Hello! I will tell you briefly about the situation, I met a boy a month after I left my boyfriend, because I got cold to him because of our difficult and generally toxic relationship. This boy is his complete opposite - strong character, ambitious, calm, with manners, smart, funny, kind to me and the others .. Before I realized, I sank, I constantly think about him, he is generally serious, he keeps up with me, but today we talked about us and I heard something I did not expect from him: "I don't want to lie to you, you don't attract much, but at the moment I don't have strong feelings, but sexual attraction, and I see and I know that this is not the case with you. "I was very ill. We decided to be friends because he doesn't want to take advantage of me, and he likes me a lot as a person. Is it possible for him to have real feelings for me over time? I really see myself as a person, deserving of love and a stable relationship, because I give my best when I love ... What do you think? Should I hope, although I do not want to be with empty hopes, but it's just very difficult for me now .. Please comment. Thanks!
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Why don't you start such topics with information about your age? This is the most important factor in a relationship. How to give you an answer? If you are a teenager, it is one thing, if you are already a mature woman, the situation is completely different !? I think you are one of the first, so don't worry, there are other guys!
To ask for advice here, you've obviously read a lot of similar topics here. All I can tell you is that the man was honest with you. If she had come across someone else, that might not have happened. It is uglier to use you and give you empty hopes for the future. Take a look around. What do you see? 60% are strikers and matchmakers. 10% are misogynists. Another 10% are serious and long-term. The other 10% is whatever mom says. And 10% geysers remain. The matchmakers became more ingenious in the dumps for once because the "women" were perverted. What is this cane? He does not have BGN 500 to pay the bill and his car is cheap. It is very difficult to find a man on the spot. And when you get up at 30-35 you remember to turn the house. Drink your "nepukism" and see what kind of world we live in.
"Don't hold back what goes away and don't push away what's coming. Then happiness will only find you ...!" Omar Khayyam
Well, I don't know, I think he will start to have feelings for you, but you will have already experienced it and most likely accepted it as a friend. In principle, this is always the case, feelings diverge. Girl of 19.
I doubt that if you treat him like a friend, you will achieve what you want and you will ignite other feelings. This is more likely to happen if you distance yourself.
maybe in this case you are toxic to the person and only wants sex from you ...., once you leave, then they leave you ..., the wheel turns, in this case you are from two watermelons on the ground ...
In the end, what happened? What has changed in yourself? Did you overcome both? Are you ready for a new experience or are you sad for both of you now?
Thanks for the comments! My ex-boyfriend allowed himself to beat me and I endured too much time, I don't give him 2 stotinki anymore, as much as I cried and suffered, his time passed. I will not tell details in order not to be recognized by chance - I'm 16, he is 19, but we talked, I understood why he said these things, things smoothed out and we go calmly in the direction of a happy and healthy relationship, I hope it happens!