Hello, I am 14 years old and I really like a girl. Let's call her "X". This girl is from my class and has been turning my head for 1 year. But I can't find out if she likes me - from time to time she looks at me for a long time, she always looks to be around me ..... But I'm a little shy, she also doubts that someone will take the first step ..... Give someone else advice !!!!! !!
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Let's take the first step! I'm a girl, and we girls we don't like to take the first step;) If you really like her..just tell her you want to talk;) Take her to some quiet and peaceful place where there is no one to worry about and and say the same thing you wrote, that you like it very much, that it is very cool, nice, baked, etc. !! And then ask her if she wants you to become boyfriends;) And then it no longer depends on me or on me from anyone! Whatever he says;) I think that will help! Wait for the other comments and decide :) Good luck!
Dude, go bold. Don't be numb. Don't be like ... me! Because me and my ego always expect the chick to make the first move and that's why I'm doomed to failure. As for you - try to overcome anxiety and above all be yourself. Do not get carried away and do not try to be who you are not! * Syndrome
I think go and say suddenly grow up how are you and so it will go some conversation and along the conversation and say do you want to drink coffee one day if he says no then no if he says yes .... depends on the answer try whatever sword shows
Um girl and I'll give you the best advice (maybe) .. not always when a girl looks at you longer means she likes you. I constantly "hang out" with guys, but that doesn't mean I like them. The advice my to you is the following-no matter how shy you have to take the first step..Absolutely every girl dreams (as in the movies) the boy to take the first step, even if he does not like the boy in question every girl needs it. fear, even if nothing comes out, the risk was worth it, because there is always a chance to like you and not like you. We all know the saying "Who plays wins, who does not play - does not win" So whatever the result - even negative - you must have the hope that she will pay attention to you, and as I said, the risk would have been worth it,because think how happy you can be when you take the first step..I hope I really helped you;)
Look, I'm a girl of 14 and my story is the same. My advice to you is to invite her to go out somewhere just the two of you, to compliment her, etc., and if she likes you too, it will show.
bro the truth is 1 ... we boys will always have to take the 1st step, the girls give the spark from us it's just the oil (at least I think so, so I don't know if I'm right) so invite the evening for a walk in the park or somewhere else, she will of course feel it, but if she accepts you have hope .. and then you can easily ask her if she likes you and if she says yes, just ask her if you want to be together :) I have no experience in these things (:
I am a boy and I have the same case, I took the 1st step and now we are boyfriends with her. Try it too.
a piece of advice from me, I'm a set and these days I got an invaluable experience, the girls don't know what they want, so yes, it's very important to find out if she likes you and be sure of it, because it shouldn't be like me, supposedly everything was great and we both liked each other and finally I guess ... best friends and nothing more, and for me what's left is that I fell in love straight, to sit and think I'm so dumb, so be careful, watch out for not to get scalded like me, because then it hurts a lot, or at least I was like that, number 4 says take a risk and try, but I tell you from elementary experience, think a little, be careful and be careful not to hurt
You don't have to stand like a statue, go and discover your feelings so that you don't lose it
Well, I'm in such a problem! But I'm the girl!
Listen, she likes you! Don't be shy, because most girls don't like very shy boys. TAKE YOUR FIRST STEP!
brother act i don't fall very shy at 16 alone and i can safely say that i have had a lot of boyfriends be calm and confident just drink 1 coffee play 1 billiards and go for a walk and tell her there is no point in hiding because her feelings subside
Brother, listen now. You are not only shy in this case, but you are also afraid of what others will say about you if you offer it. Don't worry, hit while the iron is hot;)
you know, I'm Gabby, I'm 14 (almost 14), I'm a girl (probably implied by the name), what I can help you with is: take the first step, invite her out. :) by the way, I'm also shy, but it's not a problem if you're calm if you're with the right person :)
Hey, is there a girl here who is looking for a boyfriend and the dude offered me the girl, probably because I'm rubbish, so you suggested
I am a girl of 14 and a half and I will tell you that I always wait for the boy to take the 1st step, not that I am shy but I just think it is more correct for him to always do it :)
I don't agree with you 17 ... there are no such things as more correct in love, or even liking. When a spark comes out, you grab it, you don't sit like an idiot and wait for weeks for something to happen. And then you wonder what didn't happen ... -Death_Blade ^
Yes, that's right, but not at all 2 years ago 1 chick and I told him that I liked that she was cool and so on, the next day she dumped me with ease. ; d
I'm a girl and I have a classmate who fell in love with my girlfriend for 3 years, and she didn't understand, try it!
I'm a girl and as banal as it sounds I have the same problem, my advice is that no matter how shy you are, she won't come and invite you to a meeting, you should do it an hour soon because she will finally decide that you are not interested in her and sooner or later she will lose interest !!!
offf abe we don't look like prophets to you to know if you like it or not ?? We don't know the girl or anything ... excuse me for the tone, but I'm tired of some pickpockets who write: "I like a girl from our class - sometimes she looks at me - does she like me ??" and you are complaining to us here, you will soon not find out if you like it and at most you will stay dry! You take the first step and you wonder so much - if you like it ok you leave, if not - you don't care and that's it;))
don't be ashamed think only 1 life we live! Go to her and say it or do it on Skype, tell me what you are feeling and you will see how it will be easier for you, finding out if it makes sense to continue to like her and see if she is cunning ... Good luck and smart! Mary
"Friend," so to speak. I am 15 years old and the advice I can give you, tied to 1 great girl is that You must act. You're a boy! If you are waiting for the girl to take the 1st step, it is a pity for you = C. I say it with the best of feelings. If you decide to do, like me. I don't know if she likes me, but alas, she has liked me since kindergarten (we were in the same). I just asked her directly if she liked me. She said yes. I told her come if you want to talk and we went around the corner, I proposed to her, and we kissed passionately, then we hugged :)) So act that you will miss her and you will regret it. And by no means explain yourself in love via Skype or Facebook! Good luck to me =))
I am 12 and I am a boy, I have the same problem, there is a girl and I can't ask her if she likes me, I'm still ashamed and I don't know what ideas to make !!
Brave dude will do it! And who doesn't care about your health!
invite her out and kiss her.
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people I'm a girl if a boy constantly annoys me for 1 year already 2 do you like me or just for fun does it I ask you because you are boys
I have the same problem and I'm 14 and I like a boy in my class, but we go together
Hello! I have the same problem. I'm 13 years old, and there's a girl who's bothered me. I have liked her since I was 11 years old. We met on a friend's birthday. I've liked her ever since. We started talking, playing ... And at one point she said to me, "Do you want to go climb the rocks? Of course I accepted. Everything went well. Then we met again on a birthday, but she didn't Yesterday we went on a trip and went to the museums, we sat nearby on the bus and talked, laughed and everything went well. The problem is that she studies in another school and is from another city and almost never we meet ... At most on a birthday or on a trip. But I think she has a boyfriend. Last night she invited me to her room. There were more girls there. She invited the boys from my room as well. it was cool, but the problem is that it's very cool and a lot of guys take it off. Please help !!!
I'm number 34 again and I want to say that I'm lucky to take the first step. If he tells me no? If my friends laugh? How will I look her in the eye? I will be very ashamed. I do NOT want comments like: "calm down, they are very ..." I want exactly her. I'm pretentious, I know, but it's damn cool.
wow this happens to me all the same you wrote it for me this
Hi, I like a girl of one year. I am 11 years old (I turn 12 in January). We travel together by bus and sometimes he looks at me. Please give me some nines !!!
this year I am a new student. I saw a girl and started liking her. people help. how to suggest it.
Well, I think the boy should take the first step. I'm a boy. My name is Nikolai. I have the same problem people like a girl as much as the whole world, but I'm afraid to share it. What if he doesn't tell me what I'm going to do. Please give me advice !!!
anxiety or shyness .. shyness or insecurity .. is these things fuck everything .. if they are not there everything will go like a greased machine .. as it is said: "Do what you have to do, let what you want happen"
Abe people I have a question ??? If you see a nice girl on the bus or in the subway, how will you talk to her ???
Dude, I'm a girl, ask her who she likes, if she doesn't tell you, it's probably you !!! Then at least tell me it happened to me
I'm a girl and it's the same with me. A boy likes me / his best friend told me / I don't know exactly how he feels, but I would be very happy if he took the first step - to invite me out or something. Act boldly! And advice from me, any girl would like it if you are kind, gentle, etc.
18. You're right, I'm 19 and I really like a girl from a few nights I can't sleep I wonder how to take the 1st step because I'm terribly pushy and shy and there's something else I don't know if the girl has any feelings for me I'm afraid someone else to love or like and then I don't know I will surely go 7 layers underground I don't know how to find out if he has feelings for me
Hello, I also like a BOY, but if someone can give me advice on how to find out if he likes me ... he always protects me and we have the same interesting ones, but there is a BIG problem !!! My best friend also likes him and I don't know how to tell her ... anyway ... he pays attention to me and even hugs me once but I didn't understand WHY ?? I got goosebumps - How do I know if I like it? !!
He hugged you is yours is №50 tell him you like him etc. I am a boy and so far I have not hugged a girl if he hugged you then he likes you very much we think boys believe me №50
Take the first step. It is masculine, and if you are ashamed, you will be left alone. But make sure you are alone by telling her to feel more confident.
A good friend of mine liked a girl for 4 years, but he did not have the courage to tell her about his feelings. She finally understood and told him that if he had said it earlier, they could be together now. Because he didn't tell her that long, she started liking someone else ... maybe that boy was me.
51 ... Unfortunately the girls hug all right and leave a lot of wrong impressions ... example: There is a girl ... she is about 2 years older than me ... needless to mention that I give my left kidney for her (yes, I'm in love with her a lot) ... she hugged me many times and when she found out I liked her, we said hello and bye ... sometimes, though, I did the same trick, so, ( 50, don't get too inspired :)
You don't know if she doesn't like you and what her reaction will be. Try to tell her otherwise you are constantly wondering. I am a girl and I like a boy. I told him, and for the first time I did it. I thought he would cut me off, but he kept writing to me. You will not lose anything if you try. ;)
Of course, you have to act, even I would be embarrassed if the girl took the first step.
I am 13 years old, I also like a girl. Last year I was at school in the hallways. She and a friend of hers were there. Her friend told me that the girl wanted to hug me. When the girl found out, she started slapping her friend lightly on the shoulder. Is this a sign that the girl likes me?
If I take the first step and she makes a face and withdraws and says, for example: NO, no thanks, stuff and more. And if you are shy or you die or you just lose your mind and your word! I don't know there are brave girls brave boys but when you're shy and she always has to get scared! BUT! The boys (the shy ones) are mostly worried about the failure and if she is shy, no one will take the first step! Just to ask if a girl looks at you with her head down and doesn't talk to you just looks at you, what should I do? Please help! I'm too shy to ask her! ; (