Hi, first I want to ask the editors to publish my story because I'm a little desperate. So I will drive straight. I like a girl who is 12 (I am 13). We write with the girl in question all night, but we sit outside and are silent, we are just both very shy. I have a feeling she likes me too, but I'm not sure. 3 years ago she experienced something terrible - her father died after a work accident. When she shared this with me, she also told me that her best friend and I only knew about it. He also shared that he considers me a relative and trusts me. For me, this means a lot to me, because such things are shared only with really close people. My question is whether to propose to her now or to wait until we get closer. I'm just afraid he'll cut me off and end our friendship, or if we become boyfriends and something happens, which will separate us and make me lose a faithful friend. I am asking for advice
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Tell her you only like her if you're sure she likes you too.
Everything will happen by itself. Just make sure you find the right girl, otherwise it will hurt a lot to find out what she really is. And I thought my girl was beautiful until I found out she was dancing in slings at discos. And it hurt terribly, believe me.
You definitely like it, but don't rush yet. Let her feel ready. When she is ready for the next step, you will feel it yourself. So don't think so. For now, keep writing like that.
Stay alone and talk and you will understand. Get to know me. And if it's for you in the first second and admit it.
Go out, after school or before, cheer her up. So go out for at least 1 month and then suggest and continue writing :)