First of all, I will ask the editor to approve my post, because I am in a terrible dilemma! I go straight to the problem. I broke up my 1 year relationship because my boyfriend was putting a lot of pressure on me. I was happy with him, I felt safe, because I am not looking for love, but for the respect that remains for a lifetime, trust and fidelity. We got along uniquely, we lived together and everything was great. The problem is in sex .... he wants absolutely every act to start with kissing and pushing ... so far so good! Then move on to a 20 minute blowjob, drowning like an animal, then vaginal sex and finally anal. Super is very attached to all this and made me give him a blowjob and anal sex by force, which pushed me away from him. He won't change in that regard, and I wonder if I made the mistake of leaving him, because he's a hell of a nice gentleman with a wonderful attitude towards me ... of course without the attitude in sex. Give me advice, please !!!
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It is not clear how you broke the relationship and what exactly do you ask?
If he loves you and is as you describe him, it shouldn't be a problem for him not to have French and anal. For me, you acted normally, you are still not someone's slave, your body is yours and you will do with it what you decide when you decide it. Come on now boldly forward :)
Amy, you will endure so much.
Let him find another toy
It was right! Forced beauty does not happen!
You have not lost your happiness, He is not the only one, you will find another, who will respect your desire in sex. Sex should be a pleasure for both, not just one. 8
The woman must be a slut in bed and a lady in society. I am a woman.
Come on ... Egati gentleman, he almost raped you and it's brutal, but otherwise he's very nice: p. Let me just say that I'm also a fan of hot sex, but not if the chick doesn't want to, it's just stupid, lol! Calm down, this is not your happiness, but your unhappiness. I hope you are young, because you just don't know what people are like. Most men are as sweet and kind as puppies only when he takes them out. Come on, have a little "respect" and forget it .. In time you will realize that you were used by some asshole ... Good luck in life!
"Hell of a gentleman with a wonderful attitude towards me" "Hell of a gentleman" and "gentleman" are not about making you do things you don't want to do. Otherwise - you did the right thing. Discrepancies in sex are not something that can make a relationship successful.
Honey, what I'm reading is awful ... You didn't lose your happiness because you didn't have it with this man, you were mistaken because you wanted to be a respected woman, to have a relationship. But you'll be happy if you're as far away as possible from this scumbag, he's brainwashed you to do his dirty games with you and you don't think you're doing anything wrong. There are many such men - they want to subdue you, to make you a slave in their perverted games. It's awful to be manipulated into blowjobs and anal sex, and then see how gallant he is. He puts on a gentleman's mask and shows his real face in bed. I'm an emancipated woman, fighting for my personal life. Read something about feminism. Don't be someone's slave, no matter how "nice" it is .. Eh, why are there so many deluded women .. Write what you think. Chris
I don't understand you, honestly ... what kind of sex do you want? 1 time, in the missionary position in the dark? And if you didn't fit in sexually in the beginning and if they seriously bother you and they repel his preferences, why did you live with him? In my opinion, your friend's wishes were completely normal and sound nice .... Honestly, I can't believe that the things listed are unpleasant to you F, 21
Abe, how old are you, that you hate blowjobs and anal sex. Well, you young people do it shortly after you start having regular sex. If he is a nice gentleman and has a wonderful attitude towards you, then what are you complaining about !! Give him blowjobs, even swallow his semen, continue with the anal and you will get used to it so much that then you will not be interested if you do not do these things. Keep up with the times, we are already in the 21st century, why are you complaining.