I'm 19, so is he. So far I haven't had a relationship with anyone - it may seem funny, I'm not small after all. Not that there were no people willing ... But ... what could I do if I hadn't met the right person, the one I really wanted to be with. Well, I met him, and what ... He's in love with another - maybe he loves her as deeply and desperately as I love him. They have been going for several months, but now it is all over, they will never reunite; She went on with her life, but he kept thinking about her. And I - for him ... Isn't it a pity I'm quite attractive, I can have a lot of guys, but I only want one - and he doesn't notice me. In fact, a mistake - it's not true that he doesn't notice me - I'm his best friend and we're always together. And what is he talking about - his ex ... How much longer can I last ???
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TELL HIM DEAR! MAYBE WE WILL NOT ACCEPT IT FROM THE BEGINNING, BUT PROVE IT TO HIM WITH DEEDS. AND WHEN WAITING FOR HIM TO OFFER YOU SOMETHING AFTER HE IS ALREADY DISAPPOINTED, GIVE UP. I THINK YOU NEED TO MAKE THE FIRST STEP OF SUCCESS !!!
don't tell him you'll ruin his life - I'll be torn between you two.
Tell him how you feel. If you are constantly together, and only talks about her, he did not notice your desires
that we were separated all summer a few kilometers from each other our relationship cooled and we parted ... he returned to his ex and I to my ex .. well I could not forget him .. now I'm alone and I miss him a hell of a lot my friend .. but he is with her and claims that he loves her ..... And darling I told you this story of mine not to annoy you, but to help you .. I can tell you one thing for sure .. think ok .. but if you don't try then you will still wonder what would have happened, if something would have happened, etc. ... but even if you think that once you have been together you will no longer be able to be such good friends .. because some things you can't take care of .. with me - he doesn't even greet me anymore, but I see every day .. and I go crazy .. keep in mind that things develop differently for everyone and as much as we are the same we are all so different .. so you will never be able to guess what might probably happen before you try! I wish you success!
When I read in what situation I said to myself: How familiar ... I am also in love with my best friend .. we are together all day .. but he loves another .. he even asks me to help him ... whenever we see her he looks at her and when she passes we start the topic about her again ... I just want to advise you to tell him how you feel, not to hide .. like me .. and tear yourself inside. If he really is your best friend he will understand you .. Good luck
Well, I'm in love with a boy and I told him and he told me 4 I am very aware but he loves another together they are from 1 and a half years old he is a drug addict but he is really aware he said he will try to stop has told me to move with him because I have guilt I just smile at him and nothing else really and I have guilt now we talk more but it's really hard we're friends but it's not the same when he hugs me I'm in heaven and it hurts a lot I know that we will never be together and I said to myself that I will not fall in love anymore but what happened fate played me and now I can not stop crying TELL ME WHAT TO DO PLEASE VII! THANK YOU
Honey, tell him you love him ... tell him! because at the moment I am in the same situation and it hurts a lot ... but I decided to try and I told him that I love him and he replied that he loves me too but he has a girlfriend ... and he doesn't want to leave her..he wants to be with both..and also we were together a year ago we went six months and we loved each other and we are best friends now we know each other from a young age ... sorry to bother you but you will not lose anything if you try .. TELL HIM and I sincerely wish you to be with him because it hurts a lot to love your best friend without him reciprocating ....
At the moment I am in the same situation and I was looking on the Internet for what to do, then I came across this topic by chance. And I want to ask, if I tell him how I feel, won't he stop talking to me and start behaving colder? Because until now, with every boy I've liked, when I tell him I like him, he stops communicating with me as he used to. And now that this boy I'm in love with, who we've been friends with since we were 2 years old, is my best friend and I tell him I'm afraid he won't stop communicating with me at all, because then I'll really die ...
I'm in the same situation! I confessed my feelings to him and now what ??? He is with her, we don't talk to him because she is jealous of me and I decided to get numb..I don't know what to do I can't do that .. I miss HELP !!!!!
I was in the opposite situation ... a very close friend of mine was in love with me. He was jealous of his friends and I couldn't stand it ... I put up with it for a few months and finally cut it off ... now we don't talk and honestly I'm much better !!!!