Hi, people have been wondering for a long time whether to share, and finally decided to do it. I am a 27 year old man, I have a relationship with a woman older than me by 16 years. When we met I was 24 and she was 41. Now, after 3 years, our end has come .. everything good ends sooner or later .. She reunited with her ex-husband. My problem is the following and it is that she is pregnant and we do not know what to do .. I love her very much, she also proved it many times. And for a 44-year-old woman, I know how much she cares about me. Please give advice because I haven't stopped thinking for 1 month. The problem is that I am in Germany so it is necessary. This is my job .. Please for advice. !!
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Pregnant! By whom? Actually it does not matter. Even if she had an abortion (which I doubt) she would not be the same woman. While she is alive, she will regret killing a human being. Not to mention that in 6-8 years he will enter the critical and go crazy. But if she removes it, she is doomed to infertility. Another issue is that a woman who becomes pregnant after 35 has a fairly high rate of complications and poor fetal development. Don't take offense, my friend. But she chose the stable man for her and the child. 90% of parents start to limit themselves and think about the future of their children. You also need a man next to her (even with her leg amputated) to feel safe. This man should provide her with shelter, food, clothes, love, and besides all that, do it for her child. And where are you? I told you not to be angry. I know how you feel and I understand you both very well. I was in a similar situation. I had a relationship with a 47-year-old woman for about a year. I was 33 then. I won't explain how wonderful we both felt. But she could no longer think of children. We both sat down and she explained in detail why we had to separate. Even if she could get pregnant, at his prom, she would look like her and present her. I didn't want to listen to her. Over time, I convinced myself that she was right. We parted with difficulty. Later I found a woman my age. She became pregnant, and I almost automatically began to "stiffen" the family hearth for the new member of the family. It all came down to approving comfort. Leave her. I know it's hard. Especially a remote connection that is not a connection. My wife's brother has been in England for 11 years and is single at 42. Think about it. Now is your time. I was 33 then. I won't explain how wonderful we both felt. But she could no longer think of children. We both sat down and she explained in detail why we had to separate. Even if she could get pregnant, at his prom, she would look like her and present her. I didn't want to listen to her. Over time, I convinced myself that she was right. We parted with difficulty. Later I found a woman my age. She became pregnant, and I almost automatically began to "stiffen" the family hearth for the new member of the family. It all came down to approving comfort. Leave her. I know it's hard. Especially a remote connection that is not a connection. My wife's brother has been in England for 11 years and is single at 42. Think about it. Now is your time. I was 33 then. I won't explain how wonderful we both felt. But she could no longer think of children. We both sat down and she explained in detail why we had to separate. Even if she could get pregnant, at his prom, she would look like her and present her. I didn't want to listen to her. Over time, I convinced myself that she was right. We parted with difficulty. Later I found a woman my age. She became pregnant, and I almost automatically began to "stiffen" the family hearth for the new member of the family. It all came down to approving comfort. Leave her. I know it's hard. Especially a remote connection that is not a connection. My wife's brother has been in England for 11 years and is single at 42. Think about it. Now is your time. We both sat down and she explained in detail why we had to separate. Even if she could get pregnant, at his prom, she would look like her and present her. I didn't want to listen to her. Over time, I convinced myself that she was right. We parted with difficulty. Later I found a woman my age. She became pregnant, and I almost automatically began to "stiffen" the family hearth for the new member of the family. It all came down to approving comfort. Leave her. I know it's hard. Especially a remote connection that is not a connection. My wife's brother has been in England for 11 years and is single at 42. Think about it. Now is your time. We both sat down and she explained in detail why we had to separate. Even if she could get pregnant, at his prom, she would look like her and present her. I didn't want to listen to her. Over time, I convinced myself that she was right. We parted with difficulty. Later I found a woman my age. She became pregnant, and I almost automatically began to "stiffen" the family hearth for the new member of the family. It all came down to approving comfort. Leave her. I know it's hard. Especially a remote connection that is not a connection. My wife's brother has been in England for 11 years and is single at 42. Think about it. Now is your time. Later I found a woman my age. She became pregnant, and I almost automatically began to "stiffen" the family hearth for the new member of the family. It all came down to approving comfort. Leave her. I know it's hard. Especially a remote connection that is not a connection. My wife's brother has been in England for 11 years and is single at 42. Think about it. Now is your time. Later I found a woman my age. She became pregnant, and I almost automatically began to "stiffen" the family hearth for the new member of the family. It all came down to approving comfort. Leave her. I know it's hard. Especially a remote connection that is not a connection. My wife's brother has been in England for 11 years and is single at 42. Think about it. Now is your time.
Wait somewhere 4-5 years. The man will most likely dump her and then it's ONLY yours;)
Tighten it up! How did she prove to you that she loves you - by reuniting with her ex? !! She betrayed you. If the child is yours, he will prove to you that he loves you by coming back to you and giving birth to the child. There is no other option. Act, talk to her.
I am the author. Thank you for supporting me and understanding me. It's really hard for me ... She doesn't even think about abortion, but what can I do ... I can't leave her like that .. She has two big sons .. But I don't think I will leave my child and I will everything possible, to take responsibility ...