I Live With A Married Man, Is There Anything I Can Hope For?

   Hello! I will say my opinion, but don't kill yourself please! This man is married to a woman, they are a happy couple and they are having a baby! Noo holds the front for a while when he wants something new. And then when it comes to you, at first everything goes well and you are both happy. But the moment comes when he likes you or you become monotonous to him and maybe he comes back to "her" or 3 women enter this circle. However, you know him best and if you feel that your relationship will last and that you can achieve something more than now, just move on, here I can not help you, you have to feel it yourself!

   No! Don't hope for anything!

   Here on the side, it is difficult to assess exactly the situation in which you find yourself. I don't understand comments like number 2. Where did this categoricalness come from? I think enjoy what you have. Try not to lose it. And whether you will get married or not ... nothing is known. Everything there already depends on him. But the answer to your question is that there is always hope.

   I am also with a married man. In my opinion, the magic of our relationship is that it is a secret that we are hiding. There is a thrill interesting, different. Why did you live with him, I think it's a mistake. If he lived with his wife, you still wouldn't be asking this question. But I think now that you live together, you become something like his wife. Everything forbidden is sweeter. I wish you success and if he truly loves you, hope so.

   What to hope for? You yourself understand that he does not want to divorce, he does not want to remarry. He has a daughter he cares about terribly ... Maybe the alternative for you is to become friends with his daughter? You are wasting your time and youth at all. Run while it's time and don't expect anything good from this burden. Life is ahead of you. Live it as you like and forget about these weak-willed, pretentious types. You will not please them. My advice is LEAVE MARRIED MEN TO THEIR WIVES AND THEIR CHILDREN. This type of people do not know what they want and drive at the slightest resistance. He will use you for a while, you will become addicted to him and at some point you will be horrified to realize how confused your life is and how you have no strength to do anything. In such a relationship I see nothing creative, there is no alternative. You are simply not equal partners. I wish you enlightenment of the mind and a wise decision. Success!

   From the author: Yes, and it seems to me that our relationship has become more difficult since we lived together. But tell me, does it make sense to be alone, to wait and hide and have nothing to rely on? I thought he was really a family man, I'm sure he doesn't have a third wife, as 1. 1. I thought he wanted to break up with his wife because he wasn't happy with her, and he wanted us to be together because the feelings between us really are a lot of strength and testing them for the first time. He says he can't support two families and doesn't want to get married - well, but why doesn't he want a divorce? !! It already seems to me that he does not want to lose his family. Looks like his marriage was in crisis, and I was a consolation he confused with love? Is this possible? He was so sure he would never return to his wife, and now he seemed sorry. He does his best to support her and his daughter more and more. He says that's right, and I think so, but we can't have a future if he's so involved with his other family. I think that in a few more months he will prefer his family, and I will be left with one "I'm sorry darling, you deserve something better!" He denies that, but it seems obvious to me. Do you think I'm right to assume all this? Is it possible to return to his family and ask to strengthen his marriage? He denies that, but it seems obvious to me. Do you think I'm right to assume all this? Is it possible to return to his family and ask to strengthen his marriage? He denies that, but it seems obvious to me. Do you think I'm right to assume all this? Is it possible to return to his family and ask to strengthen his marriage?

   You really deserve something better! A 46-year-old woman writes to you. I have a younger sister, when she was 25-26 years old, she met a married man. He had not lied to her, and from day one he was known to be married. and very unhappy with his wife. has three children, an older daughter and twins. He never promised my sister a divorce. After a long relationship between them, the situation became intolerable and his wife asked him to leave. he took his luggage and is with my sister, he has been living with her for almost 2 years now. He doesn't want them to divorce so that he can have contact with the children and be able to help them. my sister, as she endured it. He doesn't want more children - understandably, the man has them !! So in balance - he with two women and three children, is not burdened financially and does not take unnecessary responsibilities, my sister - now 38 years old, without children, nervous to nowhere, without the prospect of a normal family life, and if you ask me, and without a man / because this is no man, sorry! /. In conclusion, I can say - run while it's time, but it seems to me that it's too late, the man who wants to leave one woman and go to another, will divorce within 1 year maximum, the rest are lies. " for deceiving the enemy. " As a general situation, married people do not divorce because of their lovers !!! Save your years and nerves and do not prove proven things!

   And why isn't he happy with his wife? Maybe because there must be responsibilities and obligations. And now - "hat on a stick", complete freedom and pretends to be a strong man - without obligations and with many pretensions. God forbid! No, this is not love. This is weakness and irresponsibility. He will then pretend to be a good and loving father - in fact, he is a mollusk who uses Him only as a donor of money and economic gain. It is also beneficial for his family - in a consummated marriage, it is very likely that his own wife will not tolerate it and he naturally moved in with his girlfriend. So it is said that the wolf is full and the lamb is whole - without commitments. № 7 very accurately recommends not proving proven things. There are so many living examples and so many suffering cases. It always leads to a HUGE PITY and FEELING OF A WASTED LIFE. I wish the author happiness. Don't worry about ending a meaningless relationship. Once it starts to get tough, know that it's going to get even harder. Be strong! You deserve to be loved and to love. The chances of not being alone now are greater than when you are abandoned. Then you can stay alone forever. I don't wish it on you.

   I had a similar situation. And I tell you better forget it makes no sense, sooner or later he will return to his wife. I know what is happening to you to the point of pain. So run away. Look for your happiness elsewhere without women and children. Good luck.

   I don't know why you're causing all this, dear girls. You have no chance in such a situation. He will just go out for a newspaper one day and never come back. My husband also decided that his life has always been difficult and he wants to live easily. He met a smiling, kind, good girl, with a sense of humor, who wanted nothing more than to love each other !!! She knew he was married, she knew she didn't want a divorce, but it was so nice and romantic that there was no way they wouldn't live to see it. In short, after I asked the question, she went to live in her apartment. It was insulting to me, of course, but in the end these are the things of life. I'm used to his absence, and he really tries to support his child and help me with money as much as possible. It's been 6 months and it turns out that the girl does not want to hide like two pigeons in love in a studio in Lyulin, but wants a home, a child, financial support. In short, she wants to live with him, but the hard way, the way she lived with me. Now, however, he wonders how to tell her he doesn't want to continue. He wants selfless love, without commitments, because he has love with commitments at home as well. He plays scenes like "You knew I was married from the beginning," and he tells me how sorry he was that he was wrong and how guilty he was that he hurt me. However, the girl did not understand and called me to ask me to file for divorce and return his freedom, because they loved each other a lot, and he felt guilty and had no strength. Well, do I have to marry him, this characterless guy? If he wants to get married, get married. Hey, where's the divorce? I have not cheated, I have not thrown myself into relationships with married men and I see no reason to make anyone's life easier. And you dear girl, instead of meeting his daughter, as someone advised you, get to meet his wife and ask her what she experienced with this mollusk, how she built his business, how she looked after his daughter and how she worked on a par with him to have the car he drives you with and the money he pays your bills with. If you think you are strong enough to handle it - Go! But when you get on your feet, you will find that an old, tired, sick and emotionally exhausted man is sleeping next to you, and you will find that there is nothing more frightening than dreams come true! as someone advised you, get to know his wife and ask her what she experienced with this mollusk, how she built his business, how she looked after his daughter and how she worked on an equal footing with him to have the car she drives you and the money you pay your bills with. If you think you are strong enough to handle it - Go! But when you get back on your feet, you will find that an old, tired, sick and emotionally exhausted man is sleeping next to you, and you will find that there is nothing worse than dreams come true! as someone advised you, get to know his wife and ask her what she experienced with this mollusk, how she built his business, how she looked after his daughter and how she worked on an equal footing with him to have the car she drives you and the money you pay your bills with. If you think you are strong enough to handle it - Go! But when you get back on your feet, you will find that an old, tired, sick and emotionally exhausted man is sleeping next to you, and you will find that there is nothing more frightening than dreams come true!

   Hello dear. Really don't worry about loving your child. If they publish my story, if you want to read it, I think it will be useful in your case. Regards: ANI The title of my story is "I'm happy with my married man"

   Please, №11, don't confuse the girl's head! Your case is an exception and you are aware of it and you are aware of it. Married men are with girls not because they are unhappy, but because they are bored! They are looking for them and taking them around with cars, not because their wives ignore them and do not want to go out with them, but because they have overcome the burden and want to experience something new !!! It may be love, but soon when they see the commitments of the new relationship, they sober up. The fact that you had dinner with your loved one does not give you information about what it was like in the 3650 evenings of your ten-year marriage, for example! The fate of any illusion is sooner or later to burst like a soap bubble, and then comes the disappointment. But no one returns the lost years - neither to the neglected and lied wife, nor to you!

   I think things have already been said categorically and clearly enough for you - he doesn't want a divorce. WHAT MORE DO YOU NEED TO BE TOLD TO GET A LOOK? He's literally wasting your time right now. Do you think this is normal? It should be clear to you that the initiative is now in your hands. You are the person who has to end your relationship - from then on, whether he will return to his wife or not, whether she will accept him or not, is not your job. You are confident in your feelings, you are ready for marriage - since it is not, you have ALREADY LOST ENOUGH, there is nowhere more than that. Be firm and end the relationship - definitely. If you want of course, because otherwise they are waiting for long meaningless years. Give yourself a chance - with a new person, clean.

   Hello, darling, I have your problem too, only it's bigger - he still lives with his wife and we see each other secretly! I love him very much, but he does not want to leave his child! he wants us to get together years later when the child grows up, but I don't know how he will be able to wait, and I can't leave him!

   I have the same case as yours. More precisely, I go out with a man who is married and has a daughter. He keeps lying to me that he's not married. I feel he's not being honest, but there's nothing I can do, I can't find evidence. I just heard him say he was his friend about his child. I don't know what to expect from him. He offers me to live together abroad, to work there and stay there. I don't know if this is another lie of his or if he wants a divorce. He told me that it would take him at least a year to settle down to feel ready to be with me, with a serious woman. I love him very much and I can't forget him.

   Are you still together? If you're running away.

   God, number 10 broke me ... I accidentally read the confession and the comments next to it, but I shuddered when I saw the comment of this suffering woman ... And how true it is that sometimes there is nothing more scary than dreams come true ... It really is so ... And the author I would advise to look for a free man of a suitable age and to send this one back to his wife ... Only that she will hardly listen to me and unfortunately she will probably continue to self-destructive with this hopeless relationship ... Noo ... everyone chooses the path to go ... And the eyes of love are blind and we are so weak when we love ... I wish you luck, girl and I hope you find your man because he is definitely not the one next to you now ...

   Hello lovely girl! I really want to be useful to you with the story I will tell you. Of course, you make the decision. The relationship with a married man is exciting at first. It exists and will continue to exist. The question is who will be hurt in the end. In most cases, it is us. I have been in a relationship with a married man for almost a year. He has 2 children - I don't have any. At the age of 33 I am already divorced and I long for a child. He claims that he loves me, that he wants us to be together, but if that were the case, it would be a fact. A few months ago I inadvertently got pregnant by him, I wanted to keep the child, but he didn't want to hurt his own children. I keep thinking that if a man really loves you and is not happy with his wife, he will act with dignity and will not lie to her. Don't waste your youth - the sooner you part with it, the better. Prava is one of the readers who tells the story of her sister. Love is a sacrifice in the name of the other but when it is worth it. I realize I wasted my time with this man. Do not do it. Please. You will find yourself alone like me at some point - you will look back and see nothing. Even if he divorces - which I doubt, the responsibility to his children will always prevail, you will want your family and things between you will get worse. The reader who says that there is nothing worse than dreams come true is also right. That's right. If you get divorced - you will already see another person who will not take down your stars. She is the mother of his children and will always remain so. Don't be a victim. You don't love once in your life. Please. You will find yourself alone like me at some point - you will look back and see nothing. Even if he divorces - which I doubt, the responsibility to his children will always prevail, you will want your family and things between you will get worse. The reader who says that there is nothing worse than dreams come true is also right. That's right. If you get divorced - you will already see another person who will not take down your stars. She is the mother of his children and will always remain so. Don't be a victim. You don't love once in your life. Please. You will find yourself alone like me at some point - you will look back and see nothing. Even if he divorces - which I doubt, the responsibility to his children will always prevail, you will want your family and things between you will get worse. The reader who says that there is nothing worse than dreams come true is also right. That's right. If you get divorced - you will already see another person who will not take down your stars. She is the mother of his children and will always remain so. Don't be a victim. You don't love once in your life. If he divorces - you will already see another person who will not take down your stars. She is the mother of his children and will always remain so. Don't be a victim. You don't love once in your life. If he divorces - you will already see another person who will not take down your stars. She is the mother of his children and will always remain so. Don't be a victim. You don't love once in your life.

   My husband also moved in with his 25-year-old mistress. He is 63 and she is a 38-year-old barber. It provides me with a comfortable life, replaces with any new equipment in the house that breaks down, helps our daughter, buys expensive gifts for our granddaughter. I don't know what's left for the mistress. Maybe his love. According to him, they loved each other so much and she wanted him so much and he wanted her. And most importantly, they love each other a lot and want a lot, but he doesn't want a divorce either.

   I hope your dreams come true, but I want to see you in a year, when you wake up one morning and see a withered with loose skin fern, which on top of everything will smell, and the outside is full of young and handsome men, then what will you dream about. For us abandoned wives it is normal because we have grown old together, we know what they were like when they were young, and you will be forced to sleep with your grandfather as our mistress calls my husband in front of her staff.

   May your dreams come true. I wish you with all my heart. But I will ask you in a year, when you wake up to a wrinkled, relaxed and stinking fern, what will you think. When it is full of young and handsome men outside and you will have to endure his coughing, sputum, breath from his rotten teeth. For us abandoned wives is something normal, because we have grown old together, we know how young they were, and you will have to go to bed every night with your grandfather, as our mistress calls my husband in front of his colleagues when he is gone. God, her dreams come true!

   I think that this situation will never be clarified until things are clarified and concrete measures are taken. This situation "both so and not" does not happen and there is no point in continuing this agony. He is an incompetent and cowardly man, I suppose he is irresponsible in every way and lacks self-criticism. How can he afford to humiliate you so much, or divorce you, or leave you alone. Calm weather heals everything. He will do the same to you tomorrow. I wish you the determination to leave him, because he will not. That's good for him. Good luck.

   Look, I'm going to recommend a book, The Secret of Female Power, I can't think of an author, but I think it will be useful to you. I will be concise in my advice, but I think it will be useful. The only way to marry this person is for him to realize that otherwise he will lose you. An ultimatum, yes. But not by force, not by force, but by making clear plans about what to do with your life (work elsewhere, career, etc.) and then telling him that you are leaving without saying directly that if he does nothing, you will end up. . Be a mystery to him, only then will he do what you want.

   Such people are very funny to me ... he has already separated from his wife, he has waved the flag by living with his mistress - and he will not hear about divorce. You are divorced, you were the boss of all human laws. So unhappy are all he and his wife and mistress. There may be some psychological barrier from the previous marriage. I know from experience that a signature does not make you happy. It is not a problem that you do not marry, the problem is that it carries the burden of the previous marriage. The wedding does not guarantee you anything. If so, he would still be with his previous family. Even if you become his bride, that doesn't stop you from becoming his ex. I think you need to gather strength to initiate a separation from him. No separation. Something at a physical distance. A little to hear you a little to see you. Let it hurt him, let him be frightened by the feeling without you. Maybe this one will cut the umbilical cord with the ex-wife and accept the fact that it's you and him. I'm not mentioning his child here because he doesn't need a comment - he will always be a part of your life together. If he is not startled, maybe he is one of those men who pretend to be two women.

   It's like reading about my case. To my great joy, I gathered courage in time and sent him to go live healthier to his family, supposedly separated, and together on vacation "for the sake of the children", and without divorce, and at the same time "I can not stand it, it irritates me, makes me angry, suffocates me ... ". Very comfortable position for this type of uncharacteristic gentlemen! And ducks like us, on the sidelines, to wait for him, to be angry at his actions ... for what? For the dramatic outbursts of both artistic and circus performances of this type of interest, calling themselves Men !? I can only say that since I broke this vicious circle, I feel perfect, liberated and "relieved" of other people's problems. Let his wife fuck him, as it should be, and he naturally returned to her, due to the lack of another female donor. The conclusion is: such relationships do NOT occur if the man divorces: Yes, then really this man can no longer live with his ex-partner, and is free for a new relationship! The woman from the above posts wrote well: God forbid that your dreams come true ... be aware in time people, it doesn't hurt so much. ;)

   I read your comments and I wonder what to do. I have been in a relationship with a married man for a year and a half. He never comments on his family, nor on his children, nor on his wife. But I somehow realized that she was an intelligent and culturally successful woman. I also saw her in a photo, I came across family photos from his mail. We do not comment on this situation, but a few days ago I accidentally traveled on the bus with his wife side by side. And then I shivered - not only that she is cultured and intelligent, but also a very beautiful and well-maintained woman. I wondered what he was doing to me. When we met, I told him, and he said that he did not tell me anything to protect me and that he loved me. How can I believe and accept this? There is no way - I do not have to continue with it, otherwise I will feel a depressed and lower hand, but as I am fine with it and it gives me a spiritual meaning to life, and I do not know what to do. It is very difficult.

   See, number 26, that a woman is supported and successful in a career or education does not make her more loved than a husband ?. I'm telling you as an ex-lover and today's wife of the same man - well, his ex-wife was more supportive than me (fitness maniac, nose? With plastic surgery, Chanel clothes, own company and so on), but that didn't stop him from go with me for 5 years and divorce her and marry me. And he didn't comment on his family in front of me, and I was busy just then with education, financial survival, I worked a lot and so on and I didn't even have time to think about his family, but only after I was knocked on the door one night with he poured out his baggage for the hell that was his marriage. In the photos, his wife is beautiful, well-groomed, successful in society, but later I realized that she oppressed him with various accusations, that she isolated him from their children, that she forbade him to see his parents and sister, and the like that he suffered from, that he did not feel loved and happy in his marriage to two words and was looking for something outside. I was not his first mistress and he had told me at the beginning that he would never divorce me, but I loved him, and it was very practical for me to be with him because I did not have time for a normal relationship with a single man who to hang on my head and interfere with my studies and work, but an affair has been a marriage for 3 years, a marriage with a small baby, and his children want to come and live with us on their own. I used to think like you during our whole relationship - he's probably using me for fun, and he really should love his wife, because he's married to her once, has children and a home with her, goes on vacations with her and so on. When years later I realized that life with her was hell for him, even the holidays were hell and harassment, I wondered to myself how I had failed to find out that he was not unhappy all the time I was his mistress. with his family and just wants to fulfill his duty to children and what people would say. Still, I advise you not to imagine that you will have a future with this man - it may happen like with us, but he may not find the strength to divorce - it all depends on HIM. Nothing depends on you. It even depends on him whether he will trust you to tell you about his marriage. That's why I decided then to experience my love and thrill, but to really concentrate on education and career, on the goals in my life. Honestly, he didn't divorce until I let him know, that I am already planning to end our relationship because I graduated, I had a job offer in a foreign company in another city and country and I was about to leave and start a new life. Each such relationship is different. My girlfriend, thanks to my advice, broke up with her and is now very, very happy with another man, has a family, a wonderful wedding and common plans, and soon a child will be born and laughs at herself, maybe how she was with married ... but that's another topic. I lived for myself or rather lived 5 years as a lonely mistress only thanks to my studies and work. You don't know what you can fill your life with, but I had these things and I'm not sorry, because now I still live very well because of the efforts of that time, and to be honest - love is important, YES, but I realized with age, that we always meet people and we can always find love in another, but if you miss a chance for a career and education, life fails. When he slapped me on the neck with his luggage, I twice asked him not to leave anyway, but I chose him, which I do not regret, but if he had not divorced - I would have abandoned him one hundred percent. You decide

   "He is a very good and kind man" who spins 2 women !? Is this an oxymoron?

   I will not give advice, because the story is 6 years old after all, but I want to ask the commenters something. Is this type of infidelity really so common because I was shocked by the number of similar stories ... Are these wives such monsters or are men just looking for a fresh place? And do women catch a lover particle? I would be very sad if one of my parents did that. Not that I won't understand, because they don't seem to be very happy together, but such stories discourage me. I want to believe that there is true love that lasts the time, but as I look ...; (

   Be diligent and dedicated in sex and everything will be fine

   The question is whether you want to keep it or not - this is the most difficult question for you. In fact, you have a lot of trump cards in your hands, so it's likely to stay with you. Things are not as black and white as they are described in the other comments, that the man was an idiot and you had to dump him because nothing would come out and you had two wives, etc. If only it were that simple. Stupid people see only black and white, smart people are multi-layered. If you play your cards correctly, you can keep it. There are reasons for her to be with you for so long. A man will not divorce his wife if the mistress is not better than her, or at least in some respects important to the man. Think, from the thorn of a hawthorn, what the hell to divorce. (I have no intention of offending you with the above.) It's time to do a few things at this point, one is to abstract from the nervous situation and to be more tender, kind, good, sexy, attractive, understanding, etc. than usual, that is, everything that a man seeks in a woman. Just like he wrote number 30. After a while you have to raise the topic of the future together and give him something like an ultimatum, but not of the sort: stay with me or break up (because if he's smart he'll beat your clown under such conditions before to blink your eye) and of the sort of: I'm a beautiful woman I want to find a partner in life, I have love in me and I want to give it to a man who would stay with me or you want children - something like that - you will invent it, but very delicately and at the same time with your determination. Be good to him, but let him feel that you will not hesitate to take your own path in life without considering his feelings. Every man respects a woman who knows what she wants and has goals in life. It is very important to understand that you would leave him not because he hangs you or because he is a bad man, but because you have your own goals, for example, you have the feeling that your life is running out for you. In general, you have to make a move. Good luck!

   Folks, this has been a topic for six years! The author is probably already happily married / divorced / separated / widow and God knows what else.

   ... very true and accurate from №10! Congratulations from a wife ... with a husband whose mistress is the age of his children!

   @ 32, this does not mean that there are no women in a similar situation at the moment to whom the comments are useful!

   Number 32, why are you standing and humiliating yourself with such a man, or does interest seem to shake your face? Tighten up! Number 31, I don't agree that the mistress had all the trump cards - nothing like that. All trump cards are held by the man, because the last decision is his. Even the wife holds a lot of trump cards - the children and the threat of adjustment and their loss, especially if they are very small, the family property is divided, even if bought by the husband, where did you forget the influence of relatives and friends? The mistress has only one trump card, and that is if the man loves her and she loves him and their love is strong enough to overcome the above factors. There is a lot of literature on the subject. The boss of Cosmopolitan London was a mistress for 25 years until ... the death of his wife! Only after that he came out with a book, I don't remember the name, but he impressed me a lot (I read it in English many years ago, when I had such a problem and was in the role of mistress) - she wrote that only 10% of divorces (in the UK) are because of a mistress, 70% of divorces are initiated by the wife and ... of 10% divorces because of a mistress only 3% stay with the mistress. Calculate for yourself what is the chance of a mistress at all. I read these statistics every day and I realized that in fact I have no better chance for the man to divorce and be with me than to win a six in the lottery. For me, things still worked out, but only when I realized how small my role in the life of this man is, even if he loves me, and I started living my life with friends, going out. I finished my education, my career developed well, I opened up to people (not like before I stayed and waited for him at home) and I learned to live without him. Well, one day he just showed up at my door and said, that he will divorce. We've been together ever since - almost a decade. We almost grew old together, but I learned one thing at a very early age - to live for myself, to have a life outside the relationship, to have friends, hobbies and interests and I will never dissolve into a relationship again, I will never be emotionally dependent on a man. If I feel that he does not love me, that he loves another, I will not stay a day with him, no - I will not stay a minute, because for me it is the ultimate waste of life and energy to live in a marriage without love. What is this marriage for you, cohabitation? Without love I can live alone - at least I will have peace. That's why I have no understanding of the thousands of fake and formal marriages abroad, and my husband to this day complains that he hadn't divorced before and wasted his youth. I do not regret it - who is unhappy in a marriage, is to blame. I am happy myself, why stay with someone to make me unhappy? Not a day!

   Hello girls! My story is this - I met my handsome man at work. He was my boss. I knew he was married, I didn't want this relationship at first because I knew how these love stories ended, but later I fell in love desperately. I was hopeful when he told his wife from the beginning that he had a girlfriend. I was the happiest woman in the world. He came to live with me, but a month later he said he was not ready and left. I cried, he suffered, we talked and he came back. We had agreed that there would be no second separation between us. It so happened that everyone turned against our relationship. Friends, family, acquaintances and strangers. He and I got nervous. I begged him to divorce, and he said he would wait for his wife to accept their separation. I felt insulted and ashamed - I lived with a married man who does not want a divorce. I love him more than any man who has been in my life, but because of my bad temper I started muttering and hinting that he didn't want a divorce and one day he got up and left my house. I can't give you advice, because I know what it's like to be with a loved one without having any plans for the future and a moment of peace. I can say that I do not regret anything other than that I failed to control my character, and he failed to show more character :-) I do not know if I will be able to experience it, time will tell, but I'm still waiting to call and hear his voice. I want him to tell me he's ready for a bigger step. I know it won't happen, because all this tension wears off and the man decides to choose his peaceful existence with his legal wife. I failed to have a future with my married husband, but I was on the cusp, I hope you succeed, I know, what such a situation requires and how difficult it is, have the courage. However, if you feel that he will not divorce, do not bother. Happiness is a matter of choice !!!!

   Hello girls! My story is this - I met my handsome man at work. He was my boss. I knew he was married, I didn't want this relationship at first because I knew how these love stories ended, but later I fell in love desperately. I was hopeful when he told his wife from the beginning that he had a girlfriend. I was the happiest woman in the world. He came to live with me, but a month later he said he was not ready and left. I cried, he suffered, we talked and he came back. We had agreed that there would be no second separation between us. It so happened that everyone turned against our relationship. Friends, family, acquaintances and strangers. He and I got nervous. I begged him to divorce, and he said he would wait for his wife to accept their separation. I felt insulted and ashamed - I lived with a married man who does not want a divorce. I love him more than any man who has been in my life, but because of my bad temper I started muttering and hinting that he didn't want a divorce and one day he got up and left my house. I can't give you advice, because I know what it's like to be with a loved one without having any plans for the future and a moment of peace. I can say that I do not regret anything other than that I failed to control my character, and he failed to show more character :-) I do not know if I will be able to experience it, time will tell, but I'm still waiting to call and hear his voice. I want him to tell me he's ready for a bigger step. I know it won't happen, because all this tension wears off and the man decides to choose his peaceful existence with his legal wife. I failed to have a future with my married husband, but I was on the cusp, I hope you succeed, I know, what such a situation requires and how difficult it is, have the courage. However, if you feel that he will not divorce, do not bother. Happiness is a matter of choice !!!!

   Yes, it definitely breaks your life. You are in your most active years, and you are wasting your time with this aging old man, instead of finding a boy your age with whom to develop together and build a common future. Drop it and start living your life for real.

   Tell him it's rubbish and find another married one so you can find out another family, and when you meet the man of your life, watch him hang out with young girls and enjoy life, good luck! M 26

   Number 39, come on, please, and you will grow old one day and you will look at 26 years old. She broke up a family another time. Why should the mistress be to blame for everything? His wife may have stopped being attractive. a man at such an age, unless you are a woman? Just some women stop taking care of their appearance after marriage, neglect, gain weight, and something foreign and better will always be found. Men in old age behave like teenagers most .

   36, no one breaks up a family that has already broken up, most likely had an agreement with the woman that she would accept him if he did not go with his mistress, or the woman is financially and emotionally dependent on him and accepted him, or is old and unattractive and can't find another.