Hello. I won't lie to you ... I'm 12 years old. Yes..I'm tiny, only 6th grade..but I'm in love for three, the nasty thing is that I like my best friend's boyfriend ... For 1 year I've had this feeling in myself, but with each passing day it it gets stronger, and stronger, and I can't hold it any longer. But I don't want to tell her, because I'm afraid that an 11-year-old friendship might fall apart because of some blond boy of 14. In fact, this boy of 14, rules my dreams, my dreams ... you think ... rules my HEART; (; ( and I don't know how to tell him .. how to tell her, my best friend .. Please, I know I'm small .. I know I'll meet a lot of others ... but they just have to know, and I don't know how to I tell them; (; (; (PLEASE HELP !!; (
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Dear child, this drama that you are experiencing now and it seems to you that the end of the world has come is temporary. Seek advice from someone close - mother or aunt, but do not share with your friend, it would be insulting and after a year or two you will realize that it is, that is, the end of the world has not come. Maybe, if you think about it and put yourself in the place of your friend, if he finds out, he will accept you as a forerunner, and the boy will hardly pay attention. I think spend more time with friends and you will see that there are other boys in the world.
Don't tell them. You will spend more time going to discos, drinking and partying and you will surely meet another blond boy, they are all a bit of a jerk, so whether it matters with this or that. And until you grow up, you will change at least 20 boyfriends. This is not the only one.
Then don't tell her, just forget it when they get together, don't try to be with them, try not to see it that way, you'll forget it, I'm 17 years old.
Hey, I'm 12 until last year and I had the same problem but I didn't like my boyfriend's boyfriend but my own cousin to whom I shared everything. It all happened once I met them. Since then, they began to like each other. They were falling before my eyes. I didn't like it very much, but in the end they became boyfriends. I don't know what happened, but from that moment on, the boy became my best friend. So I experienced the same feeling as you, I know, it's not very pleasant; (
Darling, what can I tell you, if you hold on to this friendship, by no means reveal what you feel. Even though you are still young, she will not have the trust you have at the moment. That's why sometimes it's nice to be a man, especially a woman, you're a little girl, but you will become a woman to keep some secrets only for yourself. You can share it with her years later when she will no longer be with him, when she no longer feels anything for this boy. If you reveal it now, she will feel jealous, and maybe she will see some threat in you for their relationship and everything between you will end.
Many men, but female friendship, I'm glad you have it, be glad you have it, don't lose it! You will have many more men. along the way, many of them will disappoint you, not others, and when you have no one to share about them, when you don't have a girlfriend, you will say to yourself why all this is for me, I can't enjoy it, because I'm alone! Don't lose your girlfriend! Reduce your views with them! Don't separate them, everything comes back. In this situation, you will not have it if you have it, nor will you have it if you have it! If you do something to separate them, you will not be happy with him, she will be unhappy, and you will be in pain. Leave things like this, your boy is waiting for you, look around and see that he is full of cool guys. poop :) good luck!
The author: Hey ... people thank you very much, look here on this site that when a paw at 12 shares his story the first thing others say is: "Off you're still young" .. I was very happy that you gave me advice and you didn't blame me for how old I was, and you didn't take into account what I was doing here, only at 12! Thank you very much !!!
Ohh, I know it sucks! I am 13 years old and as number 3 I like my cousin's boyfriend. We write to him on Skype, but it's not like that at school! He is 14 years old. I do not know what to do!!!
I was in the same drama recently! And I did the following: 1. I realized that he didn't love her when I became his best friend! 2. I made her break up with him {she didn't love him} 3. I made him admit that he loves me! Good luck!!! And I'm also 12, and I'm 15.
I am in the same situation and I will not tell my best friend but I will try to win the boy and then help her find another
I know what it is, I'm 5th grade, and he's 6. My best friend became a boyfriend with him recently. I like it a long time ago but I haven't told anyone and now that they have become gadgets I like it even more and more. I write to him every night and he only talks about my girlfriend. I send him some pictures that say I'm teasing you because I love you, and he says I'll send it to Catherine (my girlfriend). I do not know what to do. Help me please
Wow, impossible! Do these girls - 8, 9, 10, 11 really exist? It's a good thing they're so simple and brazen, so the boys can't be impressed enough to be attracted. This is how things balance themselves in nature;)
Hello! I have almost the same problem, but I'm a boy. I secretly fall in love with my boyfriend's best friend. They are both super nice, but my boyfriend and I didn't fight over anything and we didn't fight and I don't want our relationship to end like that. So I will try to forget her, do the same with the boy so as not to quarrel with your girlfriend. Friendship builds over years and breaks down in seconds. P. P And I'm 12 :)
I already forgot it, but I realized that my friend was just using me, she told everyone and when I told her something she was looking to turn it off, I hope you never meet such a person.
Find someone else :) Women with cars .. men with parties =]] !!
I'm like you too. That's pretty awful. You don't know what to do is awful. Try to pretend you like someone else. Be beautiful. I hope I helped you.
My dear, I feel the same ... I don't know what to do. On the one hand, this boy accepts me as his best friend and shares with me everything that means a lot to me, but on the other hand, he is everything I could ever want. And she ... She's my best friend, even more, she's my sister, but if I tell her I'll break her heart and lose her forever. That is why you and I are obliged to time everything in ourselves. Another reason is that I know that he will never have the same feelings I have for him ... So my advice is to tell someone about it, even if you have to, don't mention that it's about you, but just about friends who are in such a situation. Believe me, it will be easier for you
Familiar and I have been in love with my best friend's boyfriend since the beginning of last summer but I realized it very late and it turned out so that now I have a boyfriend and he is not anyone but his best friend and I am terribly confused I'm just going crazy because my brain and heart speak different languages and I have no intention of breaking up with my current boyfriend who lives thousands of miles away from me because of them and would do anything to be with me and be happy. The one I'm in love with used to deal with me and my best friend and he was the one she was going to go with, but I found out soon and she had no idea, he tried her and became a boyfriend, they've been dating for a long time. and he was pushing me until a month ago and that's stupid. My feelings are just confused.