Hello. My question is would you go with a girl your first cousin is in love with You too. Please answer, it's urgent. I don't know what to do, leave the girl and stay on good terms with my cousin (he made me choose), or ruin my relationship with my cousins and be with that girl. I like her very much, I feel that I want to be with her, not with another. She is a unique person. But my cousin and I have been together since we were children almost every day. Our families often get together how we will look him in the eye. I am confused. What would you do, who would you choose? PS I am 19 years old.
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And does your cousin have anything to do with this girl? Because if he just likes her, there's no reason to put things that way. Don't let them make fun of you. But
In love and in war, everything is allowed. Tell your brother to look after his work. Never resort to extortion for anything. Grandpa Torbalan
Who does the girl want to be with? I think that in this situation, she is the person on whom the development of things "depends" further. If she loves you, the answer is clear, if there is something to your cousin, too. real Love by force is not love Lexy
Number 3 is right. It depends on the girl. Otherwise, I bet on my cousin, unless it's about some great love for the babe :)
And the girl has no word in this situation? Or should it be with the one that you both need? In the end, she decides ... and you make the decision.
From the Author: The girl wants to be with me, she doesn't want to be with my cousin. There is the work she knew first (he was friends) he wanted to get something between them, but she did not. Then, along with my cousin, I met the girl in question, and from there on, everything is clear. Our feelings are mutual. But you know that there is no complete happiness, because there is always an obstacle. I'm at a crossroads now. I know that my cousin is jealous of me and that's why he wants us to break up, he told me that if I want to continue to be on good terms, I just have to leave her and forget. As I mentioned, our families are very close, somehow it would be very stupid to sit at the same table and behave like idiots with him. He says we shouldn't let a girl separate us, and he liked her first, and now he has feelings for her. (He's a little "womanizer" if there can be no girl, do everything possible and no one else). I know him well and I know that even if I stand against him, he will still do everything to separate us. According to him, I would have forgotten her. But this cannot happen, I feel with her what I have not felt with anyone else. This girl is so good, I told her to decide how I would act, but even if I break up with her (now we are together) she will not stop loving me. And I know that if I see her with someone else, I just can't stand it. She is also very beautiful, there are many other suitors, the fact that she chose to be with me and our feelings are mutual makes me very happy. But the situation I'm in ... I just don't know what to do. I hope you understand me any comment will be helpful. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please share what you did. does everything possible and no one else will). I know him well and I know that even if I stand against him, he will still do everything to separate us. According to him, I would have forgotten her. But this cannot happen, I feel with her what I have not felt with anyone else. This girl is so good, I told her to decide how I would act, but even if I break up with her (now we are together) she will not stop loving me. And I know that if I see her with someone else, I just can't stand it. She is also very beautiful, there are many other suitors, the fact that she chose to be with me and our feelings are mutual makes me very happy. But the situation I'm in ... I just don't know what to do. I hope you understand me any comment will be helpful. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please share what you did. does everything possible and no one else will). I know him well and I know that even if I stand against him, he will still do everything to separate us. According to him, I would have forgotten her. But this cannot happen, I feel with her what I have not felt with anyone else. This girl is so good, I told her to decide how I would act, but even if I break up with her (now we are together) she will not stop loving me. And I know that if I see her with someone else, I just can't stand it. She is also very beautiful, there are many other suitors, the fact that she chose to be with me and our feelings are mutual makes me very happy. But the situation I'm in ... I just don't know what to do. I hope you understand me any comment will be helpful. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please share what you did. that even if I stood against him, he would still do anything to separate us. According to him, I would have forgotten her. But this cannot happen, I feel with her what I have not felt with anyone else. This girl is so good, I told her to decide how I would act, but even if I break up with her (now we are together) she will not stop loving me. And I know that if I see her with someone else, I just can't stand it. She is also very beautiful, there are many other suitors, the fact that she chose to be with me and our feelings are mutual makes me very happy. But the situation I'm in ... I just don't know what to do. I hope you understand me any comment will be helpful. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please share what you did. that even if I stood against him, he would still do anything to separate us. According to him, I would have forgotten her. But this cannot happen, I feel with her what I have not felt with anyone else. This girl is so good, I told her to decide how I would act, but even if I break up with her (now we are together) she will not stop loving me. And I know that if I see her with someone else, I just can't stand it. She is also very beautiful, there are many other suitors, the fact that she chose to be with me and our feelings are mutual makes me very happy. But the situation I'm in ... I just don't know what to do. I hope you understand me any comment will be helpful. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please share what you did. with her I feel what I have not felt with anyone else. This girl is so good, I told her to decide how I would act, but even if I break up with her (now we are together) she will not stop loving me. And I know that if I see her with someone else, I just can't stand it. She is also very beautiful, there are many other suitors, the fact that she chose to be with me and our feelings are mutual makes me very happy. But the situation I'm in ... I just don't know what to do. I hope you understand me any comment will be helpful. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please share what you did. with her I feel what I have not felt with anyone else. This girl is so good, I told her to decide how I would act, but even if I break up with her (now we are together) she will not stop loving me. And I know that if I see her with someone else, I just can't stand it. She is also very beautiful, there are many other suitors, the fact that she chose to be with me and our feelings are mutual makes me very happy. But the situation I'm in ... I just don't know what to do. I hope you understand me any comment will be helpful. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please share what you did. the fact that she has chosen to be with me and our feelings are mutual makes me very happy. But the situation I'm in ... I just don't know what to do. I hope you understand me any comment will be helpful. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please share what you did. the fact that she has chosen to be with me and our feelings are mutual makes me very happy. But the situation I'm in ... I just don't know what to do. I hope you understand me any comment will be helpful. If any of you have been in a similar situation, please share what you did.
Apparently he doesn't understand you and doesn't appreciate you .. I personally wouldn't make my cousin who likes a boy .. and will go with him even though I like him .. I wouldn't tell her to choose .. on the contrary I would wish her success .. if you love each other, go .. he will pass .. he will always realize his mistake!
I have not been in such a situation. In my opinion: stay with the girl. As Grandpa Torbalan said, don't succumb to blackmail. Plus, he (I think) doesn't like her at all. He's just angry that you have her and he doesn't. If, indeed, he likes her ... It is normal for him to feel sick, but he will pass. Hold on tight to your girlfriend, and his attempts to separate you - ignore them. And I don't think you'll be angry for who knows how long. Under the circumstances, I guess you will get along, even if it takes time. I wish you all the happiness in the world with your girlfriend (if you decide to stay with her) and success with your cousin. :) - Athens`
To war as to war friend. There are no rules. Victory is important! Dare!