As the title suggests, I like a girl very much, 10 years ago we went out on something like love dates, she told me I had a lot of fun and something could happen, but I went to another city and we hadn't seen each other for 8 years. I didn't meet her again soon and we traveled together for 6 hours. We talked a lot. Let's get to the problem now. The truth is that for me she is unique in every way, super beautiful, with a super cool character, an actress in a theater, but I seem to underestimate myself. It's too perfect for me. And I'm not that glamorous. I try to change my appearance, but I still accept myself as too weak at the moment. I just don't want to fuck everything up and leave it for later when I get in better shape. However, my experience has taught me that further means usually never.
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If you have known each other for almost 10 years ... you should be a mature man already, and you are thinking as a teenager. External traction is not everything - at least it is not a leading factor in men and if you have achieved something else in these 10 years you should not worry so much about how you look.
Try if it happens if it is not the end of the world
Don't think about it, write to her. And I thought so last year with a girl. She was just perfect in my eyes, I was super wooden with her and we were stigmatized for a while. Good thing she wrote to me a few months later, I invited her to see me without waiting and now I'm super happy with this girl. Never match how men know what women like about us. Try to talk for 6 hours, so there is sympathy for you. We live in a time where if you don't talk to someone, you look at your phone and watch your Facebook or write to a friend. She took that time for you. Act boldly and don't waste your chance. You will hardly see her again by chance, and even if you see her again in time, she may not be free anymore. Just act boldly. There is nothing to lose. Be a man and win her, don't wait for anything to happen.
You are a complex and a coward. Do you think that you will become a tough guy in 5 years of fitness and she will be waiting for you until then? It's absurd. Now you have to invite her on a date. If he agrees - fine. If she doesn't agree, you stop cheering for her and look for another one. It's easy.
Young man, theater actress does not mean Monica Bellucci. Yes, it is a non-standard profession, but I have many friends in the acting industry who literally connect the two ends and are not very confident at all. Usually people like to idealize the person we like. The chick, if you don't like her, you won't like her, if you want to become the most trained and attuned gentleman in the world. You try and that's it. Where will you wait months, etc. You have to be a man. You invite her boldly and firmly. Don't waste the precious time of youth. Take risks, live, do not succumb to fear. And if he cuts you off, he won't ruin the end of the world, you'll just move on. Then write what happened. Good luck
Well, if you want to write her an e-mail, I will cancel you: D tighten up and act
She wasn't human, I'm brave, even insanely brave, I've done all sorts of things, I can talk to her. I can even go naked to them without caring. The point is, I know what will happen if I do. I just don't have confidence. I used to, but now I don't like the look at all. I lost a lot of weight because of anger and now I am focused on changing it. It's just not me right now. My whole family is very beautiful, including me, but from this weight loss I became like a skeleton. And I'm 27. Even if I'm deluding myself, the fact that I don't like myself is enough to kill any interest in me. But how can I like myself, how can I expect someone to like me when I'm not to be liked?
If you flirted before and there was something, then it should happen now. Write to her, I think there is a chance. The truth is that even if you are not the best, if you have self-confidence you can have a girlfriend. A woman wants a confident man next to her. Don't wait, act. The lion