Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy. My story is quite complicated but I will try to clarify it for you. So I've been in love with my best friend for 2 years (we were in the same class for 7 years). We are no longer in a teacher but we see each other again and every time I see her I want to kiss her ... But when I told her that I love her she told me that we are too good friends and it could not happen. Now we are still friends and I still love her ... What can I do
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Well, make her fall in love with you. Give her what no one has given her so far. Be a TRUE FRIEND, BE INTERESTED IN HER, SHOW AND THAT YOU ARE DIFFERENT FROM OTHERS ... But if that doesn't work, don't despair :) Try - you have nothing to lose. Come on success! :)
Something similar happened to me. When I told her I loved her, she turned her back on me. He stopped talking to me, looked at me strangely, I don't know what it was about, but we are first grade friends. But after a while things got better, he started talking to me to be nice to me, but we didn't become boyfriends. I want to tell you that if she loves you in time, she will come and tell you herself. Only for now can you get along well with her and help her and others and she will understand your hint.
Well, she told you so, because really the feelings for you are only friendly. If she was in love with you, then after your confession she would respond with the same, ie. he would also admit to you that he loved you. The fact that she told you that because you are very good friends it can't happen is just so she doesn't hurt you if she tells you that she doesn't feel the same way about you. But what to do, that's life. There are countless cases like yours. Maybe it's better to withdraw, to try to avoid her, not to meet her (I know it's very difficult), to orient yourself to another girl. Try to change your life, to continue without it. Who knows, maybe when she sees that you are taking another path in which she is not present, she may realize what she has lost and feelings will come to you that she did not suspect she had in her towards you. Who knows,
There is a saying that best friends become the best relationships. I want to tell you that I've been dating my best friend for 3 years now and we haven't had a fight once (you may not believe it, but it's true). We argued about some small things, but we never quarreled seriously. Try to impress your girlfriend in some way and win her over. You will not regret this. Success!
Boy, attack! Download it: invite her to a pastry shop, for coffee, for a walk, flowers, sweets! Don't stop complimenting her! Act!
The last one broke me lol.
I have almost the same problem. Thanks a lot for the tips.