Hello I am very much in love with a woman with whom we have been in a relationship for 3 years. But such a moment came that now, when she moved away from me, I realized that I love her very much. opinion. I am married and she. But the love is very strong between us. I can not find a way not to lose her. What followed me? I ask for advice who has suffered such a situation.
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SURRENDER TO YOUR HEART! WE LIVE ONE LIFE. IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOUR WIFE, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
I am very confused. And recently I have a second child of two months. How to leave them and I am very sorry for them. Say something.
by the way there is another reason that she and I are married. I have two children and she has one thing that can happen between us. we truly love each other.
Isn't it better for both parties not to abandon the children. So as not to spoil the nest for which we have struggled for 13 years of marriage. To see each other more often and more often without spoiling our families. To be lovers and so on to move on. do you think this thinking is correct.
I am a 12 year old girl and if my father thinks like you I will not forgive him. We also have a baby!
I am in the same situation. However, I believe that a person has only one life and should live it with the one he loves. Think about the time when the children will leave your home and you will be left alone with your wife. It is told to you by a woman who has made such a sacrifice. You can be a good father and take care of your children without being married to their mother. However, you must be absolutely sure that you will not split between the two women, this will lead to conflicts with the one you love.
I'm in the same situation. We love each other but we are far away and we can see each other very often but when we see each other .......... you know I don't know what to do I want him like no one else but the family?
I am 14 and I want to tell you that you treat your children and your wife to hell !!!! Besides, if you're so in love, why did you have a second child ?! What if your wife catches you? What would you explain to her ?! Well, when the children grow up and they ask why you left them, how will you tell them - Well, I loved a little lady there and had her children, but I didn't care that she also has a life of her own and a husband , and children, and I decided to leave you. And you can't know that if you catch up with the woman you love so much, she won't dump you in a few months, years? But you will have already lost your family !!!!
Do what your heart desires. No one should live in fear of their lives. You can hear everything and what not, but everyone makes their own choice and everyone thinks from their own bell tower. No prescription. There is only one truth. Life is one and it is individual for everyone. There is life, there is death. There is a beginning, there is an end. Tell me how often you think about your parents, do you know what they went through and whether they made any sacrifices in your name. I'm sure you don't know ... You do what makes you feel free, but not irresponsible. Rediscover your inner criteria for good and evil and make the decision. You can go on like this, forget the other and fall into regret or self-pity. In time you will have the need to love and be loved again, you will run away from the problem again and again. Or you can be with the other, but .... Mother Teresa said it: The greatest reality is love. And whoever has it is alive. Love is devotion, it does not ask why, but at the same time it does not know fear and limitations. And in the end, it is our greatest responsibility. Think about how much responsibility and burden you can carry. First make sure where your love is and take your path without fear.