dream of one day throwing her a nice fight! People like you are just great, you hide behind common phrases with a positive meaning, but with them you hide your true nature - that you can not defend yourself. My boyfriend is harassing you - fuck him. You can't have someone else take responsibility for your life all your life, take matters into your own hands at last! And what if your boyfriend's friends are really your friends when they dump you? !! If you want TRUE friends, not just familiar things about yourself, start doing something that gives you confidence so that you can be a full partner. YOU DETERMINE YOUR LIFE! As long as you grumble, you're just looking for sympathy!
Hello Girl. I know how you feel even though I'm a boy your age. My advice is this; be yourself and do not pay attention to others even to what your parents teach you, because in most cases a person's psyche does not stand. I guess a very smart girl who just does not "fit" into the specific type of today. Being modest and dedicated is a very good human quality. Upstairs, it's not just you, let it calm you down a little. Personally, I still can't find such a person to tear me away from loneliness, but I don't lose hope.
number 15, common phrases you wrote! and I can write you 10 sentences by heart!