I am 50 years old, daughter of 25, married for 26 years. I'm losing my family. My mother and I live in a house on two different floors with separate entrances. My wife has been telling me for some time that she can't live with my mother under one roof. I agree, it's not right, but my mother is 73, hypertensive, with 85% disability and unstable psyche (she is a former teacher). My wife wants me to move my mother to another apartment, quite far from the present. He says either your mother or me. He said tomorrow that he would pack up and leave. What should be my choice, my mother or my wife, I say that this choice is absurd, my mother is not able to live alone. Give some comment on the matter, my soul hurts ...
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You are serving a complex case. The first thing that comes to mind is a nursing home. If there is one around, this is the best choice. If not, your choice is unpleasant. Only you can answer here.
Let her go and stop all financial help. You must be crazy to turn your back on your mother. Explain it to your child so that she knows the truth about what a mother is and only help her if you are sure that she really needs it and not her mother.
You can talk to your wife, she will wait and submit documents for accommodation in a nursing home. I know that a lot of documents are needed for accommodation and it takes years. But it is still an option not to leave your mother (which is absurd) and keep the relationship with your wife. If your wife doesn't agree, let her go. No one has the right to force another to give up his parents. I agree with what was written above - if your wife decides to leave - talk to your child, explain the situation and no money to your wife. The choice is yours, think about which solution will make it easier for you to live in the future and what kind of person you will live with.
You have an error in the title! You do not lose your family for the sake of your mother, but for the sake of yourself. During these 26 years of married life, you did not show the two women that they were important to you, nor did you tell your mother not to harass your wife, nor did you explain to your wife that the one downstairs on the first floor is your mother. If a woman wants to ruin it after 26 years of marriage because of her mother-in-law, then your mother has been allowing herself too nasty harassment for years, or someone expects your wife to take full care of your bedridden mother, to clean her hair. Believe that she will make such a decision, after so many years, there are reasons, listen to her and tell us honestly why we should give you advice.
Former teacher ... Why don't you share what your wife has been through so far ??? It's probably not just because it's old. Try to talk to your wife that you think about it, and have patience, so you will have another 1-2 months to decide.
Why because of your mother? I expected your mother to be a problem woman from this title, and it turns out that the woman doesn't do anything, it's just that this viper's wife is impudent. Let her travel!
In general, if there were decent nursing homes in Bulgaria, there is no problem to move your mother there. She will be in an environment with people her age, medical workers take care of her, there is breakfast, lunch, afternoon snack, dinner. There is entertainment for people her age and all this is paid 85% by the state. At least that's how it is in the country where I live. Older people are not angry with their children for not being able to watch them. After all, you also have a job, a life, and so on. In principle, you should live with your own family and give them the attention and support they need. Your wife doesn't have to be a nurse, not even you. But because this is Bulgaria, there is no adequate care for the sick and the elderly. If so, you should pay to private homes and individuals, not the state. Your mother herself will feel better if she is not a burden to you and receives adequate care. If you have the opportunity to place her in a decent nursing home, it would be the best option. And she needs to understand. Your wife is not guilty of anything in this case, especially if your situation has been like this for years. What would you do in her place if you had to live with and look after her sick mother? Besides, what does your 25-year-old daughter do in your home? Find an option for your mother so that you can keep your family. Instead of threatening you, ask your wife if she happens to see an option in which everyone is happy. Isn't that why you are a family - to support each other ... Good luck. especially if your situation has been like this for years. What would you do in her place if you had to live with and look after her sick mother? Besides, what does your 25-year-old daughter do in your home? Find an option for your mother so that you can keep your family. Instead of threatening you, ask your wife if she happens to see an option in which everyone is happy. Isn't that why you are a family - to support each other ... Good luck. especially if your situation has been like this for years. What would you do in her place if you had to live with and look after her sick mother? Besides, what does your 25-year-old daughter do in your home? Find an option for your mother so that you can keep your family. Instead of threatening you, ask your wife if she happens to see an option in which everyone is happy. Isn't that why you are a family - to support each other ... Good luck.
Looking at how lightly the Bulgarians send their parents to a nursing home ... No wonder we are so obsessed - for a career and uncle's money we will kick those who gave us life !!! I just get upset when I look at what kind of careerists you have become - you go to work like zombies and you only care about MONEY !!! Pity...!
Of course, the children and the woman have to choose. You don't have to look after your mother - you can take care of her in old age or hire a woman. I'm sure you're saving us the poor sick woman from harassing your wife.
A woman writes to you. I don't see what the grandmother is bothering your wife with. The headline should be that you are losing a family because of your wife. If you were 20 - yes, separation from home and everything, and your wife is obviously afraid that she might have to help your mother or take care of her - which is pure selfishness.
Wow, what is this "wife", by now you have not understood what it is like to be a jester or you in the name of the child, fear of loneliness, etc. First of all, have dignity in this life. I'm not saying that a woman should be ignored in her opinion, but to put you in such a dilemma ... she is definitely a bad person. "Libe regrets the day at noon, mother regrets all the way to the grave" Come on, there is no need for extortion ....
I, on the part of a woman, will tell you that it is right to protect the weak and vulnerable in this case, your mother. Don't let your wife put you in situations to choose from. Talk to your daughter, she's big now, Grandma's grown up, and we have to take care of her the way she took care of you. Once you are on different floors, you can make sure that everyone has personal forgiveness and does not interfere with each other. I guess your daughter loves her grandmother and wouldn't leave home because of her mother's blackmail. And remind your wife that she too will soon be in your mother's place, and the example she is now giving to her daughter is not in her favor at all.
In a nice nursing home, they would take good care of your mother. I know the decision is difficult. I don't know when you're in a house with different entrances, but what's stopping your wife? Does your wife take care of your wife or you? If she takes care of her, she may be very tired of it and want to change.
Here you need to give a little more information. What is the relationship between the two. Does your mother interfere in your family, etc.
We do not know exactly what happened, who is to blame for the situation, so we cannot judge and express an opinion. We can only sympathize with you because you are placed between a rock and a hard place.
He drove out his selfish wife.
If your mother was so sick and defenseless, she wouldn't be able to poison your wife, and she's obviously doing it to get such an ultimatum. In my opinion, the partner and the children should come first. You don't have to live in the same house with your mother - you can hire a woman to help her or stop by on the weekends to help. It is not right to doom your healthy and young wife to misfortune at the expense of your sick, but at the expense of an evil mother. Apparently, instead of being grateful for your help, she just thinks that you owe her that she manipulated you, that she has a "fragile psyche." Surely just oppose her and she is already raising blood and will die.
Two different floors with separate entrances is not one apartment. The difference is just huge.
I also want to hear your wife's point of view. A lot of things don't relate to me in the whole thing, there are probably a lot of unspoken things here.
Those for the nursing home - I remember 3-4 examples, 2 of which are from the last few years. Survival from 6 m to 1 year in a nursing home, so .... I would not cause it to my parents, but there are people who do not care, I have also personally seen such examples of abandoned old men at will. The author, the decision is to take the grandmother to an apartment somewhere nearby or if the house is hers, you to move out. This is provided that your wife is somewhat right, and not some kind of viper looking to pick on you. If it is the second, give direction and initial speed, and leave.
Author, Why do you allow your wife to have a disgusting attitude towards your mother? How will she want to evict her mother-in-law from your own mother's house? Your mother has difficulties, you CANNOT and should NOT evict her from her home! Why don't you live with your wife and child separately? If you don't have another home, why not go and live in a flat? Don't let your wife harass your mother! If she loves you, she will respect your sick mother! If she sticks to you, she will not tell you, give orders or want to ruin your family and marriage! You have to set conditions, not your wife! Take out accommodation! Ask your wife if she wants you to keep your family and marriage without anyone being harmed - neither you, nor your wife, nor your family, nor your mother! Because your mother is NOT guilty and that is NOT a reason for your wife to harass her,
This evil wife of yours deserves only one strong kick and get rid of her. An evil female beast. Let her go where she wants and don't pay any more attention to her.
Author, your wife has NO right to NOT respect your mother! Your wife MUST respect her mother-in-law and your mother! Your mother HAS the right to live in HER OWN HOME, NOT to be evicted! Your mother has the right to a decent old age and to live in her home! If your wife loves you, she won't say bad things about your mother! If your wife loves you and cares for you, the family, the marriage - she will be by your side, will respect your mother, will not dissolve her marriage, will not leave the family and will NOT set conditions for you! You, author, should set the conditions, NOT your wife! If you do not have a home - move out! And don't forget to take care of your sick mother - she needs you and your help! Your mother is NOT a reason to ruin your family and marriage!
Author, don't and think about sending your mother to a nursing home! This is dishonest and inhuman on your part! Your mother has her own home! Don't you dare to leave her and send her to a nursing home !!!! Your wife has NO right to drive your mother out of her home! Your wife MUST behave well and respect your mother! If you do not have a home - move out and let your mother live in peace and spend her old age in her home! And don't forget to visit and help your mother every week on certain days - to shop for her, and for your wife not to pretend to be interesting - to cook, clean, wash and help her, she is still her mother-in-law. If your wife wants a divorce because of your mother (although your mother is not the reason), DO NOT give her a divorce, but offer her to separate and live in a dormitory, and you and the child to live with your mother or you separately - in a dormitory! That way, you won't ruin your marriage or send your mother to a nursing home just because your stupid wife wants to kick her out of the house! You will do badly if you drive out your sick mother! Separate with your wife and child in a dormitory, you will NOT spoil your marriage and family, you will NOT chase your wife, but you will NOT leave your mother in a nursing home!
I don't feel like going into everyday life, just to share that my mother was forbidden to go up to my floor and she is not bedridden. They look after each other, wash themselves, from the social services and bring food and clean it. All that was required of me was a little attention, but it weighed heavily on my wife when I helped her. To tell you the truth, I hid so I could see her. Anyway, yesterday I offered a relative, a woman, to write to my mother's land (about BGN 40,000) in exchange for looking at one of my apartments, which is not very far away. I hope he agrees, my wife agrees to return, I explained to my daughter that this money could have been hers. That's all for now.
I feel sorry for you, I am a former teacher at 70 and I try to get along with my daughters-in-law. I fail, unfortunately. I don't have a labile psyche, this is manipulation. I don't live with anyone and I think that's right. Parents have NO right to expect children to prefer them to their children and partners. I think your mother is secretly harassing your wife. My mother-in-law died 10 years ago, I can't say anything good about her, she lived 500 km away from us. If you have the financial means, there are good old people's private homes. We accommodated my mother-in-law in Gorna Banya, she has lived there for 9 years. We visited her every week together. Success and whatever happens, seek advice from a family psychology specialist. He helped us and advised us about the nursing home. I was also thinking about divorce, the 68-year-old grandmother was hissing like a cobra in her son's absence. In front of him he was greasy and made the holy water undrinkable and intrigued before our sons and daughter-in-law. Smart and decisions are made with reason and thought for the future. Children do not owe us, we are not parents to look after us, but at will and with love.
It is really difficult to give advice when we do not have all the points of view. Your wife is hardly so evil, otherwise you would not have lived with her for 26 years. Probably the grandmother deserved the bad treatment. Somehow a hrisima grandmother, who takes care of herself and does not interfere in your relationship, is not bound to be such a thorn in your wife's side. Don't let the family break up for your mother. I wouldn't agree with a nursing home either, but hiring a woman to take care of her and visiting her is a good idea. It is always best to live apart from your parents.
"labile psyche (is a former teacher)" This clarifies everything ..... Up to 24 ("Your wife MUST behave well and respect your mother!") No one MUST. Respect is something that is won, not something that someone is obliged to give you
The topic is not complete! Mother, teacher, and what does your wife do? What are their points of conflict? Your mother has a major disability, does that mean any of you take care of her? Does your wife take care of your mother, you or your daughter? I doubt that any of the people who write that you should not let your mother in a nursing home have looked after a sick elderly person. It is very hard and responsible, and you also have to housework and work. Older people often become quite capricious and irritable at such times. If I'm lucky enough to live long enough and end up not being able to take care of myself, I want to go with dignity somewhere where people offer the care I need, not one of my children bathing, feeding and changing diapers!
What about your author's mother agreeing to move? It's hard to live like that. I grew up in such an environment only when my father became ill and things became unbearable. Our solution to the problem was for the old woman to go to her daughter. My grandmother was not human, she was evil. Otherwise, my ex-boss with a similar problem hired a nurse. She lived with her grandmother and was paid a month. You push yourself a little with those 40 sticks.
Nursing home. It sounds ugly, but things will calm down. You can't always be by her side and your wife won't look at her. I'm 39 and I haven't lived as long as you. I'm in a similar situation, only in an apartment. My sister is unlikely to return to look at my mother in antiquity. My grandfather died 2 years ago. He was 83. He refused to go to my father. He went on hemodialysis 3 times a week. He didn't pick up the phone for two days, and I finally broke down the door to his apartment. I had keys and I told him over 1000 times not to leave the key inside. I found him fallen by the door. The ambulance they were taking him for hemodialysis had called. Separately, I over 15-20 times. We go to work and we can't be around him all the time. And when he was in the hospital, he didn't pick up the phone either. I still can't forget. The quarrels between your wife and mother are not from yesterday. The moment has come when your wife's glass is full. Talk to her and your mother's doctor about how to move her to such a home. Don't ruin your family. It will be terribly difficult for everyone. Mostly to your daughter. Even if she doesn't live with you, it will make her very sad. Grandpa Tosho
My grandmother says so the bad always comes back to the one who does it. Look, sit down and talk to your wife, obviously there's a problem. I don't know how he allows himself to make the decision for you to choose, and I don't know in that case who I should choose. I can't because my grandparents also look after my grandmother (she is already 90 years old) it is a sin to leave her in a home for the elderly ... now it is not easy there are many diseases, there are some beginnings of multiple sclerosis, she behaves like a child, stubborn, but they have found a way to live together. So you will have to find yourself. Talk to your wife or she has some very big hurt with your mother or you come up with a reason to get out of your marriage (like another relationship)
"I explained to my daughter that this money could have been hers." How manipulative! it is worth that your wife has already experienced a lot for these years, and does not have the strength to continue in the same way!
Number 26, that's right and all psychologists know it. There is no more selfish motive to have children than "to have someone look after me in my old age." I work, save and buy properties that I rent out to have in the old days. I can't force my children to study and live with me to look after me - I want more for them - to develop professionally, to be happy, to enjoy their partners and children. We watch them, they watch their own children. You eat, drink, and then the children will watch you in your old age - his Bulgarian job. Everyone is obliged to secure their antiques. I take off your hat and that you had a bad mother-in-law, but you didn't become one. Most people around me are just waiting for their turn to harass ...
well done 4. Great comment. Author, no one owes anyone. That is why in the civilized world there are nursing homes, on-site care and a bunch of social services. But first is your current family. There are private nursing homes, you pay someone to take care of her, and so on. You rent out the property and pay to take care of your mother. To those who write not to send your mother to such a home, I will tell them that caring for a sick, unstable person, and if it is worse, is a job for professional care. There is no way anyone can bond with an adult 24 hours a day, no matter how much they love and care about them, after all. Not to mention the difference between the elderly in Bulgaria and in Western Europe. Ours are negative, malicious, the prices of your own, crowded with garbage houses. And now you will say, yes, but those are rich and our poor retirees. And here is an example with my grandparents. We pay their bills, give them extra money, take care of them. They will not go out for a walk in nature, to go to the theater. No, just grumbling. The only entertainment is to go shopping and compare prices. Their fridge is full, they buy a lot of unnecessary things and after going to them I am shaken by the negativity they pour. And they are no exception. So read the comments and think about whether you love your wife, whether your mother should be the reason for the separation, what solution to find. Your mother is bored, needs care, and you as a man what to do. they buy a bunch of unnecessary things and after going to them I am shaken by the negativity they pour out. And they are no exception. So read the comments and think about whether you love your wife, whether your mother should be the reason for the separation, what solution to find. Your mother is bored, needs care, and you as a man what to do. they buy a bunch of unnecessary things and after going to them I am shaken by the negativity they pour out. And they are no exception. So read the comments and think about whether you love your wife, whether your mother should be the reason for the separation, what solution to find. Your mother is bored, needs care, and you as a man what to do.
The commenters probably have no idea from watching crazy old people (I know those who would commit suicide if they had to watch them for 1 day), but from what you forgot to write (quite a short story) it is very likely your mother to be really unbearable (especially to your wife). The best thing for all of you (and even for her) is to place her in a private home for the elderly and mentally unstable, and to visit her from time to time. If you do not have the finances, rent its floor separately and your costs will be reduced, so you can raise money for a monthly fee. If necessary, you will be deprived of other expenses, but this way you will keep your family.
Supposedly 85% disability, but looking after herself, social services help her ... What prevents them from helping her in the other apartment as well? What did you give them these 40k for, I didn't understand? It is very mean and manipulative to tell your daughter that they could be hers, but "your empty wife cannot tolerate your vicious and obviously manipulative mother." What fragile psyche are we talking about? What if she's a teacher? Surely her fragility is expressed that if you do not do what she wants, and immediately raises blood, which is pure manipulation. What is a little attention for her? To hear on the phone every day? Going to see her every day? Your wife also needs attention as a woman, your daughter as much as your daughter. Your own family has to come first, and you're hiding to see Mom? !! To find girlfriends, retirement clubs, television, social networks, books. She sat and waited for her son to abandon his family to entertain her ... We had similar puppies from the mother-in-law. My husband and I come home quite late. According to my mother-in-law, he should have gone to her immediately after work, and I should have gone to cook for myself and then called him just to eat and go to bed. But we are a priority for each other, we love each other and we want to see each other after a long working day and talk, not just eat together and go to bed. That's why we cook together and use this time for ourselves. No one can convince me that I am a bad woman because I want to spend the few hours working with my husband instead of alone in front of the stove. No one can convince me that he is an ungrateful son because he prefers to pay attention to his wife rather than his mother. Being grateful and respecting and putting mom all your life in the first place are two different things. If your mother loves you, she will want you to be happy, she would not manipulate you and create tension between you and your wife.
It's me again, the one with the woman who would watch my mother against the property didn't work out. The woman refused. In the meantime, my wife has stayed with me ... to this day. Yesterday again a problem, in the morning I had come down to see my mother (it was Sunday) and she served me that her throat hurt all night, I took her to the duty officer, we took pills, everything exactly. But when I got home, my wife was like a storm cloud, why did I drool over her, couldn't she wait for Monday, why didn't she catch a taxi and go alone, she clung to me ... and it was horrible and now she's gone again. . She could not live in a house with my mother, if I had moved her to the other apartment alone, and if we had sold the current apartment and taken two rooms of new construction, otherwise you would have left. Madness. My mother is on the ground floor, she has a yard, a garden. How to close it in two rooms. Apart from the fact that it is not good, neither physically nor mentally. Now she got down again, saw her, calmed down, shifting her half a city, how was I going to drive her? But if I don't do it, I lose my family, my wife packs her bags and at the sight of the empty shelves my soul hurts. How did I get here, where did I go wrong? I am a good man, what sin am I redeeming? Say a word ...
From №4 this in №38 the author gives an explanation of the problem. The bad thing is not your wife, but your mother. If the foreign woman has given up BGN 40,000, provided that the grandmother can take care of herself, is not in diapers and washes herself and her social workers bring food, ie unemployed to refuse BGN 40,000 for company and medical treatment if necessary, consider what kind of woman is it. Author, most of the time your mother manipulates you and your wife gets angry about it. The author's idea of a private nursing home is not bad at all in this situation. In nice private homes there is care, there are parks, for sight and walk and medical care is arranged. Talk to your mother to accommodate her to take care of her, and she will have company there, it will be interesting, they will have fun, they will play board games, etc.
I am 26. Why should you take your grandmother to a doctor? My husband (87) and I go to the doctor alone when needed, we no longer drive and we don't have a car. We talk to the children every week, we drink coffee every month and that's it. If we need plain text we want the right amount. At 50, you're a bastard, not your wife and daughter! You are not right! With your behavior you will be left alone for the joy of your mother, you will isolate yourself from your relatives and friends. Guess your daughter how she feels about you and how she hates her grandmother. Who do you love the child or the grandmother? When your mother dies, what will you do? And this will happen relatively soon for natural reasons. Come to your senses, man, think of yourself and your family. Your mother has no right to deprive you of it. Your mother is obsessed with you, what does it mean to see / hear her every day? For us, the old people, the days are the same, there are no events. You are afraid of depriving your grandmother of something, why are you not afraid that you have deprived your wife and daughter of your whole life so that your mother will not be happy? If I were your wife, you couldn't hold me back. I'm leaving and I'm represented by a lawyer in the divorce case, I'm going to ask my daughter and you won't see her.
40 you're right, that's right. But you're two with your husband, and my mother is alone ... she's not alone, she's with me. I mentioned above that I have a studio where my daughter lives, but she will leave soon and my wife's idea is for my mother to go there. On the second floor is the studio has two rooms and a kitchenette. I also shared that my mother is not well, she has high blood pressure, now in the heat and playing, sometimes very high, sometimes very low. Otherwise, on weekdays I see her for a maximum of 15 minutes in the yard. On Saturdays and Sundays I see her more often, I go shopping. I don't know, crazy situation.
um, if you were a young family or a few years old, I would assume that your wife is something irritable, that she does not agree with your mother, that there is some struggle for supremacy and influence, this is not so rare. But after 25 !!! years of marriage to be so categorical that she does not want in any way to live in 1 house with your mother, things are not so simple. You don't write anything about your relationship with your wife, but I guess you lived a normal life. However, once she is determined to end it because of your mother, things are very bad. The woman was obviously absolutely fed up. In my opinion, you either do not properly assess the situation in which she is placed, or you are a mother's son, despite her age, which has not put things on the right footing and you allow your mother to harass your wife. I also think you're dramatizing her pain or letting her dramatize. For a sore throat you do not need to go to the doctor on duty, it is enough to buy lozenges and tea. If it was a normal situation, no woman would mind taking your mother to the doctor. However, she visibly manipulates you, and you attach yourself to her dramas. I don't know exactly what you mean by "good man", but you definitely make an impression of a weak-willed person. If in 25 years you have not been able to find the healthy boundary between the two, you will not do it now. Decide which is more important to you - your family or your mother what you think of, but you definitely make an impression of a weak-willed person. If in 25 years you have not been able to find the healthy boundary between the two, you will not do it now. Decide which is more important to you - your family or your mother what you think of, but you definitely make an impression of a weak-willed person. If in 25 years you have not been able to find the healthy boundary between the two, you will not do it now. Decide which is more important to you - your family or your mother
Dude, if I were your wife, I wouldn't stand you for 6 months, not 26 years. Let me write it to you too - your mother is to blame, not your wife. When you start a family, it is now a priority, not the parents. The parents are up to date, someday your mother will just leave, what will you do alone in the house with 2 separate entrances? Apart from everything, I am convinced that your wife did not see your mother in broad daylight, but either she saved you everything, or you did not have eyes to see it. And it's normal, you're her son, and she's not your mother-in-law. On Sunday, children, not the elderly, are taken to an emergency room for a sore throat (if it was possible at all). Well, it's not very comfortable, but you don't die from it. And the daily contact with mom is really super annoying. Do you call your wife every day during working hours? Although the profession of "teacher" she explains many things - everyone should respect her and carry her in their arms by presumption. I can't give you advice. I am a daughter-in-law. There is no good mother-in-law. But I am also a mother. And there is no way to get my daughter to serve me in time, before she develops and starts a family. Children are born out of love, not to owe it to their parents. Decide with whom you want to spend your old days.
I have diabetes, three bypasses, two stents, 4 artificial joints and I am a person and a friend of my relatives, not a burden. Grandpa has cerebral sclerosis, but he listens to me and wears his diaper gently. As far as we are concerned, our children are 48 and 46 years old. Must! they live their lives and we push. Around. they are all widows, the grandfathers are gone, but the women are doing well. We gather neighbors for coffee, tea, a cup of syrup, talk, knit, just be together. Children come when they really need someone. Today I shared and all grandmothers are of the opinion that this is a complete manipulation by your mother.
My mother does not want to go to a nursing home or be watched by strangers in exchange for property. I can't force her to do that. My wife is firmly on hers. Things are going to part with my wife ... which is absurd for me, but that's the situation. The daughter will get engaged by the end of the year and women, how my wife thinks this job I just do not know.
You can't force her, but you don't have to watch her. Apparently you are one of the children who were born "to have someone to look after me in my old age." You will do a great foolish thing if you let your wife go. One day you will be alone, without mom - then write to us again to say which is more important - mom or mother of your children.
If she doesn't want a nursing home and doesn't want to be looked after by strangers, you stop looking at her too. You pay attention to her only one day a week for 20 minutes to make sure she still doesn't want a home and that's it, for example every Tuesday night for 20 minutes you pay attention to her and until then, if she tells you I'm sick, you say "I don't have time to hire someone to watch you ". Grandma manipulates you, I laughed with this high blood pressure, everyone who takes their medication regularly does not play with his blood, neither from heat nor from cold. Grandma lies to you that she takes her pills regularly, makes you see her blood so she has something to manipulate you with, and you don't understand that they are cheating on you.
46 Yes, that's right. Because of another such brazen decision, some two people from Ganyov have a poor imagination of what awaits them. You have decided to raise slaves, on whom to kill their complexes for the rest of their lives and in the end to brazenly expect to be fooled, and only when you remind them a little what rot and cruel payment awaits them for this low impudence - some very unjustified people appear. dear harassed choristers of ungrateful slaves. Honestly, I can't wait for the days of retribution to come ... Not that they haven't paid for their whole life from stupidity, malice and complexes, but now they have raised it ... I hope they read more impudent freaks how such vile selfishness returns and do not create innocent children to drink their nerves. And this author of the downpour is very similar to a mother's son, I think there is no way to help him.
Well, great, if you think it's necessary, keep pounding your mother and turning on her heel as soon as she plays. You can look for a solution for someone to come and help her, but obviously you don't want to and don't even allow your wife to have a reason. If you haven't found the balance in 25 years, you can't do it now. If she is more important than your family, go boldly in the same spirit, you are headed directly to the loneliness of antiquities from 42
Unfortunately, there are many such "men" in Bulgaria as the author, who at 40-50 and older still allow their mother to manipulate them and understand their family. I'm not saying you should totally fuck your mother, but a real man always finds a way to balance things and not break up his family. But what am I wondering about, since half of the Bulgarians live with their mothers up to 30-40 and do not even realize the need to be independent.