:) Hello, A few months ago I met a boy. He is so different from me. First the age difference, I'm 14 and he's 19. I really like him. We've been out for about 2 weeks. We have a great time, everything is perfect. But one thought remains in me that all this is wrong. He is 19 years old and has not taken a good path at all. He is constantly in some pubs ..... He smokes and drinks. I suspect he's sniffing. And I know that I don't have to be with him, because I don't want to fail, I want to learn new languages, to learn many new things. He doesn't stop me, but I feel insignificant next to him. As if not drinking makes me stupid. I know perfectly well that this is NOT the case, but I feel that way. And he speaks one thing in front of me and then does another. I've been thinking about breaking up with him, but every time I see him ... I just can't imagine that I could put an end to going out and all the good moments. So, my question is what should I do Should I stay with him and wait for time to show what will happen? I'm just confused .. :) PP I know that the age difference is quite big, at first I didn't want to go out with him, but I decided to try ...
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The difference in your age is not as big as the fact that you have different interests. And this is the most important!
In general, you can't know if a person is for you unless you at least do some experiment with him. But as number 1 says, the difference in your interests and activities is big. You need to have some similar interests in order to have a normal relationship. And as soon as you realize that he has bad qualities with him, give up.
WooW ti at 14 and he at 19 WoooWWw Wow, girl, well done! : n Congratulations! Wow, wow, just like that, Batkovtsi, but I was like that too ... only that I'm 13, and he's 16, and he was like that, and in the end I dumped him because I didn't trust him at all. He was constantly drunk and smoking around me, knowing that I hate smoke .. and I constantly thought he was cheating on me while he was drunk and where he went there were a lot of girls and I didn't know .. I thought he was driving me crazy so I decided not to deal with such, but to build my success ... He wanted a lot of me to do some things that are not for 13-year-olds and that was the main reason, BUT if your husband: P is a good man and does not want much from you, or if you don't mind, you can stay, but don't stay long .. I don't know how your parents approved, but I guess you may not have told them where. .. And does he want you to do * ex? to know that at the age of 19 they are quite tanned and can stretch you somewhere without your permission ... be careful, but it also depends on his character BY Baba Qga: P ^^
Author: Of course he wants sex ... But I told him at the beginning that I was not ready for at least 16 years. I don't know what he's thinking, but he hasn't caused me much trouble so far. He recently asks if I'm ready, but nothing more. And with his way of life, I have the same worries as yours, whether when he goes out he won't sleep with someone else, and then come back and tell me that nothing happened ...