Hello ... I am a 15 year old girl from Veliko Tarnovo ... I want to share with all of you and ask for advice on what to do at the moment, because I feel hyper bad. I've been seeing a man at the age of 25 for some time. I was a virgin and I had no intention of having sex with him because I didn't know what his intentions were towards me ... nooo it happened we were in them ... maybe he forced me a little, but not exactly because I undressed ... he couldn't open me because I was in terrible pain and I told him to stop. To my delight, he stopped and told me that he couldn't open me completely ... For a while I was just silent ... he was talking to me, I was silent ... I was depressed ... I didn't want that to happen - I loved someone else ... I read I went home and immediately called the boy I love - he is 18 years old. I told him everything ... he understood me and even told me, that he loves me very much and that everyone makes mistakes ... I cried ... I still can't stop thinking about it. I do not know what to do... :(
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Well ... you're neither the first nor the last. Do not worry. And in the end, what can you do? ... Look ahead and don't think much about it. I hope you did it with a condom :)
Abe, don't worry, you'll tell me who knows what happened to her more calmly;)
It's good that you realize the mistake, but ... how smart do you meet men who are 10 years older ??? This means that this is an absolute pedophile and pervert! He was raped by a pervert! And can you tell us why you're dating another man when you have a boyfriend (the one at 18) or you're not boyfriends with him? What were you looking for in that pedophile - a relationship or just someone to open you (at a later stage, because you wrote that you did not know what his intentions were)?
You came across a person (your friend) !!! ;)
You are very bad - when you love one boy, why do you undress in another's house? It's your own fault and most likely the 18-year-old now only intends to pass you by ... you're already open, at least he's saved his job ...
Try not to make such mistakes anymore. You are still a child, and it is not right to be with such a big man from you. Dear girl, "HURRY SLOWLY" don't ruin your life from now on. Choose the people you meet. And this 25-year-old man dumped him, and don't meet him again. This must be an EARRING on your ear. "100 times measure, 1 time cut" ^^^^ LUDKARKATAT ^^^^
The boy told you right - everyone makes mistakes. Do not worry. My advice is to leave this one at 25 and get together with the one at 18. It's nice to have a friend to share with. Do not worry. Just forget this story. Just make sure you don't make the same mistake again. And for Number 5 - if you can't give advice, don't write. This is a site for sharing and finding advice, not criticism. Everyone makes mistakes.
Well done you have a great friend, don't make him sick anymore .... nothing you can change has happened, just try to forget
Thanks to everyone for the tips. I will keep them in mind.