Hello. I have been in a relationship with a colleague who is married with a child for 7 months. In the beginning everything was ok, but lately it has become very difficult. She tells me that she loves me, that she can't do without me, but at the same time she is with her husband and that drives me crazy. I start to get jealous of him and we fight all the time. I love her very much, I can say that I have never loved like this before, this is the woman I want next to me. I have said it many times. She tells me that she can't break up at the moment, and that confuses me because I see that she wants to be with me, she does everything for me, her marriage doesn't go well, she tells me that she has no feelings for him, no thrill, I ask her why she can't she doesn't answer me. Lately, when we're together in the evening and when he decides to leave, I get angry, the thought of going home to him and hugging goes through my head, I start thinking of reasons to quarrel with her, I insult her, I even reached out. I'm sorry after that, but I do it again. I have ended the relationship several times, but I am still looking for it. I can not live without her. 5 days ago he went to the sea with his family. I told her that I didn't want her to look for me, to call me to write to me, if she did I would call the man and I told her that so that she wouldn't call me, not that I would tell him. Two days passed, during which I constantly looked at my bodies to see if they would write to me or call me. Why am I doing this and telling him not to look for me, and at the same time I want him to write or call me. On the second day she wrote to me. I felt a confused feeling, I was glad he was writing to me, and when I remembered who he was with, I was annoyed. I called and we were constantly arguing with her, constantly talking about sex at sea. This thought kills me by imagining that she is having sex with her husband. I hung up the phone, a few minutes later I called again but it was already off, and so far. He is very stubborn and that irritates me. He is also very jealous of me and for nothing. Tell me what to do
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Do you want a married woman not to fuck her husband? She thought again.
Calm down at first. You can't act like that. Are you sure you love her? Or rather, you have a sense of ownership. You have no right to insult her, let alone encroach on her. Love is love. But with your actions, instead of winning it, you lose it. If you continue like this, I think he will hate you sooner or later. And it's not easy for her. She has a child. Imagine how she would hurt him if she knew his mother had a lover. Talk to her like a friend. Don't make her choose. Just tell her that you love her, that you want her. Don't think it's easy to end your marriage. Once they have a child, they once loved each other. This is my advice. Just give her the time she needs, and in the meantime, be together. Enjoy mutual caresses. But you have no right to be jealous. Have you thought about her husband? What if he's a good man? There is a very high probability that she will never leave him :( Experience the happy moments and as long as you think. Whatever happens should happen.
I think you have a right to be jealous of her, but not in this way. What can she do? After all, he is her husband ... I think you should show her that you are better than him. All these nervousness, infidelity, scandals make her feel insecure if she decides to leave her husband. After all, the old people said: "You miss the tame for the wild ..."
Dude, yours is hard too. You are subjected to torture that you will not endure much. I've been in your position and I've come to nervous crises and hysteria and whatnot. Ask yourself if you want to live like that !! Is this your life? Eternal persecution, jealousy, thirst for a minute of attention. And this work of assault and insult is very nasty. No self-respecting woman would tolerate it. Tighten up !!! If she really loves you, she will be with you. The children are growing up, but so is life.
What to do - Well ... you are the mother! How old were you - 32, 22 or two? You ask her why she didn't break up with her husband so she could be with you. Can't you answer for yourself? Isn't it your property? Who are you to insult and attack her was such a parasite !!! You didn't write anything about the child, you selfish bastard. Isn't it clear to you that you should never call her again, and if she asks you not to pick her up? If necessary, leave and leave. For your information, I am a man and I did not fall into the position of her husband to write this to you!
That's right №5! Except that I think that the woman is not many. commodity, obviously do not think about your child. Because the happiness of the child is 1000 times more important than you being well.
I want to advise this boy, because it is obvious that he is small ... that he should rather find a girlfriend free and "only his", and before that he should reconsider his behavior, which seems to me to be quite immature. . Leave the woman alone and go and see for yourself how it is to have sex at sea with a woman who is free without remorse and doubt .....
at 5 and 6 I can wish you to witness how your halves cheat on you, you are very open. But to catch her in the bed where you sleep together let two not one fuck her. And the other 2,3,4 thank you for the advice. They really help me. And how to end something you can't do without 7 will you answer me?
You are very deluded, and you may have some mental problems.
So ... I'm a married woman. I have a child. From now on, I tell you that if I die of love, I will never divorce - not for another man. And if I'm terribly in love with you, I'll sleep with you, I'll spend as much time with you as possible, I'll do everything for you ... everything but divorce. Or stop hugging and sleeping with my husband. And if you pull, I'll try to unbutton as much time together as possible, and when it becomes unbearable we'll split up. Naive, aggressive, big boy - let me ask you if you are in her place will you divorce. But you will be able to give an adequate answer to this question after you marry a woman you love, after you give birth to a child ... after you fall in love and after they ask you to lose your life - the life you built! ... I had a boyfriend like you, it turned out to be a big baby ... ehhh ...
I am in a similar situation. Of course I did not touch and I do not intend to do so. I love her, but I know we can't be together all the time, and that's why I'm thinking of withdrawing from her life. As difficult as it is, I think it will be better for everyone.
To number 10: How nice of you to hug your little boy, what am I to you then, girl! Or the itching is strong and one is not enough for you! Or the other. You will say that when you do it with your husband, you imagine that you live with him because of the children and you do not sleep together. Come on, enough whore stories. Tell yourself, dear women, that none of you has enough of a man, let alone after 10-15 years of marriage. The repertoire of all married people is clear to me. We've heard it all before. Think of something better as an excuse or just stay with your husbands!
Dear boy, a long time has passed since you wrote, but there is no information on how things developed. I think that if you love her, you will provide her with a home, you will provide her with pampering, you will look after her child and you will do more ... and you will fall to your knees with a ring in your hand ... So I think it happens if you love each other.
And I'm in your position (with a colleague). I do not know what to do. Every time I look at her, she melts me, her clothes stick (outline her shapes), and when she walks past me, I always look at her, I tell her that I would take her home ... I know it's not ethical, she's still married. and a child, but I really like her (as a person, not just for sex) We still haven't contacted by phone or any other way, except live, while we're at work and day by day I'm getting more and more immersed in her . I feel that if I do something to her (like kissing her while she's focused on the monitor) she won't mind, but I think she'll reject me and hurt her (not physically). I've dreamed of her many times, I always think about her, how I would spend my time with her if we were together. The heart "says" that she is the woman I love, and the mind says the opposite. I can't stand the pressure and the thought that someone else is embracing her (in this case her husband), and I can't do anything to "win" her. I wish we had a duel with her husband and I won it, but nowadays these things are only in the movies.
I have a feeling that 5 and 6 never really loved if they were ... they wouldn't tell you to leave her. You could hardly leave her if you love her so much, and does it make sense ...? How to go against ourselves ... Regarding the comment on number 2 ("Have you thought about her husband? What if he's a good person?") I have a small remark, even if he's a good person, he obviously doesn't give her everything needs, otherwise she would be with you ..? He had a thought: "The secret to success lies in perseverance." My advice is, be persistent and don't give up, you will always succeed.
Oh, what can I say, if I had read it a year ago I would have said that this could not happen to me, but alas :) So some time ago I had a colleague who liked me very much - of course married to a small child ... She called me every night, at work wherever I went, she followed me ... I didn't go anywhere until I got drunk at a party and ... whatever happened happened, then we had a very good relationship again, every day, after this cut her off from work, we continued to hear each other and to see each other from time to time. Naturally, I was very naughty and it sucks that I have such a relationship. She, in turn, did not leave me - she fell in love with me even more, I kept to the side again ... After a while, however, I gave in and started to get involved in fairy tales and life together, to constantly tell her that I love her. . I kind of showed that I really hold on and I can't do without her either. However, she didn't seem to like it and this time she stepped back and started telling me all sorts of nonsense ... Now we are still together and we really love each other, but you just have no idea what nerves and lies this costs me. I believe that this thing we are doing is not normal and can no longer be like that, but on the other hand, I can't leave her like that because I became very attached to her. Anyway ... the pain is great ...... I can't leave her like that, because I'm so attached to her. Anyway ... the pain is great ...... I can't leave her like that, because I'm so attached to her. Anyway ... the pain is great ......
I also want to express my opinion on the issue: Guys, do not waste your time and life for such relationships !!! These are just empty words and vain expectations that something will happen. Don't buy the guilt of women who have simply decided they are unhappy, or just, as I read above, "their itching is small with only one." Also the guilt of their husbands. In time you will realize that you have just been lied to and used, and there is nothing worse than that, believe me. I speak as a person who is totally immersed in this nonsense. Find single girls and women and enjoy them. And let the married be just "another object"
You have fun while you feel good and it is you who you choose to be with. What kind of guilt do women have here with you? Is it with you? Enjoy the moments and that's it.
Не знам какво е станало защото статията е писана от доста време, но ще ти кажа следното: Защо искаш да си с нея какво общо имате, не разбираш ли, че тя е майка. Воубще не си споменал за детето и. То не е ли важно за тебе? Ако я обичаш, трябва да приемеш детето за свое но аз какви ги приказвам. Вземи си млада неомъжена девойка и се любете колкото искате. Но запомни от мен, че дори да разделиш жената от мъжа и детето си остава най - голямото скъпо нещо на жената и връзка със съпруга и.
Hi :) I've been in your position for a year. I am a woman, beautiful, smart, independent nooo ... I fell in love with a married man. And a saga started ... I can't tell. In short, what happened: He told me from the second month of our relationship that he wanted to start a new family with me. So far so good, but he didn't do anything about it, and I, like you (because we meet here), when he left, I got into nervous crises and cried all night. But after 8 months of hanging between yes and no (1000 sections and 1000 beautiful reconciliations) I gave him an ultimatum for a month to change things either she or I. If he decides to maneuver again, I will find a way to inform his wife. Said, done. He spent the month between me and her and did nothing, on the last day I asked him: What are we doing, I warned you something, he is safe - crazy, but the child, but it is not a convenient moment now, etc. I told him: leave me alone then, go away. He: ok .... and the next day he came to my work - a scandal followed and I took his ring .... However, he did not stop looking for me and came to see me but only during working hours and no hint of anything different . I went crazy ... I asked him to stop looking for me because it ruined me, I love him and it's hard enough for me that I have to make the final decision, at least not to look for me. He wrote me e-mail after e-mail, sometimes 30-40 a day and so again for 2-3 days. After 3 days I poured the cup of patience and wrote to him: now we will check how much you really love me ... I made a fake face profile, uploaded our common photos, below them comments with guiding questions for her to ask, and I sent an invitation for friendship to his wife :) (to judge me who and how he wants, when MARRIAGE / ATA does not want to give up his mistress (it is right to give up his / her husband / s). And guess what happened :) Sensual scandal for him and a great victory for me :) To see how all the issues were settled quickly and accurately - and for the child and the house, etc. We already live together and I can say that we are very happy . There are just more indecisive people who need to put a knife to their throat and then take action. Don't be afraid to announce yourself, at least you will know what is happening and where you are in the picture :) Good luck :) who need to put the knife to their throats and then take action. Don't be afraid to announce yourself, at least you will know what is happening and where you are in the picture :) Good luck :) who need to put the knife to their throats and then take action. Don't be afraid to announce yourself, at least you will know what is happening and where you are in the picture :) Good luck :)
One thing I can only say, put yourself in the place of your husband and child and see how you would feel if your wife was like that and if you were the child what would you experience if your mother ran away with the other man ... My advice is to leave from there, you just don't have a job and don't spoil families because first it sucks and second you know that everything in this world comes back
As a man, I understand you. You are in love. But you have to be strong. And leave her. We should not encourage women to cheat on our brethren. Besides, have you thought about what you can offer her? Will you look after and support the child? Where will you live. These things are not good brother. The woman is married. Falling in love lasts for a while. If you do not see it and have no contact for 3-4 months, it will fade from your mind. But if you leave things like that - you will both get stuck. If you love her, leave her until it's too late.
If you were both strong in nature or you would already be together or you didn't even think about it. I've been in similar situations with unmarried people (I hope it doesn't happen to me with married people) and this is one of the worst things that a person with a conscience can unfortunately fall into ...
By 21 I was blown away by how categorical and courageous you were in your actions, but the end result is important. She and her husband asked for it, both in one way or another. Now be careful that once a man has done it, there is no stopping and tomorrow you will have children and the great love will gradually subside, and it is possible that a new love for your husband will appear on the horizon. And the history of the author is from 6 years ago, there is no longer known her camel her camel, a lot of water has flowed since then, I hope things have developed in the best way for everyone!