Hello! I want to share my grief. So I like a boy, he's very cute, we met at school. He was in 6th grade and I was in fifth. I saw him in a big break and asked him if he was training tennis at Lokomotiv (he was wearing a club suit). He smiled at me and said yes. Then I asked the boys in my class to ask him what his name was. And so, with the help of a boy from my class, we talked every big break (this boy said what I told him and vice versa). I later found out that he was the son of the head coach of the club. And I have been training with her for two years now. We've been to a lot of tournaments together and I've called for him many times, he called less but still. We were in a tournament and I was a girl, and finally he came to me and said, "Well done, very good game." I've liked him for three years and I can't admit it. And I think he likes me too. Now I am 14, he is 15. I was at his birthday in AQUALEND in Plovdiv (we are from Plovdiv) and we had a great time. There were many other boys and girls, we were mutual friends from the club, but he looked at me quite often (but tried to hide somehow from the others). In principle, when we train, I constantly watch him and he watches me. When we see each other, we greet each other. Sometimes we talk for a little more than 2-3 minutes and that's it. Two days ago we met on the stairs in the club and he asked me: "Are you going to school" I said, "Yes! And you?" He said he was coming home to rest. I asked him something else and he asked me and that was it. Otherwise we have a lot in common. And now we are in different schools. I wonder if I should admit it to him. But I'm scared, if he refuses me how I will see him every day and I will think that in the last 3 years I have been deceived. Help me, please. Tell me what to do! Should I confess to him or wait! Please email me! I don't know what to do! Thanks in advance !!!!
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What else are you wondering! You like him, he likes you too, you have common interests, you play sports together. What else do you need, just "light the flame", you should not be afraid of the way he will refuse or accept you and in both cases you will know that at least you tried, that you tried! Come on, take the risk and then, if you want, write how it went! ...
Thanks a lot. I'm ready to try, but I don't know exactly how to tell him. I'm ashamed to be a girl, and boys generally have to take the first step. Tell me, if you can, for example, what to talk about and how to confess to him. Thank you very much!!
Don't be afraid of his answer. Ask him boldly :) Good luck.
I think you have to admit it and ask him, and whether he will accept is another question :) and I recently admitted to a boy that I like him, the truth is that it is not easy for me to see him every day and know that it is with another but that's life ... we still remained friends and very close ... I love him very much but he can't understand him; ((((
I'm a man ... Listen carefully now ... You're a girl and it's not good to take off your cards because he'll think you're acting like a straw man for him ... Ask him for example ... Am I good with this dress (skirt, jeans, abe clothes) ... Or make him feel a little threatened, for example to understand that there is competition and if you do not take matters into your own hands and do something, the other boys will eat you like hot cakes :) )) Or just tell him - do you want to go to coffee (pastry shop, bar), because someone invites me, and I do not want to go with him, but with you ... that's it.
To № 5: I do not agree with this about the competition. Well, suppose he likes her, and she hints at something about another boy, if he's more operatic he'll do something, but if he's shy he'll leave her and be heartbroken because he'll think there's another one in her life person. To the author: How to admit it to him? When you are training (you are both on the bench), stand in front of him (next to him) and tell him. - How about we meet tomorrow after school (somewhere where you are), but in a secluded place;)))). And then, when you meet him, ask him the question "what do you think about you and me, about us, about our feelings. This is how a dialogue will take place and after that you will arrange a new meeting and so from meeting to meeting, things will work out. and write again! From №1
Thanks a lot, but I still feel insecure. Tell me what to tell him. I don't want him to refuse me. I just like him very much and I know to some extent that he will not recognize me. I feel it!!! Pump me up. Thanks
№6 says what to tell him! Don't be afraid, it was a girl, after all you are 14, there is a first time for everything!
In my opinion, you should first start to communicate more with him, for example, to make jokes but you remember the ball. You can't just go and admit it to him, it's easy to say "What are you waiting for, come on" it's hard to do ... if you tease him so lightly, from time to time he may remember that you have some feelings, and if he likes you too, he may respond to your jokes. This is my opinion, good luck again.
Oops thank you very much everyone! If you have other ideas - write! I'm thinking of not rushing for now and accepting the idea of number 9. We'll see later. All the tips are very useful, but in my case I think the 9th will work best. The tips on numbers 1 and 6 are great, but I think I'll wait a little longer. But as for number 5, even if I tell him about the dress or something, he won't do anything. Thanks to everyone though !! Thank you from the bottom of my heart !! If something happens I will write !!
Hah oh I have the same problem. From the side it seems easy to say "come on what are you waiting for", but it's not weave at all!
I know, thanks for the cooperation. How does it work!
I'm waiting, I mean we have common interests blah blah ... see you blah blah ... and I'm still scared even though I suspect I like something is stopping me. So I accept things this way or he will take the first step or no one, and if no one does it then it just was not written. I hope to make it: C
Thanks a lot.
So I like a boy lately and he hints at me and even greets me on the radio with the words I love you, but I don't know what to do to admit it to him or wait to see what he will do?
Wow girl, you're crazy to wait! The man tells you that he loves you and if you have the same feelings for him, go! Keep us posted on how things are going.
The author: By the way, this is a long time ago, I wrote it 4 months ago and now I will tell you how things developed. So later, everyone realized that I liked him, even his mother and all his friends, and yet I think that my feelings for him are starting to cool down, but I still love him. Many things happened - one day when it was snowing I and a few boys and girls would fight with snowballs. However, the boys pushed only the girls, they couldn't push me, and in the end everyone grabbed me and that boy threw himself on me and hugged me. I was very strong. However, now I like a boy from my class not so much, but still, but he is a very good friend of mine and I do not think you think how to act, given that the second boy is more open and stocked me, but I do not I replied for the other reason. And now I don't know who to do. Please help!
Life is a choice and it is not easy, if you do not want to be lied to, do not lie, you start with the first and end with it, if it does not work with him, then comes the second. As a girl, you may want to open all your doors, but you can also close them very easily. Act honestly.
So I like a boy lately and he hints at me and even greets me on the radio with the words I love you, but I don't know what to do to admit it to him or wait to see what he will do? I invited him for coffee, but he was with his father in Ruse and said he couldn't the next day, he was also busy and I left him alone so as not to be impudent. and I told him to come with us for coffee if he wanted, but he said he ate and was going out then I despaired completely. Should I fight for him or leave him alone :(
I do not know! I think you fight to the end for it №19! And I have a very serious problem with a boy! I can not understand it! I love him, but I can't tell him! One day he hugs me and you are like me and another day I don't exist! Please tell me something! Ave boys are not understandable!
I think tell him or if not you at least someone to suggest that you like him and then everything will fall into place if he feels the same;)
Personally, I'm a little shy, but I don't see it. Many times I have thought about how to tell the boy I like that I like him, but once he likes you and you like him, there is nothing to think so much about. If he really likes you, he'll understand you, no matter how you say it, but if he doesn't like you, you'll be very naughty: every day down the hall at a teacher's, you'll have to avoid him. you will have to hide during training. This recognition is really hard work, but try it anyway! :)))))
When you started liking him, you were my age, now I like a boy who is even in my class and sits next to me and we go to folk dances together. I like him, but I can't tell him, and if I tell him, I may be sorry. But if he likes you too, let's say it and be together !!!
Let me write a comment. In all the stories that have been written, I see part of mine. I also have a problem. I like a boy, I would even say I love him. I have the feeling that he also feels something for me, but I'm not sure of his feelings ... At the moment I'm wondering if I should ask him, if there is a chance that nothing will happen between us or if I will move on. He knows my feelings for him. That's why I'm wondering whether to act or stay passive ... Give me advice ... Thank you in advance ...
From the author ... I have exactly the same problem as with N24
From №24: Well, I've already talked to the boy ... I don't know if that helped me or not, but I don't think it makes a difference in what our relationship was like before and our current relationship. But let me know - IT'S WORTH TRYING! I can tell you this ... If you decide to do something about it, I wish you success ...
To N24 and what happened..did something happen between you? .. Or was it all in vain..how much are you? Do you have Skype if you want to write there;) Find if you want liuboslava_tennis
I have the same problem but the other thing sucks is that I don't know if he has feelings either. Would you give me some advice? thanks!
Hi = I'm a boy- a year ago a girl admitted to me that she liked me - before she told me I hated her - (she cheated on her) then when I found out I said (she's not that bad) and after a while I started to like her I like - (and before that I didn't know it existed and we are from the same class!) I think tell him - because if you don't tell him you will continue to struggle - and if he likes you too ";-) ------- --------- give "a cat like that" if not try it with some others
Hello, I am a girl from the town of Troyan and I like a boy, he trains break and I have liked him for 4 and a half years, but I don't know how to tell him, please, if someone gives me advice, thank you in advance; (; (; (
From №24: well what can I tell you things I can't say are exactly the same as before. Now I think that at this stage, where our relationship is, something can already happen. But one universal piece of advice from me - IF YOU DON'T TRY YOU WILL NOT UNDERSTAND. Come on, I wish you success
Yes, it's easy for you, but I want you to give me some advice. dead end: [pp. we don't even know each other; [
Can I ask for some advice? So I'm 12 years old. , and the boy I like is 11 years old. and I can't tell if he likes me one day he looks at me and smiles at me, and the next he pretends I'm not there. He told my FR that he likes me. However, I'm ashamed to admit it to him and he's a little shy, and we have known each other since I was in 4th grade and he in 3. We hung out with each other, and now we are ashamed. Please help me, I love him very much, but I can not know if he likes me? weave to get some tips on how to admit it please help me! Thank you in advance :)!
So am I! I'm afraid to admit to the boy I like ... I met him on his birthday and he only talked to me! I also think he likes me, but I'm afraid and I think I should to shut up and wait for him to do something
Hello, I want to share my problem at the same time and help in some way! :) I went out once with a company there were two twins very sweet we went for coffee and one of them was constantly talking to me chatting about each other everything was okay, his brother did not say a word to me, yesterday we went out for the second time this time it was the opposite .. one paid attention to me the other no but this time he was constantly hugging me trying to kiss me it was perfect but everyone thought I liked brother muu and started going to borko ari de ari de ii he gradually moved away from me,
I can't find a way to admit it
Uh ... and I don't know how to admit, I'm 14, I didn't have a boyfriend ... Now I like a boy from the class, but I almost didn't talk to him, listening to him is nice, he's cute, I like him , it was difficult for me to admit to myself that I like him, what is left for him to admit ... I have no idea how he will react, but if he doesn't say anything or doesn't share my feelings ... how can I say it? And I don't know that. I'm afraid to say, because he has a whole year with this class and if he tells others ... but if he shares my feelings ... he made jokes, in music class, for example, when we sit and do nothing, and he smiles while he was looking at me ... but I have no idea, maybe he doesn't like me, he didn't show it with anything, not that I showed ... what should I do ...?
Emmy for your case №37 is quite vague I think you should wait some more time and try to communicate more with him. So let me tell you my story. I dug around because I was about to decide to admit to a boy in my class that I liked him. I am convinced that there is nothing wrong with me, we are even super good friends and very often we are together and go out. He gave me the jacket, he complimented me, but so far he hasn't done anything more serious, and I'm wondering if he's just being friendly. Another question is that he is a person who will not share what he is experiencing and I wondered if he would not be very shocked if he found out the truth about my feelings. But I can no longer just hold out hope. My advice is that love is a very good thing and you need to know if you have a chance and you should always try.
Try it and try it and then act
Hello..I am the author..I will tell you only one thing I acted and I do not regret what I did..I just listened to my heart! It definitely took me a long time to get scared for 4 years and 5 months! I just gathered all my courage and decided to talk to him! I said "now" or "never"! .. We talked, I told him that I have feelings for him .. he was very surprised even though he knew about these feelings of mine ..! He was silent, he didn't say anything .. he made some facial expressions .. and I told him that at least we should be friends..and he replied that he is always here and will help in any way he can !;) I really liked his words..I just don't know about you, but for me the situation is much better. -complicated because he's absent too much! .. but anyway I hugged him..and that was..but you know..I thought that if he told me he didn't feel anything he would cry .. ON THE CONTRARY, I smiled..I accepted everything with a smile..because we can't bring back the past..aa and I was so relieved..I talked to him exactly a month ago and I had reached such a level before.that I wanted to kill myself if I couldn't to be with him! I loved him at 10 billion now I have slight feelings, but they are less than 10% ... even when I looked at his pictures soon I called myself aabe I could not have liked this boy..really love is blind..believe me..action..to know..I built 4 years and a half an ideal world filled with many dreams and hopes and I broke it in 5 minutes..but we have to live in reality! Do not live with dreams, live, dream, but in reality! And sooner or later everyone finds their ideal partner! And you know..when I told him, I feel feelings for him..I didn't feel anymore..I just killed my feelings over time and I didn't care about that. what will be his answer and I was even happy! And there is something else when you tell someone that you have no feelings..after a while you start to feel even stronger than his..so try..say what your heart tells you..you will not go wrong if you listen to your heart si..and this is not the first and last boy .. !! Don't worry..there's nothing to lose..and in time other guys will come, who one day you will realize..that one of them deserves you more than this one! The truth hurts, but I prefer it to the lie! And believe me..you haven't lost once you loved..can you love..you will be loved too! And after acknowledging these words to someone you love, that you have feelings for him..you rise not only in the eyes of people..but you believe that you are brave and you can achieve much after that! It's just a challenge that makes you stronger !!! Try in both cases you win ... and it is not known after a while you can be together! If you want to understand something, try - ask! However, everything is achieved at the cost of great pain! I know it's not easy at all! It took me almost 5 years ... and so many friends have been winding me up for a hell of a long time..but you won't regret it..and again when he understands your feelings..even after a while he starts to feel feelings it will be easier for him. .that he admits to you .. !! People live, don't waste as I did for 5 years on one boy and in the end nothing..now I have feelings for another, and he loves me too ... and now I am sure that this boy .. where I had lost my mind for 5 years, he likes me ... and every time he sees me he remembers the day I confessed my feelings to him! And do you know that even if nothing happens between you, the memories remain forever ... and he will remember you for a lifetime! you will not regret it! Write if you talked about how it went and whether I helped you! TRY..DO NOT LOSE ANYTHING .. !!! you will not regret it! Write if you talked about how it went and whether I helped you! TRY..DO NOT LOSE ANYTHING .. !!!
I would like to say a big BRAVO to you for talking to him because at the moment I like a boy but I don't know how to admit it to him, I just can't find the right moment, a remark ... The moment comes to me that we are from the same class (for first year in a new school we are alone at 14) and I'm afraid it won't get too awkward .. otherwise we've been writing to each other lately via skype .. but unfortunately we don't talk much at school .. at the moment I'm gathering courage and I hope to be able to do what you did after so long ..
Well done
Well, author, I'm happy for you and you wrote something very nice and I'm in your opinion. And listen to me №38 I wanted to tell him but alive but my fate played a bad game with my mother and I had to text him. The next day he talked to me and asked me if I wanted to know how he and I felt. he said it would only ruin our friendship (which leads me to the conclusion that he thought about it and didn't mind me, but he cares about our relationship) then he said how much he cares about the friendship and mentioned something to like, but I didn't understand instead of asking I shook so we just remain friends and he was a little I did not suffer, he is even right, our friendship is very strong and no one knows if it will last after a relationship. However, it is strange to me that he was not surprised. Not in the sense that I have shown that I like him, but he has always considered this scene. Please comment ...
From the author: Just act !!! .. I know that in words it is easy, but things happen as they should be..and time heals! Do you know that while I liked this boy for 5 years..I liked 9 boys..but I wanted HIM! ee already..I understood and came to terms with the fact that I can't have it, at least for now! ;) but this is life ... act ... !!! You don't lose anything..you just win..you will understand it in time ... and accept everything with a smile! :)
Cheers !!! My story is as follows: The boy is from my school, but I am in the fifth grade, and he is in the seventh grade. he grabbed my ass, I pulled myself together, and he smiled at me, I liked him then. A month later, in the big break, he ran into me and I saw him up close and smiled again and I liked him too, but in the evening I sat on the computer and saw that he offered me friendship on Facebook, looked at his photos and ate healthy. The next day we had a physical class together, half of the salon was for the seventh, the other half for us, the fifth, I enter the gym and he climbs up and shouts aaaaaaa.
To number 47: Darling, first learn a little spelling, because I just fell when I read your comment. And secondly - after this girl offered to help you, why don't you accept? You like the boy, don't you? Well try, you will not lose anything. Come on with success!
From number 24 I give you the advice for the last time ... try and tell me now that we are going with this boy and we have been together for 4 months now and we are very happy ... Try it girls !!! It is not necessary that the boys are always first in everything :))) Write what is happening :) Good luck :)
There is a boy that I really like, how can I admit to him, HELP
And I have a small problem .. so I like a boy, both children from my neighborhood know about it .. so yesterday, May 31, he found out .. but in a very stupid way ... a girl told me that one of my friends told him that I like him .. well, of course I started a little scandal ... well, but the essence didn't tell you and that's a lie, isn't it, he comes and another boy asks .. "well, how did you know that I like him" and he said "um I understand now "... said Emmy well and went somewhere after a while came back and that's it and we played some games. ... ta .. first i will give you some information de ta .. pls help!
And I like a boy from a teacher, his name is Georgi, I can't help thinking about him, I like him, I think he likes me too, but I'm not very sure. He will become 9th grade and I don't have 7 yet. But we live in a town (Pomorie) Every day I see him on the beach with his friends, he also sees me but does nothing. It's good that I have a girlfriend, her name is Lyuba, she and Georgi are friends. I like him. And she told me that when she saw him she would tell him! Don't be afraid, at least you talked to him and I didn't even say "hello" to each other!