I'll start with the fact that I'm 15 years old and from a big city. I have a lot of friends and there is always someone to go out with. I'm not one of those people who cares a lot, or who loves easily, but when I really care about someone, I'm ready for anything for that person. I am not a filmmaker and this is my first time writing on such a site. The girl in question I am writing about is a person I have known for 4-5 years and I know almost everything about her. She is really beautiful, she is very beautiful, smart, she has a very nice character and for me she is almost perfect. I've had very serious feelings for her for about 2 years, but due to the fact that I'm not very pretty and I haven't had boyfriends, (I liked girls but it never came to anything serious) I never offered and I always tried to be friends to be on good terms and to be close in general (In short, I accept that we can not be anything more from friends with her). You will probably say that it is wrong to hide my feelings, but I know her too well and I know that my chance is minimal, and that she only has me as a friend. It's not a problem for me to be just friends, I just want him to be close to me, and unfortunately lately this also seems impossible :(. I don't know why, but for the last 1 month we haven't stopped arguing about anything. Before I really saw that and She also cares that I'm close, but now she's just indifferent, she's started to treat me very differently, like I'm forcing her to talk to me or pay attention to me. because of the way he treated me and her and it's just that. In principle, I have no problem writing to her and getting along, but Viangi I am the one who makes us better and I am always the one who behaves well, just written for me from this role. Now to the question - what should I do, should I try to reconcile us again, or just not talk to her until she shows that I mean something to her. The problem with the second option is that I'm quite upset when we're arguing. I hope you will help me, because my feelings are strong and serious despite my age. I apologize for the spelling mistakes and hope the moderators publish the story. just written to me from this role. Now to the question - what should I do, should I try to reconcile us again, or just not talk to her until she shows that I mean something to her. The problem with the second option is that I'm quite upset when we're arguing. I hope you will help me, because my feelings are strong and serious despite my age. I apologize for the spelling mistakes and hope the moderators publish the story. just written to me from this role. Now to the question - what should I do, should I try to reconcile us again, or just not talk to her until she shows that I mean something to her. The problem with the second option is that I'm quite upset when we're arguing. I hope you will help me, because my feelings are strong and serious despite my age. I apologize for the spelling mistakes and hope the moderators publish the story.
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"I hope you help me, because my feelings are strong and serious despite my age." - friend, once you write that you are just friends, and then you write that your feelings are strong !? There are no feelings of love in friendships, there is devotion and fidelity. You judge for yourself that you have no chance for anything more than friendship, and then you want advice on how to win it for something more than friendship, that is, you hint at love. At least to try you have two chances, one is, although not beautiful, but to be gifted with another from God, the other is to become paralyzed (at this age a little difficult) and to deceive her with strong gifts. There is no woman who can resist money and gifts. You are still children, your life is starting now, think better about your education, it is more important for your future success.
It is not normal for me to know each other from childhood and at some point she stops caring about you. Unless, of course, the character is as rosy as you describe him to be. The best advice? Do what you want! You can take a risk and tell her which I think is the better option, but your relationship may get worse than before. Just understand that there is no wrong option here.
She doesn't care, because she's a faithful puppy. You will not pass without pain in this life, you better start learning from now on. What you need to hold on to the most is your dignity. If you start compromising with this for the sake of a woman, that's what happens.
Maybe you hurt her with your behavior, but if you really care so much about her, apologize and don't let her get mad at you anymore ... Keep her by your side, show her that you care, and not only that. show it, but also say it, be nice to her, hang out or in short - make her feel loved :) :)
It was as if I had read a story I had written. I am 19 and 4-5 years ago I met a girl, beautiful, smart, beautiful, fun and very kind. We wrote to each other until the morning, we talked for hours, we spent time together and at one point I realized that I was healthy. Like you, I thought I didn't stand a chance because I was only a friend. Basically, I'm not a person who hesitates and then says "well, if ...". I confessed my feelings and of course, as I felt, she cut me off with the typical explanations - that we are very good friends and if we go together and quarrel, she will lose such a wonderful person like me. Anyway, at least I confessed to her and knew there was no chance between us. A year ago, our paths parted as friends and everyone went their own way. At the moment I am calm and I do not regret it, because I know that there was no chance. Think about it, if you don't tell her, in time something will constantly bother you. As far as I understand, I'm a nerd and I don't understand what stopped you when your relationship was relatively good. He is likely to be nervous because you do not show your feelings or do not want to be friends anymore. Most likely the latter. I wouldn't write to her anymore if she's so stupid to you. Leave it for a few weeks and if it doesn't affect you, just give it up, even if you want to be friends. Sometimes such things happen in life, it's hard after so many years, but if nothing more has happened between you, believe me, your feelings will "cool down" in time. because you don't show your feelings or he doesn't want you to be friends anymore. Most likely the latter. I wouldn't write to her anymore if she's so stupid to you. Leave it for a few weeks and if it doesn't affect you, just give it up, even if you want to be friends. Sometimes such things happen in life, it's hard after so many years, but if nothing more has happened between you, believe me, your feelings will "cool down" in time. because you don't show your feelings or he doesn't want you to be friends anymore. Most likely the latter. I wouldn't write to her anymore if she's so stupid to you. Leave it for a few weeks and if it doesn't affect you, just give it up, even if you want to be friends. Sometimes such things happen in life, it's hard after so many years, but if nothing more has happened between you, believe me, your feelings will "cool down" in time.
It was as if I had read a story I had written. I am 19 and 4-5 years ago I met a girl, beautiful, smart, beautiful, fun and very kind. We wrote to each other until the morning, we talked for hours, we spent time together and at one point I realized that I was healthy. Like you, I thought I didn't stand a chance because I was only a friend. Basically, I'm not a person who hesitates and then says "well, if ...". I confessed my feelings and of course, as I felt, she cut me off with the typical explanations - that we are very good friends and if we go together and quarrel, she will lose such a wonderful person like me. Anyway, at least I confessed to her and knew there was no chance between us. A year ago, our paths parted as friends and everyone went their own way. At the moment I am calm and I do not regret it, because I know that there was no chance. Think about it, if you don't tell her, in time something will constantly bother you. As far as I understand, I'm a nerd and I don't understand what stopped you when your relationship was relatively good. He is likely to be nervous because you do not show your feelings or do not want to be friends anymore. Most likely the latter. I wouldn't write to her anymore if she's so stupid to you. Leave it for a few weeks and if it doesn't affect you, just give it up, even if you want to be friends. Sometimes such things happen in life, it's hard after so many years, but if nothing more has happened between you, believe me, your feelings will "cool down" in time. because you don't show your feelings or he doesn't want you to be friends anymore. Most likely the latter. I wouldn't write to her anymore if she's so stupid to you. Leave it for a few weeks and if it doesn't affect you, just give it up, even if you want to be friends. Sometimes such things happen in life, it's hard after so many years, but if nothing more has happened between you, believe me, your feelings will "cool down" in time. because you don't show your feelings or he doesn't want you to be friends anymore. Most likely the latter. I wouldn't write to her anymore if she's so stupid to you. Leave it for a few weeks and if it doesn't affect you, just give it up, even if you want to be friends. Sometimes such things happen in life, it's hard after so many years, but if nothing more has happened between you, believe me, your feelings will "cool down" in time.
You will find another better than her! As we say "she is not the only beautiful" .. I personally would not bother to write to a boy / girl who does not behave properly and equal to my behavior .. I still know that it is difficult to forget someone you love but .. There is a way and I went through it somehow. With more dating girls, more communication things will get better!
I believe that the girl in question met another person, whether she was a girl or a boy. With a character matching hers and now her attention is focused there, to communicate with a new person about her and get to know each other. In that case, she will be tired of the old things, the old chats, the old words, the old looks, and she will prefer to concentrate on something new. My opinion is that you write to her to get along, because the chance that she will forget about you or when she sees you on the street will turn her head to the other side is great. Not only did he get along with her, but he also offered new happy moments with you. Invite her to a movie or something "cool" that is attractive for your age. Then she will remember these happy and good moments and will understand that even after a long friendship, you are still able to surprise her, that you hold on to her and that in certain situations she hurt you a lot. I wish you luck! (and why don't you share the result with us after that?) = Ronny =
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Advice. You get up and go to her. You also acknowledge your feelings without fear. She has a right to know. And, if she likes you too, she will tell you and you will be happy together, if not, if she tells you that she doesn't care and behaves with contempt. Believe me, she doesn't deserve you. And that somewhere out there your girl is waiting for you, who is dying for you and would do the impossible to be with you and you to be well.
Hello! My advice is to let her take the step this time, ie let her try to get along with you! If he doesn't push him, then you're indifferent and there's no point in fooling yourself, because then he obviously doesn't care about you. I'm a girl and this is the advice I would give you. In principle, we girls are quite difficult to understand, but if she wants to get along, no matter how much you fight, then you mean something to her and then whether you had boyfriends or not (because there will always come a time to have) and admit the feelings your without worrying! I hope I was helpful! Success!
I think you have to admit your feelings to her. If she loves you too, it would be great, if not - she loses. Some time ago I was in love with a boy. We have known each other for a long time. I loved him. Many times I tried to show him my love, but he did nothing to keep me. Just hints that he is not indifferent, but not a step forward. My soul ached. We quarreled for a while because I was tired of his indifference. Then I just left him. Why fight for a man who doesn't show that he loves me? I started dating someone else. It was only then that he remembered that I was important to him. Well, my advice to you is - take a risk and admit it to her. If you don't, you will lose anyway. At least you'll be calm that you tried. There is no point in torturing yourself and her. If she pushes you away, at least you know she wasn't the right girl.