Hello! I will try to be as brief as possible. I have been married for 15 years with two children and he with one. Things are not going well in our country from the very beginning, we are very different with my husband ... it just doesn't work out, but we are still struggling. For almost 3 years I have been in touch with the other Man - my great Love! For almost a year we kept in touch by phone mainly, all day. We became very close friends, we revealed all our secrets. Then came sex, which is great. I love him very much, I believe he loves me too. We have reached the point where we do not have enough rare meetings. Jealousy began to weigh on us - he is jealous of my husband, I am jealous of his wife :( She managed to find out about me, gave ultimatums, but he denied and decided that he would keep her because of the child / 9 years old / and me, because he could not to imagine my life without hearing or seeing me. But I ... I can't stand it anymore. I think about them all the time, how they are with them, how maybe he pleases and hides it, how they have sex, etc. He claims that one day they will separate and he will be with me. All this tension has an impact and things have not been going on between us for days. What should I do? I want to end because it hurts a lot, but I can't, and he is adamant - no end! How do I continue? Apart from mentally and physically, I don't feel well :( It may be silly to seek advice, maybe I have to decide for myself what I want - whether it hurts a lot and suddenly and over time or hurts every day, from morning to night. a little :( This pain changes me, as well as everything good between us and if we are ever really together, I think I will not be the woman he fell in love with ... Share an experience, please!
All this tension has an impact and things have not been going on between us for days. What should I do? I want to end because it hurts a lot, but I can't, and he is adamant - no end! How do I continue? Apart from mentally and physically, I don't feel well :( It may be silly to seek advice, maybe I have to decide for myself what I want - whether it hurts a lot and suddenly and over time or hurts every day, from morning to night. a little :( This pain changes me, as well as everything good between us and if we are ever really together, I think I will not be the woman he fell in love with ... Share an experience, please! All this tension has an impact and things have not been going on between us for days. What should I do? I want to end because it hurts a lot, but I can't, and he is adamant - no end! How do I continue? Apart from mentally and physically, I don't feel well :( It may be stupid to seek advice, maybe I have to decide for myself what I want - whether it hurts a lot and suddenly and over time it passes or hurts every day, from morning to night. a little :( This pain changes me, as well as everything good between us and if we are ever really together, I think I will not be the woman he fell in love with ... Share an experience, please!
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I can't understand what you are marrying and creating children for when you can't stand it at first ...
The banal story - great love, dreams of a common future on her part and a promise of divorce from him, but not now, but someday. Never understand as ever. When you start pushing him harder, he'll leave you. If he wanted a divorce, he would in three years. Whatever you do will still hurt, but that is the price of infidelity.
Unlike most commenters, I will not judge you. Confused work, sit down and tell him in your eyes how you feel, decide what you are going to do, give him an ultimatum or break up with your wife or you and that's it. You can't drive it like that once his wife understands it's only a matter of time before he spreads it everywhere and eventually your husband learns. So either you end up with your lover or you get divorced, if your husband finds out you will leave and the lover will also make you black for fear of ruining your "family", be sure.
Are you crazy? I am a woman, but to this day, I cannot understand some women. This person, if he really loves you, has been with you for a long time. He "hated" his wife, but he stayed with her because of the child, and probably with "disgust" he had sex with her. Please! Get that bastard out of your life and find a way to fix your marriage, have two children and be responsible for their future. There are no unsolvable problems, your husband is hardly such a monster. Try harder! And if your husband is such a hopeless case - divorce, there is no point in living in a lie. Then wait for your lover, hoping that one day he will divorce. And you expect this scumbag to look after your children in a divorce and pay your bills. And my "great love" remembered me when I was already married with two children. It was not talk, praise, shooting down stars from the sky and what not. Finally I went to him with the children. Are you accepting us? "Strong smoke" escaped and no longer flashed. What to say? My husband will never leave him because I know what I want? I want a hardworking husband and a caring father and a normal person to live in peace with. I have it all and I wouldn't trade it for anything. Answer the question: what do you want from life and how do you plan to achieve it? Remember that you also have children. And the rumors that one day they will grow up and take the road twice are alas - a ball. They always remain a part of our lives. Good luck with which to live peacefully. I have it all and I wouldn't trade it for anything. Answer the question: what do you want from life and how do you plan to achieve it? Remember that you also have children. And the rumors that one day they will grow up and take the road twice are alas - a ball. They always remain a part of our lives. Good luck with which to live peacefully. I have it all and I wouldn't trade it for anything. Answer the question: what do you want from life and how do you plan to achieve it? Remember that you also have children. And the rumors that one day they will grow up and take the road twice are alas - a ball. They always remain a part of our lives. Good luck
Another muffin that fucks her on the avant-garde, and she thinks she's going to ruin the family because of a K .... R. I've been married for 25 years, and I'm fucking two colleagues, like the author. I will never abandon my family because of people like you. I am sure that your great love will beat your jester, as soon as you part with your husband, then you will sing another song! At the moment you are in the position of a colleague who treats her as they want and when they want, without commitments and responsibilities.
I will not attack you, but I will tell you honestly what I think. Believe me, you need impartial comments, not to deceive you so that you like it. I have also been married for a long time, also with two children. I would bite my tongue, but I would never call a stranger a man, a man with a woman, with a child the love of his life. Given that my husband is the father of my children. that infidelity does not solve the problems you have - on the contrary, it deepens them. There is an ugly word - "flirting" - you do exactly that with your lover - you flirt like vile mice. of his child? Of course he pleases her, of course they have sex, of course he loves her - she is his choice. Get conscious, I'm serious - this garbage will not feed your children,which are completely foreign to him. The love you see is an illusion, but if your husband understands and kicks you, it will be a bitter reality. You are a woman of your age, not to use a harsher word, as long as you dream pink dreams.
N. 6 you have already ruined the family, but if you think you are ok ... Their hypocrisy is spreading to many people nowadays. She and your wife know, but you pay the bills. Was it love to describe her?
Well, he has already made up his mind, author, what you have to think of him. He told you he would keep his family. However, I could not do without you! I'm not the one! If he can't do it without you, he will be with you. I'm not talking in theory. I was in the same situation. As a joke, then we fell in love and in the end we really couldn't do without each other. We both divorced and moved on together. Of course, we went through hesitations, remorse, fear, doubt, etc., but in the end we realized that we are not happy with our current partners and the sacrifice in the name of their peace is too great. It turned out to be good. My ex-husband gave me a divorce with relief, it turned out that he had not felt good about me for a long time. Now he devoted himself to his true great love - business. Be alive and well! My husband's ex-wife finally fell head over heels in love, fortunately shared, so she's happy too. But your case, author, seems different. The gentleman plays the padishah - you can be his hand, and at home - the ironed shirts, the salad and the brandy ... fun! He doesn't even have the courage to at least admit to his wife the situation, whatever they decide. Doesn't it occur to you that "your great love" doesn't seem to be one of the most honest people, eh? And how do you go to bed next to your husband who still smells like someone else's skin? I didn't have a problem with that, because my ex-husband and I haven't had sex in the last 10 years, we've slept in different rooms and we've given ourselves complete freedom for side relationships, but you probably have to "tolerate" your man's caresses and maybe he he does not agree at all to an "open marriage." Well that's what I'll never learn in this life! If a person or a situation doesn't suit me, I just end the relationship. And so I am at work. If my employer has disappointed me, I just leave, but I fulfill my commitments until the last day.
6, what makes you different? You rebuke her and praise yourself for doing the same.
What does it mean it's time for sex. Have you been driving it for a year? I also go out with such a man and it is clear to me that there is a chance in the disco next to me while talking to chicks to fish them. I'm thinking of fucking him twice or so. You watch a lot of movies, a little experience in sex with men, however ....
Number 6, if a woman finds out, she accidentally finds the two of them, so I'll fuck her for luxury, will you still be sure? You would never abandon her, would she not sink and abandon you? People like you surprise me a lot with their confidence that a person of envy will envy you for bragging about your affairs and your hypocrisy. Let's follow your logic, the author is "another muffin that is ** t on the avant-garde", therefore you are another Easter cake where she is * on the avant-garde. " If you have already cheated, you no longer have a family, you have some pale shadow of a family - this is my opinion, of course, everyone with their own understandings.
Author: Thanks to the commenters! To this day, the tension I've been feeling these days has dropped. I do not soar in the clouds, it is clear to me that the chance to be together is minimal, and to get there you have to go through a lot of things that we are both not ready for. We can't end like this all of a sudden, so at least I let myself go ... sooner or later we will be separated by time and nerves. As for my husband, I know that he is not my man, I have been trying for years to change him, to accept him as he is, to change myself, etc ... it doesn't work! He is not a person with whom we will easily agree on the "end", so I will try to endure as much as possible until the children grow up ... Ps: the husband claims that he is not well with me, but he does not want to "let me go" "Hey, that's the type of person he is, he likes to be sick in every aspect of life ...
The author to number 6: :) Thanks to our connection, mainly on the phone, we managed to get to know each other as much as possible in order to get to these ... dramas. I don't know if I have a lot of experience or a little experience, but it has happened to me to sleep with someone and get bored before we learn our three names, and I'm not proud of that. After 10 years of unsuccessful marriage, I decided that a new home and a second child would fill the gap between us, but I was wrong. The day I found out I was pregnant, the new man decided he wanted to "listen" to me. I didn't fall from the sky and I quickly played it, telling him about the pregnancy. However, he decided that he could continue the contact with me, knowing that he would not get anything. And so he turned out to be close to me in my most difficult moments, supporting me morally, mentally and physically, unlike my father. Apart from his three names, I was able to learn all his secrets,
And again to number 11 from the author: fucking can be exciting and real;) Somewhere between a love movie and quality porn;) Thank you for the comment though, it's useful
You say your husband is not your man, so why did you marry him? That you also have children. The mistake is yours, instead of the one you accept and like, you have connected with an inappropriate one, who you then want to change, and you pay for the mistakes.
Author, the more you write, the more you expose yourself. I would understand you to some extent if you made a mistake once and you are wondering how to rearrange your life. As mysterious as you put it, it turned out that this was not your first infidelity. And I'm sorry, I didn't understand who the father of your second child was?
Hello, I am 20 years old and I see a married man who also has a child / 6 years old. / See you 3-4 times a month And I understand you completely, but know that he will not leave his family and be with you ..
She was a good author. How do you think you will enter a foreign family? Imagine getting a divorce. Will you accept his child as yours and will you love him as your children - of course not! Conversely, will he look after and love your children as his own - of course not! And do you know why he doesn't want a divorce? I'll tell you - because it's more convenient for me to fuck two women at the same time and flutter butterflies in his stomach on you, and he knows very well that the feeling when you get together will not be the same. There is a saying that says: "if you want to separate two lovers, just bring them together. So get a divorce - leave your children to their father, and you give yourself completely to your favorite tramp. That's fair. You will have the whole any time of the day.