Hello! Well, my story is this ... I'm 15 and my boyfriend graduated this year. A month and a half ago we had a very violent fight and I had told him that I did not want to have anything to do with him. But he begged me that nothing would be the same as before ... I didn't want to get together because I knew I would experience that pain from previous quarrels again. And so in the end he convinced me he was terribly nice, I was stupid because I was sick. But one night everything turned upside down, he became different. The next day, when we met, he told me that he didn't want anything to do with me and that he would go to study (and before that he assured me that he wouldn't leave if I agreed to be with him), he told me how nice he would be. he is without me. I cried a lot, begged him not to leave, and he was colder than ice, I kissed him, and he did not answer. I was crazy! Anyway, we got together ... but he kept being mean to me even though I did a lot of things for him ... he didn't care if he was with me. He doesn't look for me all day, and when I look for him and go out, he doesn't remember kissing me to hold me in his arms. But at one point something seems to click and he starts kissing me crazy and wants to make love to me. I am terribly confused by his behavior. Pls give advice :(
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Hormones. Having sex with him will kiss you :). He probably doesn't love you.
Well, you are still 15, but you will understand that a large part of men, regardless of whether they are 19 or 40, are like that. Well, darling, this is not love and I had one, but I've been screaming at a lot of fairs and I didn't let him play his horse for a long time. I started to stay cold as you say I was like a pile of ice. And what happened to him drove me crazy, of course I hated to be trampled and played. Now it was my turn to play it. He ran after me like a puppy or like a kitten after a valerian. My advice is be cold you start talking to him about parting. Men are so fond of difficult women those who can not be theirs easily. Imagine a shadow - the more you chase her, the more she gives in, and the more you run away from her, the more she follows you and so it is with men.
Thank you very much, I really went through this as you say, I'm cold, but at one point he likes it and I stay. Even two days ago he was terribly nice to me, everything was ok ... and the next day, when I called him because we hadn't heard from each other all day, he told me that he didn't want to call him anymore, someone was angry with him and told me to stop. to bother him with nonsense. And I cried and he said, "As long as you're screaming, you're just whining." I just can't describe how much I love it and how to give it up :(
Me and I have the same problem they don't love us and it's you.