Hello, I am 32 years old, I just wanted to share here because I expect women to give me advice. So I was addicted to a Virtual Game (I will not quote which one exactly) and for 3 years I ignored the person next to me. I say I ignored, but did not ignore. Over time, things got quite cold between us. I decided to seek help from a specialist and started addiction therapy. The point is that I want to arrange my life as it was before and I do not find any help from it and it hurts me. I know that it is difficult for her too and 3 years cannot be repaired in negative time. But I don't sleep with the thought of somehow making me believe that I'm changing. I don't want to force things and suffocate and push her, but the truth is I miss her. And the worst part is that she now spends time on the internet skype and another game online until the morning, and a word not to go to her and talk. It's so interesting on her that she doesn't notice me. There are nights when I go crazy when I'm alone in bed and she plays in the other room. I know it's all up to date. But I'm still very sorry.
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Did the Khan syndrome shake you, bro?
Hahaha, everyone with their problems number 1, once you ignored her you will have to endure a little now her neglect, imagine now how she felt when you did it! Patience! What exactly is this virtual game? Aren't you great for such giggles :)
You know, it's hard to light a flame that's already extinguished. The woman wants attention, love, warmth and she lacked that. Unfortunately I can't give you advice, I just can't find the words, you still did well to turn to a specialist :(
A woman who also spends a lot of her evenings talking on Skype or playing online writes to you. I can say that I have a happy marriage, I love my husband, but the reason I look for this kind of entertainment is boredom. There came a time when there was simply nothing to say. The evenings after work were reduced to exchanging one or two sentences and watching television. Then I found a way to replace this boredom with an online game in which there is an opportunity for chat. There I meet a lot of interesting people I can talk to and I liked that. But my feelings and attitude towards my husband do not change. I just found a way to have fun. That is, the modern woman who does not stand in front of the TV and knit a sweater for her husband. But I have given my assurance to my husband that when we need to talk, I will not ignore him to play. That's it. My advice to you is,
Hello! I also spend a lot of time talking on Skype, IQ or chat. My husband also spent a lot of time in these online games, but he was annoyed when I was on the computer. He met these women, and in the evening we had a lot of quarrels. I can't believe that after 1/4 century of marriage I lost the trust I had in him. How could I believe him when I experienced and heard a lot. Things got out of hand sometimes. To hide my mistakes, I was accused of everything. I was about to divorce. We have nothing more to say to him anymore. Maybe we've told each other everything over the years. You can't change anything, believe me. Maybe your great love does not exist and cannot trust you. They say time heals, but I don't believe it. Because for a moment I can't forget anything .. I wish you success ...
You are lucky to be with you !!! You can't deny that you are to blame somewhere. While in the other room he sleeps peacefully. It is not easy to lose a beloved girl, but this is not your case. Pay more attention and be gentle with her and everything will be fine.