Hello! Look, I've liked a boy for a long time and I really want to tell him, but when I see him or visit them (because our families are good friends) I just swallow my tongue. Sometimes, when we visit or just run into each other on the street, it happens that we look at each other almost all the time. I don't think I'm one of the coolest girls, but I like this boy ... How can I tell him I AM ASKING FOR ADVICE!!! IF YOU CAN WITHOUT MOCKING! Thanks in advance!
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Em invite him for coffee and then tell him
Find out what he is interested in and have a casual conversation. For example, when he starts talking about his hobby, for example, intervene and say something about him.
Isn't it obvious he likes you too? Try jokingly and you will understand how you would accept it. Then it can be serious.
You are very sweet :) Sometimes what we think about ourselves does not reflect the ideas of others about us. Do not underestimate yourself. In fact, he doesn't even think about how you are compared to others or what the boy thinks of you. You will only worry more. If you like him, do what is most natural - smile at him, tell him that you like his company, invite him to a less casual event - a movie, a party, pizza, etc. You can invite other people, if you are very worried, it will be easier. Tell him you're in a cool group and you're thinking of having fun somewhere. Tell him you'll be happy if he comes too. If he comes, attack boldly! Success!
On a date, I don't know how shy you are, but I think that's the only way and I was ashamed to invite the girls on a date, but once you do, it will make you feel better.
Thank you for the advice! You really help me a lot!