It's about my mother and her husband. My biological father and I broke up about 15 years ago and she remarried 5 years ago. The man she married also has a daughter 2 years older than me. At first we got along well, but then the girl started behaving rudely and her father didn't tell her anything (she had been quite spoiled since she was a child). The real problem is that my mother and her husband are constantly arguing. He did not pay enough attention to his family, spent more time outside than at home and the like. Sometimes my mother is angry about small things and makes an elephant out of a fly, but there are times when she is right in her accusations. And I know that bothers her a lot. She can't express all her feelings and fears that their marriage will sink again, but I can feel it. I feel terrible that I can't help them. Please, I know that there are mature people on the site who may have experienced similar things as well, and if they can give me some advice on how I can fix things between them, I will be extremely grateful. I just don't want my mother to be disappointed in her marriage again, because after the separation from my biological father she was quite hurt and lost faith in people, and now that she has just regained it, I don't want to lose her again. I want to see her happy, not thinking about wondering what to do and whether what she is doing is right. I think that's all I can write. If you have any tips I will be happy to read them. because after the separation from my biological father she was quite hurt and lost her faith in people, and now that she has just regained it, I don't want to lose her again. I want to see her happy, not thinking about wondering what to do and whether what she is doing is right. I think that's all I can write. If you have any tips I will be happy to read them. because after the separation from my biological father she was quite hurt and lost her faith in people, and now that she has just regained it, I don't want to lose her again. I want to see her happy, not thinking about wondering what to do and whether what she is doing is right. I think that's all I can write. If you have any tips I will be happy to read them.
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Is there any chance that you will "play" it in a team with your step-sister? You could together ... for example, prepare a surprise for them - a romantic dinner for two with a questionnaire at the table, which they will have to answer. 1. Why are you together? What was your goal? What is it now? Do you still love each other? What do you (you and your sister) think about us and your future? How do you think we feel? ... When / if you prepare something similar for them, leave them, if possible, alone in the apartment or at least in the room. When they cannot come up with answers on their own, you push them. If your sister doesn't want to get involved, do it yourself or talk about it with the two of you together or separately. Don't ask for answers for yourself, they should be the first to talk and clarify!
hello, share a few things you most often argue about. so we will understand how serious the problem is! I think they are solvable - if they really are, with a little will they will be solved. But they both have to sit at the same table - to say what they don't like about the other and to make mutual compromises! You yourself say that your mother is sometimes guilty too. So both will compromise on something and you're done!
You can hardly help them. This is their relationship. Just be there for her and support her in difficult times.
Ahhh, NO! You have no business in their relationship! Definitely and unequivocally!
What would be their advice if they read this?