I Lost My Virginity - I Hurried And I'm Sorry

   What can you regret? You felt ready - you did it.

   Don't worry, it's a little early for you, but in the end you did it, there is no going back. Look forward to doing it only with a serious friend and not to become a counterpart

   Hello. First I want to cleanse you that you have become a woman. Don't regret anything - done - done, and the boy is obviously literate, as long as he made sure you were well and used a condom. Something more terrible could have happened to you, even at the age of 20. Dear child, you were not in a hurry, but only by one year. In Bulgaria, after 14 years, it is legal to have a man have sex with you, but for now .... you can just take your boy to a correctional facility without wanting to (if yours understands, for example). Therefore, be silent for at least a year. Don't blame the boy - you agreed. Don't think you lost anything, especially if it was good for you ... Even if she started at 17, the same job - virginity is given once, but to tell you the truth - even though I only gave it to 18, I'm sorry, that I didn't do it with a boy much earlier. Nothing will change your life, if you are avoiding getting pregnant. Always use condoms and don't sleep .... Just keep your secret zealous, don't trust "girlfriends" and let the boy do the same - because he can go to jail at least. Keep your good name and watch your lessons and games. One does not exclude the other. You can still enjoy the child in you, skate outside, play with the little ones. I'm 27 and I'm still doing it. The lack of a virgin zipper and age do not bother me. Soon I took a plush for Christmas ... Keep the child in you, but do not regret ANYTHING! You can still enjoy the child in you, skate outside, play with the little ones. I'm 27 and I'm still doing it. The lack of a virgin zipper and age do not bother me. Soon I took a plush for Christmas ... Keep the child in you, but do not regret ANYTHING! You can still enjoy the child in you, skate outside, play with the little ones. I'm 27 and I'm still doing it. The lack of a virgin zipper and age do not bother me. Soon I took a plush for Christmas ... Keep the child in you, but do not regret ANYTHING!

   I support number 2. I also want to tell you that it is really too early for you to do it, but there is no going back anymore. At least when you grow up, you won't be ashamed that you didn't do it and you have to lie that you are. It's a little early for you to start with boyfriends, but if it comes to sex, do it only with a boy who is a really serious friend of yours, not to become a bitch. I don't want to offend you, really, I'm just giving you advice :) Good luck

   hello, even though you are 13 years old, you are already a girl. you should not regret just meeting a smart handsome and gentle man with whom you were intimate. it is commendable that you used a condom. beware of sexually transmitted diseases, it is too early for you to become a mother. It will not significantly affect you to start having sex. Good luck in love. It's just the beginning of puberty.

   Author, you will excuse me, but a lot that I get off topic and ask the other smart people- Who the hell decided that the girl becomes a woman after she did? She may be a virgin at 27, but what - are we going to take her, or will she call her mother to ask her if she can get a certain bra? !! So, to the topic. And to feel sorry and to be sad, but to burst with a roar - it's still the same. You did it and that's it, from now on decide for yourself. If you hadn't written as an injured child, but as a proud teenager you would have been attacked, I tell you that as you accept things, so will the others, the situation is in your hands. You are already big, you are already smart enough for a sex life, you made a girl out of me - prove it! It's all on your back if you get pregnant, if you catch a sexually transmitted disease, if you go to a gynecologist sick of something sexually transmitted - mom will be happy if the boy breaks up with you after a day .... sex is not a sport, it is not just a pleasure, it is such a responsibility that once you take it back there is no going back! And your job is after a rain hood, think before sex, not after it. And if everyone else holds your hand and they calm you down, I won't do it, you don't need lies. People do it on 15/16, because then they can take the risk of everything, and you on 13, once you have decided, go ahead. If you can do it - great, good, do it every day. But if you can't - I'm sorry, it's too late for everything. Zu-Za And your job is after a rain hood, think before sex, not after it. And if everyone else holds your hand and they calm you down, I won't do it, you don't need lies. People do it on 15/16, because then they can take the risk of everything, and you on 13, once you have decided, go ahead. If you can do it - great, good, do it every day. But if you can't - I'm sorry, it's too late for everything. Zu-Za And your job is after a rain hood, think before sex, not after it. And if everyone else holds your hand and they calm you down, I won't do it, you don't need lies. People do it on 15/16, because then they can take the risk of everything, and you on 13, once you have decided, go ahead. If you can do it - great, good, do it every day. But if you can't - I'm sorry, it's too late for everything. Zu-Za

   I apologize for being a little more rude, but don't you think we can't cure your guilty conscience? You think that when we write to you how kind and good you are and you will pass, you mentioned in vain how good you are, etc., so that everyone will tell you that you have not actually done anything wrong. Not to me these ...

   To number 7. In fact, my question was "I want to ask you if starting sex at such an early age will affect you in the future." I didn't mention anything to tell me I hadn't done anything wrong, I just wanted to describe how I felt. I'm sorry you didn't get me right. Number 6 I know is on my back, no one is burdening my friend or family. And I know very well that I am responsible for everything. 5-Thank you ..! :) 4- No, I'm not bloody, I did it with my friend, we're together, my eyes aren't looking for another and I don't think I'll repeat it soon. I am grateful to you :) 3- He really gave me a lot of valuable information. I am sincerely grateful to you. I haven't told anyone, I have no intention of doing so. And I'm very happy, that there are such positive people like you! 2- Thanks. And I will not become a countman. I'm not that type :) 1- I am extremely grateful for your support! Happy and smiling day .. I wish you only good things. :) The author :)

   To the Author from 3. Thank you. Otherwise, don't take a nap. I personally kept to 18 and what? An idiot almost raped me and it took me a long time to get back on my feet. I just missed a lot of happy moments with the boy I know would make me happy. Just make sure you don't get pregnant. Obviously your boy is good, but you also get condoms in you to just have. If it bursts, do not bread, but take Escapelle without a prescription within 72 hours. I personally am very happy with the condoms - in 10 years I have cracked 2 times. I have not become pregnant or have other gynecological problems. Otherwise - you have no reason to beware of sexually transmitted diseases. I'm sure you're also either the boy's first or second girl. Calm down. Just be very careful of pregnancy, but very, very strict. And even if you break up, you shouldn't tell anyone, because I don't think that it is fair to put the boy in prison (for 5 years). Do what you do, but do it for yourself. If you don't make a fuss, you won't have a problem. It is neither immoral nor a sign of bad morals. You love each other and you were only with him, as he was only with you. You are just very small and you have to be careful about getting pregnant. This is the only problem for you. That is why I welcome you to the world of women. You already have a female problem - to protect yourself, but I tell you again - the sex life with the boy you love is not a vice, and it will not affect your soul, body, childhood, evaluations in any way. .. if you don't let that happen. Go on with your life and don't give too much importance to your sex life. Everyone outside has. Give importance to your education, as well as to games, friends, family ..., and if you decide to have sex with your favorite boy, if you use condoms and protect yourself, then this will be just a part of your colorful life. The years go by, live your life without remorse for what you have done. Take responsibility, and there is only one - not to get pregnant and keep quiet until you are at least 14. Good luck!

   Номер 1 пише глупости и, ако си на повече години от авторката много жалко за теб. :( От едно изречение установих, че си около 13 и ти. Не си жена мойто момиче, ти много си избързала, жена не се става като си загубиш девствеността на 13 години. Не знам къде в историята на момичето прочетохте нещо за мъж? ИЛИ това е 15 годишното момче? Не може от нормално мислещ да чуеш по различно, че на 13 години, ако стане белята и бебе ли ще гледаш? Преди около 10 години не си спомням толкова масово оглупяване да е имало. Жалко, че ще се раждат деца от деца, те няма да имат нужното възпитание.. Съжалявам, но и аз нямам намерение да крия какво мисля, нямам какво друго да кажа освен, че това е отговорност, ако знаеш какво е значението на тая дума? Никой ли не мисли? То си е за вас и после ви е плачете.. A ти номер 3 да научиш законите хубаво! Пишеш глупости, но ти си го знаеш според мен... Всеки си има мнение, но сайта е за полезни съвети и, ако си мислите, че повечето ви коментари са полезни за авторката се лъжете. Споделяйте повече с родителите и вярвам, че ще има по малко подобни истории. Няма нищо по ценно от това едно дете да си изживее детския живот по детски. Не поущрявайте деца да вършат глупости, говоря за 1- ви и 3- ти коментар. :) Кумчо Вълчо

   Isn't it a little early for you? I don't know how people feel ready at such an early age and I think it will affect you if you think about it all the time. And if you continue your life without problems, good health! And you may have some complications because of your early age. But let's see the Roma - at 10 they lose their virginity and what-nothing but absolutely nothing to them. Neither diseases chase them nor anything.

   Kumcho Valcho to read paragraphs 149 next in the Penal Code. from number 3 P.P. The 15-year-old boy, although a minor, is a defendant ... there are correctional facilities for such, if the author is not silent. So that...

   It is good that you have learned a lesson and realized that it is wrong. It's early, really, but don't be sorry, because you've already done it, there's no going back. The important thing is that you have learned a lesson, because some, like you, do not learn a lesson and continue in the same spirit and eventually become pregnant at the age of 16-17 and write here and seek help. And what help as they are guilty and did not think with their heads? And remember, look for love, the real one, and don't rush next time, even if you're 18 years old. The important thing is to be loved all your life by one man, not to be used all your life by many. and that's what boy tells you :) you know.

   Emmy, whatever we talk about, the author is a child, what do you think number 3? that she is a woman? Enough of the number 6 is written above. It is not correct to think that she lost her virginity and became a woman. :) At 35, so you're still a kid if you haven't had sex? You describe it that way, if I'm not mistaken;) and we started to get very complex, which is sad. These are mature people and the author is already great. If you are impatient ... we will read such stories. big Bad Wolf

   Kofti .... I hope one day I don't have such a daughter ... You had to wait at least until 17 ... even then it's too early for you!

   Number 3, do you think this is the criterion for a woman?

   I advise you to be much more careful from now on. Beware, especially respect your body. If you follow these rules there will be no consequences. SUCCESS AND SMART !!! ^^^^ ЛуДкАрКаТа ^^^^

   I decided to answer your question exactly "will it affect in the future, the beginning of sexual life at such an early age?" It depends solely on you and the decisions you make in life later. If you stay with this boy, you don't start changing partners often and you avoid pregnancy / illness, there is no problem. I'm 40 years old at 14 I acted like you at 17 I had to have an abortion but it didn't affect my life at all, I have a family of two big children and what if I started having sex earlier nothing. There is a plus in this, I talked to my children about sex early on, I allowed them to do it at home instead of on the benches in the park, and I'm not ashamed of that.

   Number 3, how could you become a woman like that ... haha

   Well, she was in a hurry to send your friend to the shavrant and soften his desire. You are still a child. What do you think you are doing

   number 20 - +1 to the author - who can I tell you except - play it again :)

   Well, my advice is to be careful in the future - contraception in the first place

   I would say that I envy the author - I am a boy of 18 and my first time was with a prostitute

   Are you okay !? You think that it is normal for today's 13-year-olds to have sex from now on and it will not affect them! You know - at 13 she makes her set, at 14 she gives it to her ass, at 15 she changes them like handkerchiefs, at 16 she doesn't have one and so at 18 she is an adult prostitute! Please! That you should not regret anything is COMPLETE nonsense! She is still a CHILD! You need to stop for a second, darling! After all, 13 years !! You have something to regret! What will your mother think when she finds out that the minor, I emphasize the MINOR, her daughter, who is still a child, is already having sex ??? Once you are ready to take on such a responsibility, you can move out of it, to start an independent life, because your mother would not let you, and you know that a parent must be obeyed! I don't know what kind of parent you will become! You better not and think more about having sex until 18, because it will get bad! Until the so-called "number 3", I just want to tell you that you were not in her place to approve of her action! NANA

   FOR NUMBER 25. Listen, she may have made a mistake, but she feels guilty and is looking for a way forward not to affect her, she is looking for help. It's good that she felt ready, but you shouldn't blame her for things she herself is responsible for the consequences .. she wanted it- she did it, as soon as she feels guilty she has something to do .. this is the truth .. and about what you wrote: "at 13 she makes her set, at 14 she gives and in ass, ... "etc. you don't know her so well that you can't judge her what will happen, again she decides for herself, but I guess she's smart enough! TO THE AUTHOR! Hello, I am also 13 and I currently have a friend who is 14, I fully understand what is wrong with you, because I also feel ready, but I prefer to wait until 16 at least. I'm not implying anything, I just want to tell you that you have to hide from your mother for a while, and this is a big responsibility, because a girl has to have her mother's word before she does something .. Um, don't say anything to anyone and don't have sex until 16, judge the boys and don't repeat your mistake until the moment you can to become sincere .. Kisses! :)

   Everyone decides when to start having sex. Everyone has a choice, she felt ready and that's it. No attacks. And the boy was conscientious and careful. Maybe you should have waited at least until 14 .... at least ... And keep it a secret, what happened between you stays there.

   Don't worry, you did it so early, I'm on the 14th yoke, I did it once in the summer. My friend and I have done it 7 times since then, but he is also very careful. It's good that you used a condom, keep going like this, because I did it for once and then I was quite scared. Don't worry if you wanted it and felt ready :).

   Well, the girl has slept with the 13-year-old boy, will walk with her for a few more years and life will separate them. Then she will fall in love with someone else again, but her heart will always remember the first full love. Then will she be able to love with all her heart the man with whom she will live for the rest of her life? Isn't a man and a woman emotionally exhausted if they start having sex early and will they be happy? Her years are now the most graceful to study and play sports, to build character. Then he will work all his life, look after his family, children, husband. What the fuck is it to commit to and not look at your priorities in life, and that is education in the first place. 359

   Aloo moralists .. first make sure that your children do not fuck at 13 and then give the girl a reason !! And let whoever wants to live his life as he is .. What have you started giving lessons in ethics and law .. Tc Tc Tc,,, Little one, I will tell you only one thing - live as you want, do what you want and be happy . And never regret, do not ask for mercy and most of all proud .. No matter what happens .. A woman is not proud of herself .. She is not a woman. :)) AnaBel

   What wise advice from a little bigger "woman". тц .. :(

   Number 25, please don't take over. And what if she did it at 13? !! If she felt ready, even if it wasn't, why not do it? It's her choice. Yes, I wouldn't like my daughter to have sex at the age of 13-14 either, but apparently that's how things turned out for the girl (: Wait a minute, who said she was going to be a prostitute? She realizes the mistake herself and she wrote that she does not intend to repeat it soon. What * abysses are you talking about ?! Wow, please tighten up! I don't think you have read and understood the whole problem that the author has shared ...

   Abe 25, you're a complete idiot, the girl decided to do it, it's a great philosophy, but it's an old story

   Abe, no one is sooner or later ... Hello, you feel ready - do it. Of course I'm not talking about 10, 11 years. Yes, you are in a hurry, but you speak when a fact is over ... :)

   The most important thing then is not to regret it. If, say, the boy wasn't careful, or hurt a lot or not at all ... you weren't comfortable then you should be sorry. But if there is no problem, why are you sorry? And what happened happened everyone makes white ...

   To number 6 ... She becomes a woman ... after her cycle came .. and it came to her .. that's why they tell her that she is a woman;)) a very useless comment .. she had better not have written it :)))))) And on the topic: I completely agree with numbers 1 and 2 .. :) there is no point in repeating the same. :))

   I don't know about the others but I agree with number 25.

   Some girls at 17, 18 have not had sex yet, not because they do not want to, but because there is no one. And luck came to you at the age of 13 and you complain. Tighten up a bit.

   Well, you felt ready and you did. I am personally 16 years old and I have a serious friend but I am afraid of the first time because they say it hurts. Now that I hear from you that the most important thing is to be sure that you want it, I will dare to do it. But be very careful, because you are breaking the law.

   Haha people in what century do you live? What is this nonsense that makes you very wise? How would she love the man she would spend her life with? Well, let's take a veil! It was really early for her, maybe 16-17 would have been better, but please don't expose yourself. In your opinion, it would be better for her to marry at the age of twenty and then for her husband to be her first (and for him to have had sexual partners) and for her to be completely inexperienced. I prefer to have experience and know what I want before I get married. Instead of, for example, making a mistake and he is not the person for me, or as we have been married for 10 years, for example, even if we love each other terribly, to torment myself if I have not lost when I was only with him. that I have no morals. I think that the time for marriage arrangements by the parents and the bloody evidence / of the sheets / for the girl's innocence is long gone. Or do you still live there? The world has changed. Nothing is so black and white, especially the relationship between men and women. Now I am 17 and I want to do it, no matter that I am ready a long time ago / from 2-3 years ago /. I have a friend with whom I feel good and I am sure of him. I waited because I am worried about the opinion of others, about what will happen next, and I know that when you start your sexual life earlier it is not good for development, because the body is still growing and is fragile .. However, as a person it I wish why not. It's also nice for a person to indulge and relax, of course you have to be careful and take care of yourself, but I don't think I'll be able to handle it: D And about the conversations with the parents - I talk constantly with my mother about everything for as long as I can remember. To the author: In the end, I want to say that once you felt ready and the boy was careful with you, you have nothing to worry about .. you were in a hurry, but at least your friend did not behave badly. Otherwise, don't bother, it's happened. And don't listen to "moralists" who 100 percent regret that their parents, for example, probably imposed strict rules on them and now, when they can't go back, they talk about how we should all be like them and beware of the TEMPTATIONS OF THE DEVIL. / sounds funny, especially in the 21st century / Besides, I want to say that sex does not interfere with learning, morality or something like that. What idiot has instilled in you the idea that by not zealously guarding your virginity before marriage, you will instantly become a prostitute or you will fail and you will not be a strong student. You just have to be with one person, not change them constantly, and keep learning and remembering that sex is not the end of childhood, as someone mentioned above. Success! And the "smart ones" - look around! We do not live in the 18th century!

   Played!

   my girl, don't you care, you did it and the world won't do the big job and nothing will change in the future, you will experience your childhood again, you will enjoy the gifts again, but you will have a little secret;)

   You are not right for me, you are still underdeveloped! both mentally and physically to be ready for sex ... but as you say! it happened! that's how I think it because I put myself in the place of your mother and father if they know how disappointed they will be! you are so small and not oriented yet I'm sorry to say it I hope the comment will be approved but you don't know how to wipe your ass after a big need but you have sex .. I have no words! it may affect you but you know there will be a cover so!