We have been together for 4 years, we met our families and our family. Everyone, including me, quickly realized that she would be the girl of my life. She is my boyfriend and my best friend, we do everything together, we don't part even for a day. 3 and a half years of my relationship were the happiest moment of my life. we laughed and cried together when she was in pain, and I was in pain. The last half year has not developed in this way. Scandal after scandal followed, I was blamed for things I didn't and practically impossible to do, in the beginning I explained and defended myself, everything was fine, until the next scandal. The problem is that I feel helpless and fall into a hole from which I need days to get out. With each subsequent scandal, I failed more and more. After the last scandal I fell into a hole from which I can't get out for 2 weeks, I can't eat, to sleep, to communicate with people. She called me but I didn't want to talk, I was trying to change. I have changed, but I do not feel what I felt for 4 years. I love her, but I don't think she can stand another scandal. I'm thinking about parting, but I don't have the courage to say it in her eyes.
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For a moment I thought this story was written by a friend of mine, a lot of coincidences. I don't know which of you is to blame for your current relationship, but he thought there was a reason to blame you, and if he had no reason, he might be afraid of losing you and instilling things in himself. This is exactly how things turned out between me and my ex-boyfriend, I blamed him for some things and I was very afraid of losing him, we are no longer together, no matter that I still love him. Think carefully about the separation you are considering, not to regret it later.
I have experienced the same thing, and even the period coincides. A total of 4 years, of which 3 and a half - all pink, the last half year - a nightmare! When I got to the point where you are now, as if I was starting to get back, I was getting colder, I started blaming and ... the separation was logical. If you really care about this girl, talk! Conversations are the solution to all problems. If it doesn't happen by talking, it won't happen any other way! Explain? how do you feel, explain? that you don't want to quarrel, that you hold on to her ... In general, what comes to you from within, pour out your soul in front of her. Then everything is in her hands. Success! BK