I lost my husband at 48. Scary! My best friend, best husband, father and everything else. I can't recover for a second year. I don't know where. Neither back nor forward. I am supported by children, relatives and friends, but I still can't. I only think about it. Are there others like me who can't handle this pain? Please write! Thanks!
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I lost my mother in 2 weeks - suddenly - at the age of 59 ... I haven't been alive for 7 months now - I'm only alive according to documents ... the bad thing is that I was left completely, but completely alone - I have no living parents, family, none close - and I'm alive ... I'm 31 years old ... I must be paying for great sins - and I don't know ... at least you're lucky to have people close to you - I have nothing ... What can I tell you - to myself, I can't give advice ... I'm thinking of dying, of ending my life - at least you have someone to live for - for your children - you need and need them ... Otherwise you don't experience, the pain is not overcome ... you do not learn to live with it - this is ...
Two years is too long to be able to move forward. Buy Louise Hay's books. Or download them from the online mascara. "Why this? Why me? Why now?" Too. There is a lot of other literature out there that is appropriate. Things do not end with death. Once this has happened to you, it makes sense and if you understand it, it will be much easier for you. But you have to ask for it. Without your conscious assistance, nothing will happen. And going to a psychologist for sessions will still not happen without you doing your part of the job. Success!
It does not fight the pain. When you cry, cry, when you remember, tell and mention. There is no cure, you face reality and along with the pain you go on and on.
Remember once when you were little and didn't have a husband how you lived. How did you find meaning in life. You had your dreams. Try to make your childhood dreams come true now.
I give you a hug!
I remember a homeopathic remedy - Ignatius. It is given in such cases. For safety you can visit a homeopath! Success!
Hello, My sincere condolences to your husband. Losing a loved one is very, very hard and now you have to be very strong to be able to move forward. The world seems meaningless to you, you think you can't handle it, that you are hanging over an abyss and slowly falling into it ... I think you should break away for a while from everything that reminded you of your husband. To try to travel, to meet new people, to see new places. Only you, no relatives, no friends and relatives. This will help you overcome the grief and move forward. I wish you all the best!
number 1: instead of ending your life, you better find a person next to you. There are many people in your position, you have to fight. I think you know you owe it to your parents, even if they're not alive. Tighten up and take life in your hands. It will work, no one said it would be easy. Come on!