I have a problem that I want to share with you and if anyone can help me with advice. I have been dating a man 18 years younger than me for a year. It's true that I didn't expect anything from him in the future, but I was happy when he hugged me, kissed me, etc., I just loved his young body. We recently broke up and I now feel the need for intimacy, but I can't think of having sex with another man. And my body provokes me and wants its own. If it's a question, there is someone to call and have sex, but I don't want that. I need to do not only sex, but love. I want the man I'm with to love me and I to love him and make love to oblivion, and now I'm alone and just crying. And so I want to give my love to someone ...
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Painfully familiar feeling. I'm almost in the same situation, with small differences, of course. What else can I say but try (as much as possible) to be strong. There are other men, but ..... it's not like "my" boy. That's right, we know what will happen to us, and when it happens we suffer from a previously lost cause.
And what are you waiting for when you stay at home and cry? Someone come and tell you, "Here I am. I'm coming to love and be loved!", Right? Go "hunting" and you will find love! By standing at home and crying, nothing will happen. In the meantime, masturbate to calm the carnal desires and cool the passions! : * Good luck in your search!
And this will happen. He just wants time. First, start going out and having fun with friends. When you smile, you attract the people around you. So you will imperceptibly find what you are looking for. And I felt the same. You can't hold someone against their will so stop crying. Imagine how the man of your life can come out from behind every corner and smile. You don't want to be seen angry and swollen with tears. Just try - it's easy.
I can't believe you had sex with someone much younger than you. He is your child for God's sake. I don't know what to say except to wish you success and luck ...
Thanks to 1, 2 and 3 for the comments and tips. I know I have to do as you advise me, but I am very sad that I have always had sincere feelings for the man who is with me, and he does not appreciate him. I would turn to № 4 and say - when two people like each other, it doesn't matter what the age difference is. I was with such prejudices, but the "child" refuted them. I realized, albeit late, that when a man likes a woman, it doesn't matter to him what she looks like or how old she is. We're not talking here about getting together to start a family. But the feeling of being with a younger man than you is unique - you feel younger and more vibrant. If you have decided to start a family then this is not the best option. It didn't happen to you, you didn't try.