Hello dear readers! I do not want to bother with another such story, but I want to share it and express your opinion, if you do not mind. :) I am a girl of almost 19 years old, I live in a big city, family and friends are always behind me, as well as my boyfriend (we have been together for 5 years). 2011 will remain special for me, because then I met a man who completely changed my idea of men in general! From the high school where I study, they sent me and my whole class to a restaurant for practically 10 days. 3 days after it started, I saw him, the perfect one I've always dreamed of ... but with a few incompatibilities between us (I'm 18, he's 33; both are engaged - I'm 5 and he's 2-3; he with a very strange character, I smiling and positive to all). Despite the differences, they both had feelings. He was unique to me, he didn't behave like that with any girl / boy in the class, he took me everywhere with him, we smoked together, we talked for 6-7 hours (as was the practice a day), he gave me his personal pen and the penultimate day he kissed me and how - my limbs shook and my heart started beating like crazy, we exchanged numbers ... but the last 10th day came and I had to leave ... when I had to say goodbye! '' I looked him straight in the beautiful blue eyes and they were full of tears ... but leaving, two tears flowed down my face ... we promised to hear each other! So I called him several times, I wrote to him on Facebook, I wrote him messages, but there was no answer from him .. we greeted each other via sms only for Christmas (I wrote to him first) and for the New Year (he wrote to me first) .. One common acquaintance said
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End your life! : D You ask a very stupid question, how do we know ...!? Of course, you will have to choose one of the two, there is no other way out! See their pros and cons and make the right choice for you. And this means that you have to choose the person with whom you will feel most secure and whose character, style and lifestyle suit you best ...
Hello! I felt as confused as you did. But in the end I stayed with my boyfriend. I'm not sorry at all. I think this is the right choice for me. He really loves me. The other man doesn't know if he loves you and I don't think he loves you yet and he just likes you. He is and is far from at hand. It is not worth it for a short entertainment to fail such a relationship that you say you love. I'm not saying you don't see the other person chat, but make sure your friend doesn't understand. And if things get serious with the other man later, then you can think about whether you will ruin your current relationship and whether you will be better with him.
From the author: Number 1 I do not want you to solve my problem, but just to share to make it a little easier for me ... Number 2 thank you for the comment, I will think what to do and really seriously :)