Hello. I am a boy of 14 and I am 8th grade. I like a girl who is in my class. We don't talk to her often, and we just greet each other. The problem is that I like her, and I don't know if she likes me, and I'm always in a bad mood. Even at Christmas and New Year I was not happy at all, as I am in principle. She seems to have a boyfriend. I don't know, but yesterday I uploaded a photo that I think likes the boy in the photo. But anyway. Please help me. What to do? I'm not in the mood for anything. When I think of her, everything collapses. And I always remember that. In the morning I get up in a bad mood and go to bed in a bad mood. I have the feeling that I don't want to live anymore. When I'm done, I might admit it, but I'm very ashamed. And if I admit it now, if she refuses, I won't be able to look at her. Please give me advice on what to do.
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If you don't like the state you are in, the simplest and easiest thing you can do is write to her ... explain your feelings and don't bother anymore.
Yes - write to her, tell her everything and she will tell you that she likes you as a friend because she wants each other. But at least it will make you feel better and you will understand that there is no point in explaining yourself to a girl about anything. Then stop talking to her and start training something serious.
Dude, don't listen to number one! Do not explain yourself in feelings. If you want, invite her out and act without explanation
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