Hello, a 16-year-old girl and I like an 18-year-old boy. We met another boy, with whom I was dating for a while. We don't usually greet each other at school, but I greeted him soon and he greeted me. However, I'm super worried and I don't know whether to greet him again or see if he will greet me first or smile at him. My friends tell me he's looking at me. , and I see that when we pass each other he looks at me, then I didn't greet him yet, and my girlfriends are much more beautiful than me. And I have decided to take a risk, I still lose nothing Should I greet him or wait for him to greet me, or just smile when he looks at me Please give me some advice or opinion
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Hello! A 16-year-old girl writes to you, which is disturbing, she would rather always be silent than say something so as not to expose herself. But a year ago I fell in love with a boy and made the same mistake of being silent and anxious as you. And guess who lost ... me. And then we got to the point where I listened to his problems with his girlfriend and got sadder and sadder. Namely because I was silent. You don't lose anything, and even if he has no feelings for you, you will be proud of yourself for talking to him and telling him. It is sad that thousands of people have lost their love for just one worry ... So don't be one of them :) life is too short to wait for a miracle and be shy and suffer from it accordingly. Take the step if you really want it and you can't go wrong :) good luck! ~ mo06 ~
Oh, darling, it's not scary. Just greet him and smile at him. It won't kill you if you do. I'm 16 too, but you have to risk more. I'm wondering here how to admit my feelings for a person I've worked with all summer, you're wondering how to greet him. : D There is nothing wrong with expressing your feelings, especially when he makes hints that he likes you. It may be difficult for you now, but imagine one day if things work out how happy you will be and how much you will laugh at how ashamed you were. And I was like that a year or two ago. I just see him coming and I don't take my eyes off him, then I barely greet him. We've all been through this and I support you: greet him, you can even talk to him or write to him if you have social media and ask him out. I'm sure he would accept. And also advice: If you are afraid, that you can look desperate or ridiculous is not! I think it would even look nice to him that you took the risk of taking a step. It's even very sweet. So don't be afraid. Good luck and write if there is progress! <3 Justartlover
Just say hello to him, great job.
From the author: To number 1: Thanks for the advice! For a year now, I just watched it and kept quiet, but now I decided it wouldn't be like that. I greeted him two days in a row and the next day he smiled at me first. To number 2: It's easy to say, but when it's the boy you like, it's easy just in words, even then it's not.
From the author: To number 2: I hope you will succeed too. I would be braver if I knew how he felt about me, but I don't know. Last year he went out with a girl from the next class, but things didn't work out, this year she wrote to her to go to a club, she understands that he refused. And that's why I don't know what to think. To number 3: It's easy to say, but when it's the boy you like, it's easy just in words, even then it's not