The title says it all. For about a month now I have had something like a relationship with a girl we have sex with regularly. She is my first. My problem is that I lose an erection during sex. At first, I fell in love when I went to put on the condom. Later, this was fine, but it fell to me during the act. It doesn't happen every time, only sometimes, but it's very embarrassing. After all, I'm 25, I'm healthy, I'm not overweight, I don't smoke, I don't drink or anything like that, I walk from time to time. The problem occurs only occasionally and only in some positions. Most often it happens when I'm on top, sometimes with the first insertion and has already dropped completely, in less than a second. Another time I manage to score it, but shortly after that it decreases, only gradually. This is probably even worse, because it's not very big for me, so I want my erection to be 100%. When it has dropped slightly, she will feel it even smaller. This is quite stressful for me. Now I'm really scared to have sex. Even if I manage to score it, I constantly wonder if it will last, if it won't fall at any moment. Sometimes, however, I have no problems and everything goes well. It just happened that we pushed each other and I was stiff all the time for more than an hour, but when it came time for action, the little friend got something burned. In general, the girl shows understanding, but I know. If things don't work out soon, he'll probably dump me and find someone else. This will completely destroy me mentally and the next time I will be worried not to expose myself as now. Physiologically, everything seems normal. I know it's all in my head and it's mental, but it doesn't help me much to solve the problem. How can I stop thinking during sex if I won't fall, is it big enough for me, what does she think, etc.? If anyone has experience with similar situations, I will be happy to give advice.
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Hello, in my opinion, your problem is really on a psychological basis and for this reason there is no approved solution. You need to calm down and not accept sex as an exam, but as an expression of love and passion, something pleasant and unloading. If you are worried that you are leaving your girlfriend dissatisfied, emphasize oral caresses and naughty hands: When you feel that you are falling, you can continue to satisfy her with your fingers (nameless and middle, no more), add a tongue. Listen to her breathing, enjoy every thrill of her body, and when you get aroused again, finish what you started. I think that when you gain confidence in sex, the problem will disappear. I hope I was useful :)
I will tell you a trick that increases the erection, you can do it and when you are alone and during intercourse, you start to stimulate the trunk of the penis, its base, the stem, move up and down and combine it with rotating movements, like a cigarette. , there comes a moment when the member becomes very hard and more insensitive, which is good for you, you will endure more. Try it works flawlessly. Train when you are alone for about two minutes every day and you will see that it has an effect. Good luck.
Look now, I'm not happy to say it, but the dick has his own opinion about what a beautiful woman is and you can't explain to him that she is intelligent, funny, etc. When he doesn't want her, he doesn't want her and so much. There is nothing you can do, she is now new to you if it is so - there is no chance, the situation will only get worse. Find one where Huycho wants it.
The worry is that don't take it in :)
I have an acquaintance who, according to my friends, had cast an eye on me. He told me a lot about his sexual past, some of which were, to put it mildly, scandalous. I thought he had a lot of confidence to share them with me. At the moment, however, he had hormonal problems, and at first I thought it was the thyroid gland, and he told me it was testosterone. / Subsequently, it turned out to be in great shortage /. He lives in a neighboring country / a Bulgarian working abroad /. We often heard on Skype when he was not in Bulgaria and I imagined that I was more special to him, and he constantly hinted that it was so. At one point, it struck me (perhaps a woman's intuition) that he stayed on the net longer than usual, especially considering his work. It turned out that his problems are available to a large number of women / girlfriends /, with which he writes, and some of them have said that he is impotent because they have "tried" him. In fact, he shared his problems with everyone, including my girlfriend, and that disgusted me and disappointed me more than anything else. If I am more than others, as he hinted and said, why should I share this with others? That I'm not more special to him than the others, actually? He just likes to pretend to be interesting, to ask for sympathy from women, but in fact he doesn't like / like anyone. He seemed to tell me that everyone was mercantile and dishonest, but his behavior was no fairer, and he liked to flirt with anyone, simple for scratching his ego. Stop asking for sympathy and explaining yourself - this repulses more than the problem itself. In fact, I was repulsed not by the problem of man,
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You say you're 25 and she's your first, which means you start having sex relatively late, and you probably realize it. It is possible that before this moment, it was a fixed idea for you - that is, you wanted it to finally happen and you to be good at it. That's probably where this rewind and interception comes from. About the size - don't worry. If she has agreed to have sex with you many times, then she is satisfied. Try to relax and think less about it. Once you have prolonged erections before intercourse, obviously the problem is not physiological. The problem may be with the condom. If the girl is healthy and you trust yourself, try an act without a condom. Personally, I also find it difficult to maintain an erection when I use one, and it is almost impossible to finish because of the dull feeling that it necessarily brings. So go bold and daring. Try to enjoy sex. He's something very nice. Good luck :)
you have two dude options that I guarantee will help you: 1. 100ml whiskey 2. cialis pill you take 10mg about 30min before sex. For me, both options had an effect, but cialis was the top no such erection for 36 hours! If only it touched me and I became a bone, the feeling is really indescribable, but if you try, don't take it more than 4-5 times, so that your psyche doesn't get used to the pills.
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the problem is that you worry that you fall should not worry you before sex just play a love game, whatever it is and you will see that this problem will disappear and it has happened to me, these love games stimulate arousal in men and women, don't take sex as something mechanical I think that will eliminate the problem. For me the problem was a little different, I finish quickly the first time, but then when I went to the second action I kept for a relatively long time from the beginning I was worried that I finished quickly the first time and I was worried but my wife he was angry and this helped me to overcome this problem as well through games. Try pose 69 is great. Tip - have sex when you're a little hungry and never on a full stomach. I hope I helped you a little
and I caught a friend and I have the same problem .. when she makes me oral I am 100%, when she fucks my nipple 100%, when she touches my ass 100%, when she touches me with her ass 100% .. when I put on a condom after about 2 minutes I am at 0% .. I insert it and it drops to me, already 3 times 3 attempts .. with 2 different brands of condoms, one of which is Durex from the thin ones .. and it drops and drops .. on the 3rd time and I inserted it without for a while, the situation was good, excellent even 100% .. but I can't have sex like that, I risk a lot, I don't mean the diseases if she gets pregnant with me .. this is not the time, what can be done in this case, I'm tired ... I'm losing sensitivity to these dumb condoms.