Hello, I am a 16-year-old boy (after 2 months at 17) and I am desperately looking for a girlfriend. I want to have a special girl next to me to help me in good times and bad. I look good, I have good grades, friends, people and teachers respect me, I have money, a nice apartment, a job, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I know English perfectly and what not (I don't brag, I just describe myself). In a few words, I'm a nice boy. So why is it so hard for me to find a girlfriend? People call me - calm down and the time will come for a girlfriend, rejoice while living carefree, etc. I just can't, I don't stop thinking about it every day, every hour ... Please help me. Thanks for reading it.
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Because you are still young. The girls are looking a little bigger than them.
That's what they say - when you're 16 and you don't have any problems, why not invent one and grumble. Tighten up, your girlfriend will not fall from the sky. If you want, find it.
You do not brag, but claim to have perfect English. Do you even know the meaning of the word "perfect"? If you want to know, I know people with a level of proficiency in the C2 language, who still do not have perfect English, and you, who are 16, seem unlikely to me. Did you have money and a nice apartment? !! Do I understand that your money was used to buy the apartment in which you and your family now live? Leeekinko, you throw yourself away, and I think most girls, especially the more decent ones, don't like this type of people, and this behavior can be repulsive. This is my opinion.
Man, land a little. Your self-esteem is one thing, how people perceive you - another, what is the truth - third. Your parents have an apartment and money, not you. You will have enough money to buy. Then this "to help me in good and bad moments"? You're not saying he loves me, he's helping me? Can your neighbor and brother help you? The friend is for something more - to love her and to love you, spiritually and physically. You're just still immature for a relationship, despite the boasting. You may be physically developed enough, but not spiritually. And the girls feel it, so they don't take you seriously. A more mature man can give them much more. And at your age, you want to take a lot more from women than you can give. And it's not just about the material, you know?