Hello! I have never written stories here before and yet I decided to share my problem and advise me what to do. I have a girlfriend of 4 months who I love very much and I feel the happiest man in the world when she is around me. We met at a disco where she danced and so I started going to this place quite often and that's how things went ... Everything is going great, but I have a small problem ... I'm feeling something for her friend ... Now you will say that I don't really love her, but that's not the case ... what I feel for my boyfriend's girlfriend is just some kind of interest that I can't explain and I'm bothered internally. I wouldn't leave my girlfriend because of this girl ... I don't love her either, I don't have any specific feelings, I just feel some interest and that bothers me. I feel guilty for staring at her girlfriend at all ... Has it happened to anyone? Tell me what to do to escape this annoying feeling ... I thought, if I was given the opportunity to sleep with the chick, I wouldn't do it just because I LOVE my girlfriend, but if I can steal a kiss I don't I would refuse. I'm bothered about it. What would you advise me? How can I banish that fucking guilt when I haven't done anything wrong?
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This is normal, people combine higher intelligence and primacy in one. Probably her girlfriend attracts you on a primary level, but your mind tells you that it's not right, because you promised your boyfriend inwardly and that's why this conflict occurs. It is quite normal, many people have had similar torments (myself included) and better listen to reason.
for NOTHING in the world do not steal a kiss !!! It is normal to be tortured, but there are many like you and they take risks if you are one of your smart ones and that's it. everyone has internal bites, overcome it. M 22
Safe from such as the author. First, you don't love your girlfriend when you have an interest in others. Second, you just want to fuck her girlfriend, she's close to her mind.
Hold on tight to your girlfriend, don't leave her and don't steal kisses under any circumstances! It's just an inexplicable and strange feeling I've experienced similarly with my boyfriend's boyfriend. But still I stopped thinking about him at all and completely devoted myself to my boyfriend, we started going out together more often, and this strange feeling passed ... We are still boyfriends with him and I love him infinitely, and we are with his boyfriend very good friends. Probably the best.
Number 3 - what are these basic considerations? !! The man should not be a robot, so that he can program himself not to reflect any other woman, except his girlfriend. I very much agree with number 1! What happens to you is at the first signal level, you are just physically attracted to the other girl. A matter of bio-chemistry (and physics de) :). The good thing in this case is that you feel guilt and remorse and struggle with your instinctive reactions. The point is not to succumb to the temptation that then the guilt will be even greater.
(3. Safe from people like the author.) Don't pay attention to her, you only want a kiss, but it will get further if you try there. And if your girl's girlfriend has a little mind in her head, she'll tell her and you'll stay dry with both. It's so bad in human relationships that you never know what's lurking and how someone would affect you, you have to be more restrained, and if you're not at some point you may regret making a stupid mistake.