Hello! I will go straight to the question .. so .. last day we had to go to the district town, I received a text message wishing you a happy new year (this is normal) .. my husband was with me, but the problem is that .. before Let's go, my mother-in-law told my husband that I was lying to everyone, I cheated on him .. and what not .. :( and in the evening we went home - nothing! The next day, however, my husband found out who the SMS was from, and he was from an acquaintance with whom I didn't even have a relationship-nothing .. what happened ! I want to have a baby, I repeat it to my husband constantly, but last night he told me that I was already pregnant by another, I had a lover .. if I had lover, if I didn't love him would I want him to be the father of my children, would I want to spend the rest of my life with him, then I ate a healthy fight for nothing — fists, suffocation, and all that without doing anything, without guilt .., and maybe I have one, and it's that I love him, I know it can sound very stupid - he beats me, and I love him .. do you think that my mother-in-law suggests various things to him, because it doesn't happen for the first time . Have we fought over her before? Do you think he hates me or is it all due to something else or someone else ...?
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Abe woman! Pack your bags and run away! You don't live like that, and it won't get better, believe me! Take yourself in hand until you have no children, that then it becomes complicated ..
If you stay with him you are nothing more than a duck. Such a psychopath, who gives in to suggestion, does not think soberly and beats his wife does not deserve to reproduce. A big mistake if you give birth to this child. Only you suffer, why do you want the innocent soul to suffer as well. This fight will not be the last, and do you want your child to grow up with such an example in front of your eyes? Do you want him to imitate such an idiot? Aman already from geese like you honestly. She loved him. And because of this love, should he humiliate you, crush your self-confidence and style? !! Egati primitive thinking.
Why do you even receive text messages from foreign men. Do you need them (from text messages) to risk your family? Yes, he's gone too far, but think about it, did you cut everyone off for him? Or do you still have to flirt with someone?
Girl, the most important thing in your story - then I ate a healthy fight for nothing - fists, suffocation !!! Horror, separately and his relatives! You probably love him, but do you think that you can and it is good for you and your future child to live like this, in scandals and beatings, do you think that you should start a family with such a person, because then you will suffer not only you but also a child? !! How do you imagine your life in the future when it is terrible at the moment and you want a child from it? !! Although you love him, I think you should make a decision and leave quickly before a baby appears (I hope you find the strength despite your feelings)! Write how your story unfolds. F27
Drop it, it's not worth wasting your time. And I was in this hall for 8 years. and here I am, now divorced with an unhappy child, witnessing scandals, beatings and what not ... There comes a moment when you become angry, you get angry with the person and nothing can stop you from leaving him. Realize in time there are other men in this world! Good luck