I prefer speaking to listening to others! But I'm furious! For several years I have been in the position of a listener. People, I'm tired of being a passive listener! The stupid thing is that I always decide to show that I am also a mouthful when they have already formed a misconception about me, that I am quiet and passive. I hate loneliness, it annoys me. But I repel people by not communicating much. But what to do when I lost my grandmother (whom I loved very much) right at puberty I was 14 then, and now I'm 20. Why does this still affect me, even though I'm not in puberty? Or if I start sharing a lot I only share bad things and behave rudely. But obviously I have to start like this - I still have a lot of negative emotions that need to come out. And only after I behave badly and say bad things will I start saying good things. Let the pain come out first. When I listen to others talk, I take their problems too personally. Before, when I spoke more instead of listening, I felt better. And the more talkative people succeed more in life. It's better to be unpleasant to someone, instead of being comfortable and being crushed. I'm tired of being a passive spectator and life passing by me. Now I will make the events happen. And even though my classmates are temeruti, I will not comply with this and I will be poisoned, let them accept me as a friend. I think it will be much easier for me to be accepted if I start sharing again. I'm tired of being a passive spectator and life passing by me. Now I will make the events happen. And even though my classmates are temeruti, I will not comply with this and I will be poisoned, let them accept me as a friend. I think it will be much easier for me to be accepted if I start sharing again. I'm tired of being a passive spectator and life passing by me. Now I will make the events happen. And although my classmates are temeruti, I will not comply with this and I will be poisoned, let them accept me as a friend. I think it will be much easier for me to be accepted if I start sharing again.
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That's right - share, but also listen, both equally. Be poisoned so you don't get fucked ...;) I wish you good luck ...
It is not even. There are two types of people - those who listen more and those who talk more.
To №2: Are you sure that there are no people who listen and speak evenly ....? and?
There are no ideal people.
There are no ideal people, but we are talking here about those who seem to have listened more and those who have spoken, not about the "ideal ones".
And I'm this type of person, it's easier when I share, I tell about myself, I comment a lot with someone about the things around me, about me and I don't listen to people's problems at all and I don't talk or comment on topics that are not I'm falling.
You are selfish, my man. Nobody likes them like that.
Well, to the author and number 6 I will say: YOU ARE SELFISH! Haven't you thought that just by blabbering on, others feel like passive listeners? !? !! But noooo. This is not important! It is important that some people find it easier to "share, tell about themselves"! We will see how easy it will be for you by looking at the contact booklet and see only blank lines!