Hello! I am an 18 year old girl. I have a friend who is an exceptional person, we have been together for 3 years. We have a strong bond between us that is based on love and respect. Of course, it is normal to reach a more intimate relationship. I don't think there is anything shameful or wrong with that. We both want it. A few days ago, when we were inside, everything was great, we hugged, kissed and warmed up with emotions. We began to slowly undress. That was the moment. Yes but no!! I fucked everything up. For many years I have had a problem with my breasts. I'm terribly ashamed because I want to have nice breasts, but mine aren't. The problem is that I have different areolas. This reduces my sexual self-esteem. I know he will understand me, but I'm still worried. This is my complex. I want to ask (mainly men),
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Don't worry, you have nothing to worry about, we all have some defects, if the person next to you is cool and loves you, they will be even happier!
I understand. I have a similar problem, mine are the same, but very large halos and therefore look bad. I don't have a boyfriend and I haven't had sex, but one day I will feel sick and this complex will stop me. Girl at 18
I am a woman, but I want to tell you that nothing in the human body is 100% symmetrical and that is completely natural. For example, I have big breasts and they are slightly different. I don't know how noticeable it is, and I don't care anymore. It's completely natural. If a man doesn't understand it, then he's just not old enough for sex. And for men, one of their testicles hangs lower than the other, but I haven't heard a man complain and worry about that, because just like with my breasts and your areolas, it's completely normal and natural. Don't worry at all. Once it comes to sex, it is unlikely to impress him at all. Men do not pay attention to such details usually.
Abe, do you know how much a man sleeps when he is woody, whether one of your areolas is 2 mm bigger in diameter or something else ... There is one testicle bigger than the other for me, no woman has said "oh your testicles are not symmetrical, I am no longer wet ". In fact, I suspect they've never paid attention and don't know at all. So if you don't have a complex, it won't.
Ignorance Ignorance !!! There are no equal breasts, no notion of beautiful Greeks, because for the X mark, if the breasts are beautiful, they are not for me. It's a nice relative term. The differences in the breasts are in the type and shape and in the size and what not. Read, just read. In the age of the Internet, you live in a pot and ignorance and film yourself. If that's a problem, just know what life offers.
Men are blind and deaf at this moment, they have only one goal, it is elsewhere.
Believe me, this with the areolas is quite common, it's not a problem.
Many girls have problems with their breasts. There are few with perfect natural breasts. That's what boys need to know. If it's not the halo, it will be the location of the nipple, it will be the shape (the bigger ones sag naturally, even the silicone ones sag without maintenance), they will be stretch marks (this is scarier especially in the initial stages, as if cats are scratching red lines and then remains ONZI scar), will be the size. Don't care, I guarantee you that once you love each other, he will love your bust. M38
To keep a person dry for 3 years because you are worried about the appearance of your areolas? Or maybe the shape of the uterus and the size of your Cooper's glands ?! You are wrong! ...
I'm telling you like a man! When a man is aroused, the last thing he will do is take out a ruler to measure the size of the breast areolas. Well, these are breasts for God! And we all love them. All breasts are different. There is no perfect symmetry in nature. And again, when I'm aroused, I don't notice any bodily defects at all, I just want to be nice and give pleasure to the woman I'm with!
Defect! Girl, you're wrong! I haven't seen ugly breasts in 39 years! The fact that your areolas are different, huge, small, if they want to have a different color, this is not a problem. I like all types of female breasts, but I prefer the areolas to be bigger. I still have this fetish for women's breasts and if I could I would sign up to become a gynecologist or one who works on a mammogram. You don't have to worry about your breasts at all. On the contrary. Be proud that you are different! I hate the man who invented the bra! He hides so many wonderful things.
In such a moment of excitement, even if you do not have breasts, the man will not notice, everything is black to him that he does not see two. Everything is concentrated down there, he stops thinking with the upper head, and acts only with the lower. Don't care, if he hasn't reacted in any way, then everything is OK, and if this is a problem for him, then he is not a man, but a crook. The purpose of the man is not to be a jury and to evaluate the areolas of the woman, but to fuck and make children!
sometimes female thinking amazes me. I had a boyfriend that I loved very much, but after about a year together he stopped letting me go. it went through my head, we had some conversations - we broke up. a few years later another man told me what the reason was - one of her breasts grew 1 cm more than the other and the girl was very worried about not laughing at her. years had passed, each in his own way, but I was infinitely offended by the stupidity of a relationship. your body is yours, rejoice in it and do not look for imperfections (everyone has them), but accept them as a sign of your uniqueness!