Hello! I am 15, 5 years old, but I have never been engaged. For several months now, I have fallen for a boy in the class. However, the problem is that he is really shy, he hardly talks to girls, if he talks, it is only if they have started the conversation. He moves everywhere with the other boys and for a second he is not alone. I can't talk about it for that very reason. They are always with him! I'm really angry that I don't have the courage, but I also don't want to push him too hard, because he won't be happy. Otherwise, I'm friends with a few boys in the class (who are not in his group) and in general, I can communicate with the opposite sex without a problem, so if I talk to the boy once, I think I will be able to keep the conversation. I know I sound naive and "childish", but at least I want to talk to him. Everyone tells me to treat him like I don't like him, but talking is easy. I need advice ... Obviously, if he shared my feelings, he would never take the first step, that is, a simple conversation. Thanks in advance.
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Who told you to treat him like you didn't like him? This is very bad advice. Only a girl can think that this is the right way. How else do you think he knows you like him? Do you openly hate him? Very stupid logic. You are in the same class and you already know each other. You go straight and tell him you like him. But you have to be alone.
Don't start a relationship with people you will have to see every day. Even if you go, the chances of spending up to 12th grade together are slim. Then every day will be uncomfortable for both (if you break)
Look him in the eye, it's very simple. When he looks at you, don't look away. Things will work out.
Do you have his Facebook and do you write to each other? If you don't have it, take it from him and start writing to him, maybe he doesn't understand that you like him, if he is shy, take the first step! I think this with the face will light up for him.
What if you like him, just tell him. Yes, it's hard, you think he'll take it wrong, but if he's smart it won't be
It may sound silly but ... I'm in ABSOLUTELY the same situation he described: I'm a boy, the same age ... all. Would you say the first letter of your name and the boy's name?
I'm in the same situation ... He moves in his group of boys and doesn't talk to the girls in our class at all.
Tell us more about this boy so we can give you adequate advice.
It's wrong to act like you don't like it! Not only with him. He, as shy as he is, may really think that you don't like him, and that won't happen.
Not knowing how to download, where did you go? Children's work, puppet theater.
And I have been falling in love with a girl for several months now, who is in her first year in our class. From the first day I thought she was cute and I still like her, but I'm a little shy and I'm afraid to tell her, we will still be in the same class for another 2 years and I don't know how she will react ... Otherwise she behaves a lot nice to me and I don't know how to interpret it I probably look like a coward, but they just hurt me and played with me and that's why I'm so shy now. Go and tell him how you feel as soon as possible when he is shy.
Up to # 8 by the author He is very nice, has a sense of humor (I watch him behave with the boys), but shrinks around me, smiles a lot, otherwise as I mentioned with other girls he talks if they talk to him or do something funny ( for example, tell a joke). I catch him staring at me, in the breaks he tries to be close to me, but so far he hasn't done anything and I'm tired of playing. He didn't even ask for my number. And I'm worried if he didn't give up, because my best friend in class is a boy and he thought we liked each other ... I don't know if anything happened at all.
I really like how you think author! I always wanted to have a girl like you. Since I am one of the shy ones, I will tell you that this boy is crazy about you and burns with desire to talk to you, but he will not do it, and if you take the first step in front of his friends he will be startled and things will not work out. Wait for a convenient moment while he is alone, for example, and hint to him that you fall for him, but be yourself. You don't have to try hard, because for us guys one word is enough - more like this: D ... you remember or a twist of the ass to feel the attraction. Don't expect him to ask for your number, he wouldn't do it: P I wish you success and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you to become boyfriends :)) KSA
I'm a 15-year-old boy, TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM. That's it. Boys don't read girls' "signals" well, I'm sure if someone pretends to be a specialist to fuck in the ass. The only signs we seem to rely on are laughing at all the laughter and nonsense, sometimes annoying us to see how we will feel and possibly how you girls look at us. I will advise you if you are a beautiful girl, because we boys, no matter how much we talk nonsense about inner beauties and worlds, are sown primordial and first look at the appearance, write to him on Facebook ... if he behaves cold, don't delay, tell me that he is nice, and after a while when you relax, even jokingly tell him that you like him ...
Just be friendly with him, smile at him and try to tie the topic of conversation with him!
Just stalk him when he's alone and confess to him. Nothing-knows-what will not happen and is not the end of the world. The most to gay.
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