Hello! I am a girl, I have a serious relationship, but from 2/3 months I started contacting a boy and we became bff. We are very close, we share many things, he seems to give me the things I miss in my relationship. He is a partygoer, we often go to parties and discos, while my friend is more relaxed and does not like to go out. On the one hand, I don't want to ruin my relationship because I love my friend very much, as well as my friendship, but on the other hand, I imagine grabbing my best friend and kissing. Give me some advice, please. Will this be only a temporary attraction and is it worth it?
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In my opinion, go wild and go out to bars and discos again, but if you love your husband and stick to your relationship, don't spoil it! Regards, Uzunov
He was stronger with two, and even stronger with three. Come on, don't put it on your heart! You will make the typical Kovren "career".
If you love two people, choose the second, because if you really loved the first, you would not fall in love with the second. -Johnny Depp
In your place, I would very much doubt whether I love my friend. In general, the word "love" is too strong, I do not recommend using it if you are not absolutely (but absolutely) sure of your feelings. As for the other. You can't have a stable relationship while at the same time having aspirations, no matter what, for another person. It is no coincidence that many people are in open relationships, which is preferable to lying and having secret desires for other people. In other words - either one or the other. Either you have a (serious) relationship and you indulge in it, or you are a free bird and you have fun. Of course, there is a third option that we all know (infidelity, etc.), but I personally exclude it as acceptable, and I consider other people. So ... the choice is personal and yours alone. :-)
I haven't had a girlfriend so far, but it doesn't sound good to tease the boy like that. You know babe, but if they fuck me, I'll pull one for you and I won't look at you anymore.
There is nothing better than a friendship between a boy and a girl, so don't spoil it
You are not in love. You just find the things you miss in your relationship with your best friend. This is not love. Just talk to your boyfriend about the things you miss and need.
Thanks for the advice, it's been a long time ... and I realized that number 8 is right :)))